Be Nice! I love you but... You are rude on the calls, where is the Heaven on Earth that you promise?
From My Mailbox:
I already love you and care for you bc 1 i can feel your heart...way big. The challenge is that the ego is still getting in the way of your delivering the Heaven on Earth and your special talents bringing down energy.
The meditations are rather distracting and the tone you offer to the participants is a turn off.
My wife is not going to be getting on any more bc it was more unsettling (the demeanor with some girl on the call and others) than beneficial.
I am telling you this bc if you are like me you will process this and come up with a more loving solution for your meditations. I felt the same thing Tuesday and my interest weaned in what can truly be a Heaven on Earth. Please understand this is offered with love and not really interested in challenging you to help you grow..just how and what my wife observed. Love
My Answer, Or Better My Musings:
I find it really useful to note that much criticism, most deadly blows come with a disclaimer: I love you, but...
That is the extent our love for our fellow human beings.
This is why the Unconditional Love Activator is such a godsend: it frees you us to just express your displeasure without a disclaimer. That leaves the other person whole and complete, not a rotten apple...
People who use meditation as a nice experience are using it as a drug, and are addicted, probably, to other means of feeling nice, I have no doubt about that.
The main question here is what is the purpose of meditation, and what is the purpose of coming to my calls.
If you are coming to have a nice time, a nice experience, you are better off going to Christie Marie Sheldon. She will serve you well.
I have no commitment to you enjoying the calls. It's OK with me if you do, it is my preference that you do, but no commitment there.
What am I committed to if I am not committed to your experience in the sessions?
I am committed to waking you up. I am committed to call a quickening, an awakening in you. I am doing my darned best to do that. Including strengthening your capacity to stay well and unphased, unfrazzled, untouched when things happen in your environment that are maybe upsetting, like someone being thrown off a call.
All my work, all my products are designed to bring you out of your childish expectation that the world is supposed to be a nice fair place. It isn't: it is not ever going to be.
My flag bears the goal: "A world that works for everyone." But is that statement about changing the world? No. It is changing you! Your perception of reality, your awareness, your way of looking at things.
When your "sky" is that it should be a nice southern style nice-nice, polite, politically correct world, the clouds my sessions are going to be nasty and not what you want. But if you look behind the fake nice-nice, people are back stabbing, and the KKK 2 is from the South too... right?
I teach you, train you, poke you, activate you, and help you with the Heaven on Earth energy bundle to have a blue sky, no shoulds, on which the clouds, dark, fuzzy, pretty, stormy, whatever clouds pass across, but your sky stays the same. No conflict.
But, of course, you need to change to change the sky!
If you are coming to me to help you be happy while staying the same, I will strike you as unreasonable, harsh, and unfriendly.
Like the people on that particular call:
not doing what they were supposed to do... expecting me to do it for them
not reading the sales letter expecting this to a general advice call... and getting upset that it isn't
bringing dark blocking energies to the call, preventing my work to be done, and cursing me out when I ask them to leave
You see, if I could have this work done nice-nice, I would. I wouldn't feel like a tank just ran over my body after every call!
I don't expect this work to be a walk in the park, neither for me, nor for you.
Heaven on Earth on the call equals hell everywhere else!
I'd rather that you consider my classes base camp, boot camp for life: for a great life where you have all the power.
By the way: from now on I am screening the applicants and won't admit anyone whose vibration is under 190.
Both you and your wife are under 190.
Why 190? Because under 190 all you are concerned with is you. You can't see the big picture, and therefore you are not trainable.
I'd prefer to set the threshold lower, but my best student, when she started with me, was at 190... so I don't want to exclude my next best student. By the way, she is at 330 now, after two months.
She came for what's possible, not for a peaceful respite. That's the difference. And I am even nice some of the time, lol.
PS: By the way, my beloved teacher, Robert Plank, is anything but a nice guy. He, in fact, is a real prickly one. So why do I love him so much? Because he forced me to do the work, and because he was more committed to that than being nice.
Nice keeps you the same. "Prickly" has a chance to push you over the resistance and get you moving... so thank you, I don't want to be nice: I want you to be moving.