How you do anything is how you do everything!
A client writes:
Do you check to see if the attachment came back or is this something I have to ask to be done.
My answer: I will check everyone
Unless I didn’t remove an attachment properly (rare) it won’t come back.
yours didn’t come back.
He: Would the activators assist in taking action after you pull the dominant belief pattern if they would you could help match an activator to whatever you pulled from each person.
My answer: The activators could only assist in taking action after I pull the dominant belief pattern but wouldn’t do it for you… i.e. you have to wipe your own arse… the activators only make it easier.
What’s going on? Why won’t removing the “therefore” automatically work for everyone, without them having to do anything differently, get conscious, etc?
Please don’t forget: this is a transformational program: We are doing it together, i.e. co-creative.
This is much like having a heart attack, having a bypass surgery, and going right back to eating the crap you’ve been eating, or stressing over stuff.
Or going to rehab, spending a month or two there, and on your way home stopping by the pub to get a few drinks.
The client in question has never actually had the courage and the intelligence to look at himself. Yeah, it takes courage! It takes intelligence. If you are a coward and “therefore” you close your eyes and hide your head in alcohol, TV, sports, etc. then no matter what I do, you may continue doing what you have always done, not even noticing that you have a choice.
Because all that I can give you is choice. Turn left if you have always turned right. Before me pulling your “twist” you didn’t have a choice. Now you do. Use it.
But… the big but… if you never got conscious of what you are doing, you won’t notice the choice either.
Why? It’s not in their genes, I think it is a societal conditioning. If you are not allowed to weep when you need to weep, if it is not manly enough, you’ll stop being present, you’ll stop feeling, and you become that head up your ass person… unfortunately.
If you have had this “therefore” action guy, you need to get your head out of your ass, and start observing yourself, your behaviors, especially the ones that are “of course I do that, what else is there to do?”
Without self-observation you are stuck, you are screwed, and no one can help you. Sorry.
Same applies to another client who wrote to me: “are there any other products you sell that I can use to help me train myself to get out of my head? Thank you”
He, and most of you, use my products to stay the way you are.
The way to get out of your head is to go somewhere else! Got it?
The way to change is to do something different.
You have been zigging… now zag! You’ve been thinking about stuff? Now observe your feelings, physical, emotional, dance, run, jump!
I cannot do it for you! And neither can my products. Only you can.
I make it easy or easier for you. But still, you have to do it.
If your relationship to yourself and to your life is: someone needs to wipe my ass… then we are not a good match, you are not a good match for life.
Start wiping your ass, and a whole new world will open up for you. A world of personal power.