Raise Your Vibration with Sophie https://www.yourvibration.com The Empath's Guide to Becoming Worth A Damn Thu, 18 Aug 2022 13:47:20 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.0.1 Sophie is a true empath. With personal vibration over 900, and a use of her brain of over 70%, he has constant contact with Source, whatever that is, to get guidance to take humanity to the next evolutionary level. The podcast is her blog articles made audible... Raise Your Vibration with Sophie clean episodic Raise Your Vibration with Sophie sophie@yourvibration.com sophie@yourvibration.com (Raise Your Vibration with Sophie) The Empath's Guide to become a Human Being Raise Your Vibration with Sophie http://mavensophie.com/images/itunes.pnghttps://www.yourvibration.com Transformational methods to get you unstuckhttps://www.yourvibration.com/8496/get-unstuck/ https://www.yourvibration.com/8496/get-unstuck/#respond Thu, 18 Aug 2022 13:45:26 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=8496Or how to set the context to alter the story and therefore alter your actions? Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective. You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, and therefore you see, always, the same old, same old life: good or bad, … Continue reading "Transformational methods to get you unstuck"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/8496/get-unstuck/feed/ 0 Or how to set the context to alter the story and therefore alter your actions? Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective. - You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, Or how to set the context to alter the story and therefore alter your actions?<br /> Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective.<br /> <br /> You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, and therefore you see, always, the same old, same old life: good or bad, the same.<br /> The Sideways Method<br /> I have taught you previously a move, that can transform your reality, the sideways view.<br /> <br /> Transformation simply means that from one moment to the other, what you see changes.<br /> <br /> Your actions are ALWAYS consistent with what you see, not with your beliefs, not with your thoughts, not with reality, but what you see.<br /> <br /> And what you see is what we call in this work 'occurrence'. Occurrence has a little bit of 'what happened, what is happening' in it and a lot of 'what you say about it'.<br /> <br /> Depending on your level of arrogance, you are effective or ineffective in life.<br /> <br /> Arrogance in this context is considering your opinion, your commentary, your meaning, and therefore the occurrence the same as reality.<br /> <br /> Occurrence is often called 'your personal reality'... which is a misnomer: it is not reality at all.<br /> <br /> Arrogance calls things wrong or right, nice or nasty, enough or not enough, missing, etc. All things that do NOT exist in reality.<br /> <br /> Arrogance is what calls something a threat.<br /> <br /> When you see threat, you respond accordingly. You attack. Or argue. Or justify. You never consider that you are fighting windmills...<br /> So Transformation's job is to alter what you see. To alter what you say about things so you can be more effective in life.<br /> But how do you alter what you see? If what you see is what gives you the attitude and the action then we need to learn how to change, how to alter what we see so we can have an attitude and take actions that makes us more effective in life.<br /> <br /> The two ways I teach to change what you see are<br /> <br /> <br /> Looking from a sideways view, so what you see is different. And what you SAY is different.<br /> <br /> <br /> Change the backdrop against which things happen. Backdrop is context. When you change the context, the MEANING of what you see changes.<br /> <br /> Let's say that you feel that you are threatened... something or someone is threatening your life.<br /> <br /> If you manage to look at the situation from the sideways, you just removed yourself from the line of attack, and can take appropriate actions... like see that in fact someone is just talking. And that maybe they are afraid. Or they are angry, frustrated, but your life isn't in danger.<br /> <br /> Let's say you are in a situation where someone is smiling at you, and does everything to make you feel loved.<br /> <br /> If you manage to look at the situation from the side, pull yourself out of the emotional influence, you may be able to see that you are manipulated, and the other person is trying to get you to give him something.<br /> <br /> You can see stuff from the side that you cannot see when you are in the picture. Why? Because threat, manipulation distorts your view. You already KNOW what is happening, what WILL happen... even though it may not be so.<br /> <br /> This is especially useful for you if you consider yourself abused, a victim. I used to feel like a victim... a victim of abuse, and acted it out, until I learned this sideways view method... That has set me free.<br /> <br /> <br /> Changing the Context<br /> <br /> <br /> I have shared with you the tennis ball demonstration and the clumsy Ph.D. but here you go again:<br /> The speaker on the stage asks for a volunteer for an experiment. The volunteer needs to be clumsy. I have experienced this exercise myself, but I'll use another person so you don't think it is only MY experience.<br /> A woman raises her hand. Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 10:04
Inner peace… is it possible for you? The sideways viewhttps://www.yourvibration.com/18842/inner-peace/ https://www.yourvibration.com/18842/inner-peace/#comments Wed, 17 Aug 2022 12:20:48 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=18842Inner Peace is elusive. It’s elusive like health. What do you call peace? The lack of war? What do you call health? Lack of illness? Imagine that you are walking in a forest, on a footpath on a beautiful summer day. The birds are chirping. There is a slight breeze. There is peace. And you … Continue reading "Inner peace… is it possible for you? The sideways view"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/18842/inner-peace/feed/ 1 Inner Peace is elusive. It's elusive like health. What do you call peace? The lack of war? What do you call health? Lack of illness? - Imagine that you are walking in a forest, on a footpath on a beautiful summer day. The birds are chirping. Inner Peace is elusive. It's elusive like health.<br /> What do you call peace? The lack of war? What do you call health? Lack of illness?<br /> <br /> Imagine that you are walking in a forest, on a footpath on a beautiful summer day. The birds are chirping. There is a slight breeze. There is peace. And you may know that animals are hunting, eating another, and yet there is peace.<br /> <br /> It seems that peace is when you are OK with how it is, good, bad, ugly, you are OK. When a ball comes your way: you catch it. And when a branch blocks your way, you bend it away. When there is a climb in the path, you climb. When a stone gets in your shoe, you shake it out. No resistance. Life is good.<br /> If you can bring that OK-ness...<br /> If you can bring that OK-ness to your work, to your home, to your driving, to watching stupid people say stupid things, to making mistakes, to your weight, to your money, then you have a chance to say that you have inner peace.<br /> <br /> Now, let's look what else would we experience as no-peace?<br /> <br /> My experience is that every time you live inside the gap of how it is and how it SHOULD be, you are not at peace.<br /> <br /> The 'not how it should be' can be about yourself, any aspect of you.<br /> It could be about your relationships<br /> It could be about a person or people in general<br /> Maybe even about the weather...<br /> It is very often about greed... wanting what belongs to another.<br /> <br /> A not so obvious example of no chance for peace<br /> I read an article today written by a CEO and founder of a beverage company. A woman.<br /> <br /> Her beverage flavors the water to make it drinkable.<br /> <br /> She could actually, authentically say that the Hint Water is good for you... but in its present state it isn't. It just makes the harmful low vibration tap water go down easier. Like soda. Like coffee. Or like tea. Easy to drink way to deplete your energy.<br /> <br /> As I often do, I went for a walk to allow myself the space to feel her, connect to her deeply, connect to the idea of cooperation.<br /> <br /> This is what I saw:<br /> <br /> In her greed she would not be able to see that win-win-win is the most pleasant and profitable state a business or a person can have. She'd rather not have anyone else win, not even that her consumers win.<br /> <br /> She has the classic signs of greed... a tightening of the throat muscles.<br /> <br /> So, what can you learn from this?<br /> What would you have to do, if you wanted to have peace, on a continuous basis...<br /> Like a life that is like an oasis in the midst of a chaotic world?<br /> <br /> Not like a few moments of it, but 24/7 or close to it?<br /> <br /> What would you have to master?<br /> <br /> Here is the first step on list. Honestly, I could tell you to implement the serenity prayer in your life, but after watching thousands of people repeat it like a mantra, while they were suffering, I would do you a disservice.<br /> <br /> So, let me break it down for you.<br /> The most important thing you can do is to learn to watch yourself and life from a third party's, the Watcher's perspective.<br /> I've been calling this 'sideways glance'.<br /> <br /> The Watcher is impartial. The Watcher only sees what is, and sees none of what should be. It also doesn't see wrong... it sees what is, and wrong is an interpretation.<br /> <br /> If you want peace, you MUST live in that third party place. It disengages the ego's power, it disengages the emotions' influence on you. It disengages the mind's monopoly over you.<br /> <br /> When you start to identify yourself with the Watcher, life starts to lose its drama, you start to lose your chains, you starts to get you your power back.<br /> Heaven is a life lived from the Watcher's perspective.<br /> From that perspective you can experience love, pleasure, success, fulfillment, intimacy, Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 4:27
The sideways glance that raises your vibrationhttps://www.yourvibration.com/488/sideways-glance/ https://www.yourvibration.com/488/sideways-glance/#respond Tue, 16 Aug 2022 13:11:30 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=488The Sideways Glance is The Key To Raising Your Consciousness Raising Your Vibration I watched a movie last night. Stayed up watching it till 1:30 am. Way past my bedtime, because it was urgent for me to watch it. lol. I knew there was something very important in it for me to get. but what? … Continue reading "The sideways glance that raises your vibration"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/488/sideways-glance/feed/ 0 The Sideways Glance is The Key To Raising Your Consciousness Raising Your Vibration I watched a movie last night. Stayed up watching it till 1:30 am. Way past my bedtime, because it was urgent for me to watch it. lol. - The Sideways Glance is The Key To Raising Your Consciousness Raising Your Vibration<br /> I watched a movie last night. Stayed up watching it till 1:30 am. Way past my bedtime, because it was urgent for me to watch it. lol.<br /> <br /> I knew there was something very important in it for me to get. but what?<br /> <br /> I had seen this movie, back in Hungary, 50 years ago.<br /> The movie is called 'The Lawyer'<br /> <br /> There are two important elements relevant to your life in this movie.<br /> The two crucial elements that are relevant to my life and to you. Let's see the lessons the movie teaches.<br /> <br /> The movie is about the conviction and subsequent acquittal of a doctor accused of murdering his wife.<br /> <br /> The prosecutor's team is so sure that the doctor is guilty, they don't do any investigation. None.<br /> In spite of that, the jury finds the doctor guilty... Based on only circumstantial evidence that tells a likely story.<br /> <br /> The doctor appeals the decision.<br /> <br /> Preparing for the appeal the lawyer's team does all the work of investigation they can do in the sixties... which is not a whole lot, but something-something.<br /> <br /> The closing words of the defense (pay attention) is that 'the American judiciary system says: when the accused walks in he is innocent unless proved guilty, beyond a reasonable doubt.'<br /> <br /> And the lawyer then tells the story of 'what really happened', an alternative story, another likely story, another interpretation of the same circumstantial evidence.<br /> A likely story...<br /> A second story just as likely, just as probable, just as believable, as the first one that was used to convict the doctor.<br /> <br /> A story where other people had the motive, the opportunity and the means to commit the murder. Every single element is accounted for and explained... just like before, but with a different interpretation.<br /> <br /> And the jury this time acquits the doctor, because the existence of two believable stories, two possible interpretations, made neither of the stories beyond a reasonable doubt.<br /> <br /> And that was the first lesson. That the same pieces of information, the same pieces of happenings can be put together more than one way. Which means: neither of them is the truth, or at least we don't know what the truth is.<br /> A Sideways Glance At The World<br /> The first time I encountered this phenomenon was in an inspired moment, back in 1987. <br /> I was at a week long class. Between two exercises my group had to wait, so our leader suggested that we sit down and allow our minds to clear.<br /> As I was sitting, I thought that I had never revisited the incident when my father molested me. This was as good a time as any. We were on a beautiful mountain, the weather was mild, the colors of the fall were exploding... perfect time.<br /> My mind chose to look at the incident as if it were part of a historical exposition in a museum: the museum visitors separated from the scene by a velvet rope only. I watched from the side...<br /> I was watching the scene unfold, the little girl with curly hair, one sock slipped down, screaming, her mouth full of goop. There was no sound. It was like a silent movie. And it was funny... A lot like those cream-pie-in-your-face movies. Funny to look at, but you don't really want to be the one with the pie in your face.<br /> <br /> I remembered the incident that 'it was horrible.' Not funny, but horrible...<br /> Funny. Horrible. Funny. Horrible. It can't be both... either one or the other... Or maybe neither?<br /> And in that moment I was free from that whole experience... it was just what happened. <br /> I have been able to maintain the sideways glance, the museum scene. Without the funny, though.<br /> The lawyer in the movie, because of his sideways position, look at what happened from the sidelines. And with the exact same circumstantial evidenc... Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 6:08
You’d rather be right than be happy or rich…https://www.yourvibration.com/1240/be-right/ https://www.yourvibration.com/1240/be-right/#comments Mon, 15 Aug 2022 14:56:36 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=1240You’d rather be right than happy, you’d rather be right than rich… Your microexpressions will give you away I had a few remarkable experiences the past few days. The conclusions from these experiences make me mad, angry, bitter, and hopeless… but that should not surprise you: the condition of humanity is hopeless. I am watching … Continue reading "You’d rather be right than be happy or rich…"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/1240/be-right/feed/ 2 You'd rather be right than happy, you'd rather be right than rich... Your microexpressions will give you away - I had a few remarkable experiences the past few days. - The conclusions from these experiences make me mad, angry, bitter, You'd rather be right than happy, you'd rather be right than rich... Your microexpressions will give you away<br /> <br /> I had a few remarkable experiences the past few days.<br /> <br /> The conclusions from these experiences make me mad, angry, bitter, and hopeless... but that should not surprise you: the condition of humanity is hopeless.<br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> I am watching people from the fifth floor evolutionary level, doing what they do on the street (pedestrian) level, act the way they act, like a moron. Don't blame me. If you were watching your life from where I am watching from, you would not make the same moves, I promise you. Actually: I guarantee you.<br /> <br /> One of the things I discovered is that many people think that they are ALREADY connected<br /> <br /> They are legends in their own mind. They will protect where they are, however low or high that place may be.<br /> <br /> You can't train people who already know.<br /> When someone wants to be trained, one needs to declare themselves, temporarily, incompetent in the subject.<br /> Otherwise they are going to resist the training, or spend all their time fitting what they hear into what they already know. Neither of those is 'getting trained.' Remember, most training is the willingness to try something on. Like a jacket in the clothing store. But if you leave your jacket on, pretending to try on a jacket on top of it, it won't fit, will it?<br /> This is what most people do, and it is driving me bonkers.<br /> Then again, some things that happened were quite promising, even if they were few and far between.<br /> <br /> One promising thing actually happened to me, personally.<br /> <br /> I have been watching and re-watching the 'Lie to Me' TV series, seeing more and more with every viewing.<br /> <br /> But yesterday I was nudged by Source (out of nowhere) to watch a British, Victorian age series, about some girl Tilly... who had to deal with being accused of being a witch, whatever witch means.<br /> <br /> I watched it for about half an hour and then I couldn't watch it any longer.<br /> <br /> I descended into an inner hell, for about 5 hours. In those 30 minutes of the movie, she escaped two attempts to rape, and she was in the middle of the third, when I closed my browser. She was gossiped about, learned to dance, lost the man she loved to another woman... No, thank you, not for me, not now, not ever...<br /> <br /> Hell. I closed the browser but I didn't close my mind. The scenes were playing in my mind, and I felt every pain known to a woman. Anguish, fear, anger, longing, fury... you name it I felt it.<br /> Most people when strong feelings come up, they hide from them.<br /> They run from them, they outwit them, depending on their emotional age. I decided to be an adult, and I faced the strong feelings.<br /> <br /> To allow these feelings ravage me was painful, but I hung in there, and felt what I needed to feel.<br /> <br /> I own a book I never read, but just caught a glimpse of it the night before while I was searching for something good to read... 'Feelings Buried Alive Never Die.' What a title, and what a perfect match. No accidents here. It was time.<br /> <br /> I didn't take my remedy. Why? Because buried feelings never die... and this was an un-burying ceremony. Lasted for five hours, and once I could feel what I never allowed myself to feel, it was gone, and I am my happy self again.<br /> I have made a few distinctions from this feeling incident, and I'd like to share them with you.<br /> The two most important distinctions I was able to glean were:<br /> <br /> When you suppress something, like a feeling, you suppress everything.<br /> <br /> You can't just suppress pain, anger, envy... you need to suppress everything. As a result you are a walking dead, useless for you and others. This has been true for me, and I am, as you can see, still working on it.<br /> <br /> Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 6:41
A new lease on life. How I got, unexpectedly, what joy ishttps://www.yourvibration.com/21223/joy-2/ https://www.yourvibration.com/21223/joy-2/#comments Sun, 14 Aug 2022 17:30:48 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=21223Last night I had a conversation with myself and Source. As I shared in my previous post, I have lived my whole life based on an untrue assumption that I was living on borrowed time, and at any time it can be taken away. I saw that life needs to be set up in a … Continue reading "A new lease on life. How I got, unexpectedly, what joy is"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/21223/joy-2/feed/ 2 Last night I had a conversation with myself and Source. - As I shared in my previous post, I have lived my whole life based on an untrue assumption that I was living on borrowed time, and at any time it can be taken away. - Last night I had a conversation with myself and Source.<br /> <br /> As I shared in my previous post, I have lived my whole life based on an untrue assumption that I was living on borrowed time, and at any time it can be taken away.<br /> <br /> I saw that life needs to be set up in a way that matches that base assumption: don't own anything, travel lightly, don't get attached, don't... don't... don't...<br /> <br /> Don't love deeply...<br /> <br /> All to avoid personal loss. Because all can be taken away in a heartbeat.<br /> <br /> It's not that 'they' rob you, you are preemptive: you don't allow you to have anything.<br /> <br /> This sums up my life pretty accurately.<br /> <br /> So, the conversation, last night, was about what was the biggest missing that I can put back in now.<br /> <br /> We settled on joi de vivre (French for 'joy of living', joy of being alive). Source said I can have it.<br /> <br /> Activating a feeling and a behavior consistently delivering that feeling is much like activating a capacity after it is turned on... it takes attention, awareness, and action.<br /> <br /> Of course, you don't quite know what action, but you'll see it.<br /> <br /> It started when I jumped under the frigid covers on my bed, cold, miserable, panting.<br /> <br /> Then I had the thought that I could actually enjoy it, feel it, like an adventure. I could allow joi de vivre to call the day, not the shock of the cold covers.<br /> <br /> That I had a choice.<br /> As it turns out, 'joy of life' or even simply joy or happiness is a choice.<br /> It doesn't come from the circumstance, it comes from within... the willingness to pay attention to what is enjoyable, while having room, having permission for the not enjoyable to be there as well.<br /> <br /> You can't have joy if your attention is on trying to will away what you don't like.<br /> You can't have joy if you simply tolerate what you don't like.<br /> And, of course you can't have joy if you are just surviving what you are going through.<br /> You can't have joy unless you allow what is, and then find something enjoyable in the situation.<br /> <br /> I have been really good at finding funny in situations. And now I can add: finding the enjoyable.<br /> 28 years ago I was really depressed when the phone rang. A person I didn't know called. The conversation went in unexpected ways: she suggested that I would benefit from attending ACOA, adult children of alcoholics. No one drinks in my family... but when she read to me the symptoms, they fit.<br /> <br /> The first and most important symptom is 'I don't know what fun is'<br /> <br /> I didn't know what people meant by fun. I am, just now, starting to see, that what people call fun is the enjoyment of what one is doing, what one is experiencing, in the moment.<br /> <br /> But what people call fun all comes from the belief that fun is a result of something outside of you, something you do, something you take or eat or drink.<br /> <br /> So it is not joy... Joy is a result of choice. Choosing where to put the attention, while allowing everything else to remain the same. Choosing is finding. Finding something to enjoy.<br /> Joy is NOT addictive. Fun is. Happiness is.<br /> Addictive means: you need to have more and more of it to have the same effect on you...<br /> <br /> Joy doesn't say 'what'. It goes and looks for something to enjoy...<br /> <br /> When you want to. Your joy comes from within... not from without. Joy is in you, up to you...<br /> <br /> And for the first time in my life... I am going to choose joy.<br /> <br /> At the risk of falling in love with life...<br /> <br /> Want to find out what is stopping you from living life joyously?<br /> <br /> <br /> Let's find out why you are not happy Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 3:27
What is the difference between you and someone smarter?https://www.yourvibration.com/76590/smarter-5/ https://www.yourvibration.com/76590/smarter-5/#respond Sat, 13 Aug 2022 15:04:50 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=76590Do you think it would be worthwhile to learn what is the difference between you and someone really ‘smart’? So you can become smarter, maybe even really smart? Someone really smart makes fewer mistakes in every area of life. They know what to take personally and what not to. They know how to spend their … Continue reading "What is the difference between you and someone smarter?"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/76590/smarter-5/feed/ 0 Do you think it would be worthwhile to learn what is the difference between you and someone really 'smart'? So you can become smarter, maybe even really smart? - Someone really smart makes fewer mistakes in every area of life. Do you think it would be worthwhile to learn what is the difference between you and someone really 'smart'? So you can become smarter, maybe even really smart?<br /> <br /> Someone really smart makes fewer mistakes in every area of life. They know what to take personally and what not to. They know how to spend their money. And they also make smarter choices. They get paid more because they spend more of their time with what produces value. Etc. Etc.<br /> <br /> There was a period of time when my site got a ton of visitors because I had an article about a software that made someone raise their IQ.<br /> <br /> Then I promoted something else to make your brain work better... and again, hordes of traffic.<br /> <br /> Some of those people I got to know. They never got smarter... judging from their results.<br /> So the question that is automatically arises: what makes a smart person smart and a not so smart person not so smart? Is it the brain?<br /> I've always wanted to be smart, ever since I did a stupid move and got hurt when I was about three years old. And I was reasonably smart, but not smart enough.<br /> <br /> Then I did a program that started with a dude screaming: 'For you everything is the same as everything else, except that not always!'<br /> <br /> Whatever that means... right?<br /> <br /> But because it is such a weird sentence, and because it doesn't seem to make any sense, I have been chewing on it for 35 years.<br /> <br /> And, of course, I experimented. Always. Nothing I do is not an experiment.<br /> <br /> What does experimenting mean to me? It means something simple: I do something and observe the consequences. Really observe. I know what I expect, but I also know what I am getting. And store it away for comparison.<br /> <br /> Do it again... until it is reasonably clear why the result is the result.<br /> <br /> One could say: I live consciously. 70% of the time. The 30%: I am not present to much of anything. For example when I read I disappear for about an hour at a time. I read about five hours a day...<br /> In those 35 years my IQ, the way I measure it connected to Source, has gone from 100 to 175.<br /> When I look what is the difference, what I find is surprising.<br /> <br /> My brain is actually worse today than it was 35 years ago. In 1998 I lost 30% of my brain due to parts of my brain not getting blood supply for about an hour. And although I have rebuilt some of the lost abilities, like adding up numbers in my head, I still have less brain mass than I had 35 years ago.<br /> <br /> So if it is not the physical brain then what?<br /> <br /> And surprisingly it comes back to that nonsensical sentence from that course: For you everything is the same as everything else except that not always.<br /> <br /> Today I see more. I see more 'finely'. I can tell similar things apart with certainty and accuracy. I have more distinctions than I had 35 years ago.<br /> <br /> Inside and outside.<br /> Most humans take their sight for granted. I see... they say, and they lie.<br /> It's not conscious. After all they see what they see. But they see very little of what is there, they can tell only roughly what they see, and in addition to that: they see what they see through some expectation, or Tree of Knowledge, so it's not accurate.<br /> <br /> In my programs the first thing anyone needs to engage with is removing the filters. Filters distort what you see... so they make you stupid.<br /> <br /> Filters are invisible to you, but very visible to me who is observing you. You see, you hear only what can come through the filter... distorted.<br /> <br /> And you KNOW that what you see, what you hear is so... and then you take actions based on what you saw or what you heard, and of course they are the wrong actions... not achieving what you intended to achieve.<br /> On the same scale where I clock in at 175, the average IQ of all humans is 70. My students', Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 8:54
Your life-success score is low… how do you raise it?https://www.yourvibration.com/39397/life-success-score/ https://www.yourvibration.com/39397/life-success-score/#respond Fri, 12 Aug 2022 14:52:54 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=39397Your starting point measurements tell me the whole story that you are. And the picture of putting all those starting point measurements together also tells me how humanity as a whole is doing. Pitiful. But why? Most people think that what they do when they are at their best, when they go to church in … Continue reading "Your life-success score is low… how do you raise it?"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/39397/life-success-score/feed/ 0 Your starting point measurements tell me the whole story that you are. And the picture of putting all those starting point measurements together also tells me how humanity as a whole is doing. - Pitiful. - But why? - Your starting point measurements tell me the whole story that you are.<br /> And the picture of putting all those starting point measurements together also tells me how humanity as a whole is doing.<br /> <br /> Pitiful.<br /> <br /> But why?<br /> <br /> Most people think that what they do when they are at their best, when they go to church in their best church-going outfit, when they are smart, nice, funny, or can answer a question right... that that is who they are.<br /> <br /> Or they are that all smiles picture they post on social media, that everyone says: how pretty!<br /> <br /> But instead, who you are is what you do, who you are being, what you listen to, what you read, what you think 93% of the time is the 'who' that gives you the success you have.<br /> <br /> These are the actions you do day in and day out. Not on the holidays, not during the carefully orchestrated events. During the ordinary. The 93%.<br /> <br /> This, that who you are is really the 93%, is true in every area of your life: In health, wealth, love and happiness.<br /> <br /> Hoping that what you do in 7% of your life will make you deserve what you want makes you really one of the<br /> ...billions of Zombies chasing mirages.<br /> How do you design your life for the 93%?<br /> <br /> Example: I carefully keep my indiscretions with food to less than 7%. This way I can be healthy and also experiment. This way I can be healthy and maybe even indulge inside those 7%.<br /> <br /> Here is an experiment I did or really am doing: I've bought a new 'grain'. Teff. The world's smallest seeds, they come from Ethiopia. Bob's Teff flour I bought. I wanted Sorghum, but the store didn't have it.<br /> <br /> Then I made porridge from it, water, salt, and added some butter.<br /> <br /> I ate a little bit... and then got sick.<br /> <br /> I was standing over the toilet bowl poised to vomit... but in the end I didn't.<br /> <br /> My body finally calmed down.<br /> <br /> Will I be able to eat teff porridge in the future? We don't know yet. This is part of my 7% to test certain foods. Just the thought of it makes my stomach tighten up.<br /> The selfish gene doesn't want anything new... lol.<br /> Your integrity is low, you lie to yourself.<br /> One of the reasons your success score is so low is because your integrity is low, and for some of you: non-existent. Zero.<br /> <br /> You think of getting somewhere on time and such trifles mean integrity.<br /> <br /> But unless the 93% of your life is taking you to the best life possible, your integrity is going to be low. Integrity is between you and you... and if you don't take care of yourself, you are cheating yourself.<br /> <br /> Integrity also measures the power of your word... When you want to create yourself, your context, your beingness, your attitude. Without integrity nothing works.<br /> Zombies chasing mirages cannot have integrity. Mirages are mirages, and the chasing takes you away from the best life possible.<br /> If you start a business or course with no foundation, no guidance, no understanding... you are going to fail, guaranteed. There was no integrity in you buying that course, starting that business.<br /> Unless you start increasing the number of hours where your activity, your attitude, your state of being takes you closer to the good life, you are kidding yourself: nothing is going to get better. You are putting on airs. You are putting on a show. Yes, you are pretending.<br /> <br /> <br /> And one of the biggest issues I see is this: you don't know yourself. You think that being smart, buying a book, buying a course will automatically take you to where the book/course promises to take people.<br /> <br /> You think that coming to one of my workshop will do that... and it won't. The workshop is part of your 7% pretend life. What you do in your life, in your 93% is the only thing that will matter.<br /> <br /> Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 11:28
One of the undistinguished urges is ‘cheap closure now’.https://www.yourvibration.com/76543/cheap-closure-now/ https://www.yourvibration.com/76543/cheap-closure-now/#respond Thu, 11 Aug 2022 15:47:12 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=76543One of the undistinguished urges is ‘cheap closure now’. When you are looking for something through a filter, you’ll see nothing else, but what the filter allows you to see. Your filter is most likely your worldview… When you see a problem, you immediately look for a solution… it is human nature to do that. … Continue reading "One of the undistinguished urges is ‘cheap closure now’."

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https://www.yourvibration.com/76543/cheap-closure-now/feed/ 0 One of the undistinguished urges is 'cheap closure now'. - When you are looking for something through a filter, you'll see nothing else, but what the filter allows you to see. - Your filter is most likely your worldview... - When you see a problem, One of the undistinguished urges is 'cheap closure now'.<br /> <br /> When you are looking for something through a filter, you'll see nothing else, but what the filter allows you to see.<br /> <br /> Your filter is most likely your worldview...<br /> <br /> When you see a problem, you immediately look for a solution... it is human nature to do that. But the nature of reality is that every solution comes with a cost. And often the cost is a bigger problem that will plague humanity with huge problems.<br /> One of the worldviews that will match this urge, cheap closure now, is the worldview that says: 'It's not worth it'.<br /> Not worth investing the time and the energy to look deeply and plan out a solution or a path, to do the work, to do anything.<br /> <br /> And then, like the fleas in my office, jump to anything that is warmer than the air. And if I am lucky, it's not my ankles... but the soapy water I put down as a trap. They jump and they perish.<br /> <br /> Today's the predominant worldview is that. It's not worth sitting down and enjoying the food, the company, the cool breeze. It's not worth learning to cook. learning a skill? Ditto, it's not worth doing anything that takes time and effort. It's not worth contemplating anything. It is not worth doing the hard work of thinking... And you can add your own 'it's not worth it' ideas... I bet you have a bunch.<br /> <br /> Some people just can't see it's worth it until they see it. With them it is up to me to inspire them, so they can see it.<br /> Others, the majority, won't even look... they don't think anything is worth it... especially if it can be gotten without work, without effort, without investment.<br /> <br /> People who never amount to much, people who need to be told what to do i.e. they have a job, have this in spades. Because if it is not worth it, then the person won't be inspired to do it, their spirit is dead or plays possum.<br /> And, of course, the nature of reality is that what you really want is on the other end of effort, effort over time, and not instant.<br /> In fact we humans never appreciate anything instant. When I say 'appreciate' I go to the root of the word: 'consider it precious', i.e. value it.<br /> <br /> In fact humanity as a whole has no capacity at present to value anything, or to even see that they could.<br /> <br /> You don't value yourself, you don't value your time, you don't value the other person.<br /> <br /> Just imagine yourself walking up the steps. Do you value the steps? You don't. You take it for granted. But without the steps you wouldn't have access to upstairs, or wherever the steps go... But then you don't appreciate, you don't value where you got upstairs either.<br /> <br /> Interestingly the DNA capacity is called RESPECT... that simply means: after you looked once, you suspect that there is something there to see, and you look again, now deeper. With a different attitude. To value. To appreciate. And to really see what's there.<br /> <br /> No one looks twice, or when they do, they have the already always attitude that they know... that there is nothing there. Arrogance.<br /> It is not just a DNA capacity, it is also a worldview... and a habit.<br /> 47% of the people who I send an email every day never miss an email. Out of those 20% are participating. The 80% say: 'it is worth reading an article, but it is not worth to do anything with it. It won't do anything for me, or won't take me instantly where I want to go.'<br /> <br /> What number in the soul correction does that most likely? My bet is on the number 3... but then again number two is also suspect, because number two, as a rule, doesn't want to give as much as they want to get... they insist on doing less... maybe much less... maybe nothing.<br /> <br /> As you can tell, I am on a journey to ferret out the numerological aspect of soul correction.<br /> <br /> In the eventually happening (I hope) New Soul Co... Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 4:14
The other destabilizing energy: the energy of the urgeshttps://www.yourvibration.com/76497/urges/ https://www.yourvibration.com/76497/urges/#respond Wed, 10 Aug 2022 15:14:06 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=76497Yesterday I wrote about the destabilizing energy of avoiding, fighting, resisting. The enemies of having a good life, having a productive life. The enemies of being able to concentrate your energies on what you are working on. There is a whole other type of energy that works the opposite way… the urges and the cravings. … Continue reading "The other destabilizing energy: the energy of the urges"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/76497/urges/feed/ 0 Yesterday I wrote about the destabilizing energy of avoiding, fighting, resisting. The enemies of having a good life, having a productive life. The enemies of being able to concentrate your energies on what you are working on. - Yesterday I wrote about the destabilizing energy of avoiding, fighting, resisting. The enemies of having a good life, having a productive life. The enemies of being able to concentrate your energies on what you are working on.<br /> <br /> There is a whole other type of energy that works the opposite way... the urges and the cravings.<br /> Both types, the resistance/avoidance and the urges type energies register for me as a jerking energy.<br /> This feels like it comes at an angle to the direction I want to go, the direction I am going... and is a violent pull... really, if you imagine yourself a fish, gently going about your business, a fisherman's hook would feel like that urge... taking you off your path, forcing you to go wherever that fishing line is held by an invisible force.<br /> <br /> Of the two energies this one is more violent...<br /> Yeah, lust, gluttony, greed, powerhunger, competitiveness, the pull to murder...<br /> ....are some examples of that fishing line energies. They scare the bejesus out of me... I bet it is still the 3-year old's reaction.<br /> <br /> These are campaign-like, they don't last long. They last just enough to pull you off your path.<br /> <br /> Clients who are dominated by this fishing line urges, this flaring up energy, never amount to much. They never amount to much because most anything that is worth doing requires steady energy for a long time.<br /> If I had to pick a numerology representation of this energy, I would say it is the number 3.<br /> A man crying<br /> <br /> Flares are those sudden brief bursts of bright flame or light that burn with a sudden intensity, and then burn out.<br /> <br /> 3's, especially need to learn to manage themselves if they want to amount to much.<br /> <br /> The 3's I have the privilege to observe alternate between mild depressive states, like Eeyore the donkey in Winnie the Pooh, and the state of the flare...<br /> <br /> Soul corrections 23, 32, 33, 34, 35 are most frequent in my clients. They all struggle with being consistent, instead of manic depressive... aka bipolar. My soul correction is 34.<br /> <br /> I have known many people with bipolar tendencies. Almost all of them detest the stabilizing agent, Lithium Orotate. They hate it because they are in love with the manic state. In the manic state they feel creative, they feel hopeful. The effect of this energy is very similar to (I am only guessing, never tried it) to the effects of cocaine. Feeling like you can do anything because you are on top.<br /> <br /> I have experienced Dexedrine, or speed while I was a student... Dexedrine, for me, didn't have a mood altering effect. It just helped me do the overnights I needed badly as a student.<br /> 3's, it seems, have a huge need for self-expression, but don't want to have it through work.<br /> Do you have 3 in your soul correction, or do you recognize this urge, this craving? If you want your life to amount to much, you better learn to control your response to urges that are sure to come your way.<br /> <br /> I take Lithium Orotate, and it helps. When the urges show up, and they do, I can now control myself... The urge is short term. So if I can tie myself to the mast, so to say, I am OK.<br /> <br /> The siren's song in the Odyssey, and Odysseus the hero tying himself to his ship's mast is what I am referring here... and yes, the urge is like the siren's song: you obey it, it takes your ship to the rocks.<br /> <br /> Something that is seductive, enticing, or appealing, but that is or may prove to be dangerous, destructive, or disastrous. Alludes to the Sirens of Greek mythology, beautiful sea creatures who lured sailors to their deaths with enchanting music and voices... that is the urges.<br /> For a 3-controlled person doing the mundane, day to day stuff is distasteful.<br /> And unless they can master my strategy by adopting: 'It is all in a day's work' and let go of wanting only do what is exc... Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 6:36
How do I keep my humility high and my about-me score low?https://www.yourvibration.com/76490/about-me-2/ https://www.yourvibration.com/76490/about-me-2/#respond Tue, 09 Aug 2022 20:54:21 +0000 https://www.yourvibration.com/?p=76490How do I keep my humility high and my about-me score low… day to day to day to day? This question came from one of my students in a class. Interestingly none of the other students in the class asked this question. They didn’t ask, even though this may be the most important question to … Continue reading "How do I keep my humility high and my about-me score low?"

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https://www.yourvibration.com/76490/about-me-2/feed/ 0 How do I keep my humility high and my about-me score low... day to day to day to day? - This question came from one of my students in a class. Interestingly none of the other students in the class asked this question. They didn't ask, How do I keep my humility high and my about-me score low... day to day to day to day?<br /> <br /> This question came from one of my students in a class. Interestingly none of the other students in the class asked this question. They didn't ask, even though this may be the most important question to ask, and the most important skill to master.<br /> <br /> You see unless you master this skill... unless you can reduce your about-me score to under 10%, your chances to interact with reality are slim... and for many people the chances are none.<br /> <br /> And, of course, unless you interact with reality and do the things reality suggests you do, you will be poor, you will be wretched, and you will suffer in all the ways possible.<br /> Now, because for me it is an unconscious competence, because I never had to learn it, I have spent the past 24 hours looking.<br /> Looking where? Looking at what I do... how come I don't get hooked for longer than a few minutes even when things don't go well... and given the extreme heat of this summer, given that raccoon on my deck, given the flea infestation and the hundreds bites that itch like hell on my ankles, my ability to not get hooked has been challenged 10-20 times a day.<br /> <br /> The more often you are challenged the more you know you are getting good and skillful at disengaging... People who remain hooked don't get challenged as long as they are on the hook...<br /> You need to be free to look at reality for the hook even to exist.<br /> So what is the hook?<br /> <br /> The hook is also called self-concern: for the loss of something or for the lack of something.<br /> <br /> You are probably more aware of the inverse of the self-concern: wanting to be right, wanting to look good, wanting to be considered relevant, important, smart, good, what have you.<br /> <br /> You want to win, you want to justify, you want to avoid being held responsible.<br /> <br /> It is all the moves of the racket... so we could say that self-concern is just a different way to look at the racket... the machine.<br /> <br /> And, of course just like there are loose machines in Las Vegas, there are people with a very loose machine: they get hooked even from the thought of being slighted, blamed, held accountable, or threatened in any way.<br /> <br /> Let me quickly explain what I mean by inverse. Let's take a glass half full. The inverse of that is a glass half empty. It is the exact same reality, just looked at through a different filter.<br /> <br /> The inverse of the about-me score is humility. If your about-me score is 70%, your humility will be 30%... So they always add up to 100%.<br /> <br /> There is a definition of humility that is good, although it takes more intelligence than is normal to get it.<br /> It says: True Humility Is Not Thinking Less of Yourself, It's Thinking of Yourself Less. -C.S. Lewis<br /> So the self-effacing, humble servant is not really humble... they think themselves and behave as if they were less than the other person... While a self-confident person with personal authority can be humble... because they think of themselves less... they think of things, of people, of ideas, but not themselves.<br /> <br /> I told you it takes considerable amount of intelligence to grok something as counter cultural as that.<br /> <br /> I have been called arrogant by many, maybe even all. But my humility score has been under 10% for decades... while my accusers' was in the high 90's... they were offended by my self-assuredness. They felt it trampled on their self-image of smart, and important... or whatever it was.<br /> <br /> I am going to give you a few examples from the past 24 hours where I got first hooked by a self-concern, and then thought better, and unhooked myself.<br /> Ready?<br /> <br /> I first identified this move back in 1996. Before that time I was spending a lot of my energy to prove that I was smart. Raise Your Vibration with Sophie 6:52