Coherence: what is it and why you should strive to have it?

Coherence

I just moved my sites to a new, bigger server... made the jump after about eight months of waffling... I waffled because of the money, waffled because of the technical challenge, waffled because I didn't want to do it...

But on New Year's Eve I did it, and was bracing what was going to be a lot of work, but more importantly a rare occasion for me to face the tiger: I am not the smartest person on the planet.

Not even close.

I never was... by the way. But since i have repurposed my brain cells to do the inner work for seeing, I feel stupider, if that is even possible, than before. Continue reading "Coherence: what is it and why you should strive to have it?"

Amazing TED talks to enrich your concept of emotions, feelings, and self-image

Here is one... what makes it stand out is the passion, and the using of sound effects... her own voice, really authentic... I really loved it.

I am on a roll... I will be watching, and posting if I find the TED talk useful.

Two things about this coming TED talk: the more views a talk has, the more the talker speaks the common man's language, beliefs, and stuff... words that are inaccurate.

Regardless, this is a good talk. Not excellent, but good, and worth your time.

I always check if my female students will relate to it... and if it is a yes, I'll post it.

This one passed the test... Even if you never got anything I said in The Playground, you'll benefit from this one... so please watch it. It can change your life, and start you on the path to what you always wanted: freedom, easy, power... Continue reading "Amazing TED talks to enrich your concept of emotions, feelings, and self-image"

Why your clarity-vocabulary number is so predictive of your success, happiness, and life enjoyment?

If what we need is a larger vocabulary so we don't fall into the trap of the mind where everything is the same as everything else, that it makes a lot of sense to start, as soon as you can, building a larger vocabulary.

With every new word a large chunk of the invisible reveals itself... priceless.

Here is the first word:

Jaunty. 1. könnyed and 2. vidám in Hungarian, I have to admit that in the past 37 years since I left Hungary, I haven't seen anyone Jaunty... Maybe I saw them obnoxiously loud and too much smiling... but jaunty?

Jaunty is having or expressing a lively, cheerful, and self-confident manner, cheerful, cheery, happy, merry, jolly, joyful, gleeful, glad. It is not the forced jolliness of pretense. And it is not the drunken glibness of the party. It is beautiful and it is natural. And I am, occasionally that, but haven't had a word for it.

When I look at people's reaction to it, they cheer up and smile with you... Continue reading "Why your clarity-vocabulary number is so predictive of your success, happiness, and life enjoyment?"

Priceless suggestion for a project for the 20-day challenge

Here is a suggestion for your first 20-day skill building challenge:

Clean up your life, in just 20 days... with the "not giving a f*** method

Priceless. Brilliant. It works... Continue reading "Priceless suggestion for a project for the 20-day challenge"

What does Tai Lopez mean by cabbage mind? does he know what he is talking about?

This is an important post... Either read it thoroughly, or just skip it... Please. OK?

Every Sunday morning, for the past 12 years, I have been having a 90 minute conversation with a guy who I met at Pam Ragland's Quantum Thought Shifting course back in 2007.

I have been recording those calls... I call them Sunday Rants... because that is, pretty much, my only chance to rant and rave about things, people, frustrations, disappointments, and return to sanity, week after week. Continue reading "What does Tai Lopez mean by cabbage mind? does he know what he is talking about?"

How to set yourself up for winning in the 20-day skill-learning challenge?

OK, confession time: I have never inspired a challenge, and I am not exceptionally good at doing anything like this, but...

But with the limited knowledge and experience I have, let me share with you some of the ideas of winning, and some of the reasons for failing I know will come up:

1. it is your life. It is your 20 days. You start when you are ready to start. And don't forget: you do it for yourself!

How do you know you are ready? Continue reading "How to set yourself up for winning in the 20-day skill-learning challenge?"

Everybody teaches you the shadow-work of Plato’s Cave not reality that casts the shadows.

Confession: You can never get a cup of tea large enough or a book long enough to suit me

One of your most defining characteristics as a person is, whether you are an optimist or a pessimist.

But the common, and ordinary way to look at those attitudes is inane... as in stupid and near-sighted.

Most words are defined with unreality as their focus... when you'll start to see it, that is when your vocabulary start to hit the level where you can actually see some of reality, not just the "map" of reality. Continue reading "Everybody teaches you the shadow-work of Plato’s Cave not reality that casts the shadows."

How you do anything is how you do everything

if you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's planHow you do anything is how you do everything. I can spend five minutes with you and can tell your chances for success, for love, for money... even without measuring your vibration. Just by observing you...

You can also watch your behavior. Observe it when you can, observe it when I ask you to.

Now, go back to the article, Not all complaints are created equal... or just think about the word "complaint."

Watch if your knee jerk reaction is to turn away from it.

MY knee jerk reaction is to tell you to go away. But I've noticed it, and I know that asking you to leave will want you to stay... so I'll just shut up, and let you fall off by yourself.

You know the joke:
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The greased chute… or what is the fastest way to lose your vibrational frequency?

What is the fastest way to devolve... the greased chute to lose your vibration? To move yourself to the horizontal plane...

  • Sometimes I write articles to solve an issue for myself... Tai calls this chess-like assiduity... lol.
  • Sometimes I write articles to address and issue one or more clients are dealing with... and help them solve it for themselves. Because, remember, when things don't go well... there is something that you don't know/don't see
  • And sometimes I write articles to prevent an issue for a client, and issue that is predictably coming.

This article fits category two and three... Some clients are struggling with an issue the other clients are about to encounter...

The issue is devolving. Greased chute to hell... Not a happy issue, is it?

So, let's get starting.
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Some more invisible elements of reality: where has the spark gone?

I, occasionally, maybe twice a week, get listless...

So I have been looking into what this listlessness really is. Is it an emotion? Is it a feeling? Where is it coming from?

It's an unpleasant feeling. Not restful... quite the opposite, it makes me want to get rid of it. Continue reading "Some more invisible elements of reality: where has the spark gone?"