Lack of confidence? Difficulty to trust yourself? This article is a must read if you want to become confident!

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Lacking confidence?

Summary: An enlightened being is confident. Confident in their ability to be a match to whatever life throws at them, and therefore they don’t fret, don’t sit around, they do what it takes to achieve what they set out to achieve.

A confident person can do almost anything. Confidence is not a belief, confidence is a certainty, a KNOWING, and it is a very high consciousness level… it is the capacity to see what isn’t there… because that is what it takes to KNOW that you are a match to anything, and if you fail, you’ll learn from it… just another way to be a match to life.

We could call the process of becoming confident the Path to Enlightenment…

Enlightenment is a process, that could be called becoming an Expanding Human Being… And the path to confidence… the process to become an Expanding Human Being, is finally ready.
And not surprisingly, this is the same path to a higher vibration, all the way from the puny vibration you have now, to the rarefied height of the 900’s, and anything in between.

Confidence_Gap_CoverWhy our established approaches, hypnosis, self-talk, affirmation, talk therapy, energy clearing, etc. don’t do anything to restore us to our glorious selves? And if that doesn’t, what may?

I’ll begin with a quote that will makes sense, that you’ll see how much it relates by the end of the article:

“Why is it so hard to find a soulmate?” asks psychologist Carolyn Godschild Miller in her book “Soulmates.”

Her answer: “Because most of us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder why we aren’t succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren’t looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama.”

I agree with the author in what she say, though her use of ego as aspect of our mind is mistaken.

Confidence is all parts working in harmony

A human has aspects, that are supposed to work together like a well oiled machine, taking care of the survival and growth of the individual, so the species can grow and survive.

That is the intent of Life.




Businesswoman using typewriter

6a00d8341e70ae53ef015432da377c970c-800wiBut with the invention of language, with the invention of interpretation, meaning, humans have fallen into a trap, where things aren’t just what they are, happenings, they become dramas. Melodramas, to be exact.

The language driven life works against confidence

And life isn’t now guided by Life, but it is guided by the mistaken interpretations, by the human invented standards and ideals, that work against Life, work against growth, and promote shrinking and melodrama again.

collective-lack-of-confidenceThere seems to be a truth in the concept of collective subconscious… it is a collection of unrealistic, unloving, uncaring, delusional concepts society and thus the individual sets for themselves and others as standards of achievement, ideals of being.

One of these is the standard to never be wrong, never be off, never be mistaken, never be less than perfect.

Now, if you look at that, it looks like a good thing… but it is debilitating. It glues the poor individual’s eyes on what they aren’t, preventing them to even notice their individual accomplishments, thus robbing them of confidence, and an experience of being valuable, being able, being capable.

Confidence and feeling safe

Yesterday, in the Playground, the topic around which we shared experiences, was “feeling safe.”

Our most dramatic memories all centered around incidents where we stepped out, stepped up to the plate, and shone.

And yet, the memories retained the horror of being judged, by ourselves or by others, being envied, being harassed, and not on the victories themselves.

I had seen before that a “normal” human with a “normal” upbringing, cannot remember seven accomplishments in their lives, and yet, when I look I see hundreds. 1

No energy treatment, no hypnosis, no affirmations change that.

The only thing that can change that is to re-live the incident, and this time pay attention to the accomplishment, at the achievement.

I have never seen a program before that does that, until I created and ran this innocent program, the Playground.

The full title is Playground: it is never too late to have a happy childhood.

It delivers… the past changes, and instead of who you have been for yourself, a failing, tight, imperfect underachiever, you become a real person who has hundreds of achievements under their belt.

Do you think that your relationship to life, relationship to challenges will change as a result? You can bet your sweet a-s-s that it does!

With the Unconditional Love Activator you have gotten the energetic support for this process, reducing the distance between you and you… so you can provide you with the unconditional love that promotes growth, contentment, confidence, and a life worth living.

But the energy can only do so much. The highest anyone has gotten is 40%… But with removing the melodrama the collective subconscious put between you and you, story after story in the Playground, I guarantee that you can become a rare human who, like the fish that walked out to dry land, created a new species.

Humans and human beings are not the same species.

A Human Being is a human who stopped living on the horizontal plane of placing other people’s standards, ideals, and opinions before their own.

The ego the quote talks about is really the collective ego of the current humanity, seven billion humans… and a rare human being, here and there… seven total. I am one of the seven.

How did I become one of the seven? I did the Playground. I did the exercises in the What Color is Your Parachute. I clearly distinguished what this individual wants to do with her life… and I am doing it.

I am here to help you become an Expanding Human Being with unlimited confidence. The technology is ready.

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  1. Seven accomplishments stories are needed for the skill gathering exercise in the What Color is Your Parachute

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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