Not surprisingly, I hope, the difference between homo sapiens (thinking man) and Human Being is this elusive “thing”: beingness.
Beingness does not respond to words.
- Beingness does not respond to words. Not even “declarations!”
- It doesn’t respond to force, not even to force of will.
- It doesn’t really respond to feelings either.
- And: IMPORTANT! is not created by doing
It is a whole different ball of wax. The secret is on the seed level… whatever that means, right? lol
You can give a lot to charity, but not be charitable. You can smile a lot, but not be happy. You can fake it but you will not make it… there is ONE of the many misguiding, misleading slogans.
You can observe it, and yet know nothing about it.
- When a little boy goes to school: something happens inside. He is a big boy now. That is a beingness.
- When you get married
- When you get pregnant
All give the illusory impression that the change outside created the change on the inside.
So people (ignorant? mislead?), gurus, teach you to do just that: change the outside.
And it is as effective, or ineffective, as pinning cherries on an apple tree: the tree will still bring apples… the beingness is “apple tree”. Have you seen a skinny fat person before? Nothing changed inside: the beingness: “I am a fat person” is the root of their existence.
Now, why would you want to attain to this elusive, intangible capacity to BE something? Why is this such a big deal that you should really want to have it?
Because the way you are is not able to give you what you want: peace, love, happiness, fulfillment. For most of you: you aren’t able to make more money, so you can feel good about your life. For many of you: your body is not your friend, not your ally. For some of you: your relationships suck, and you have no freedom.
And if you want to be honest with yourself: you have no idea why.
- It’s not beliefs… no matter what the gurus tell you.
- It’s not even thoughts… you have tried affirmations, they were no help
- It has something to do with feelings… but what and how: you don’t know.
And no one has been able to help you change anything. Actually, all that help has lead to you feeling worse about yourself.
What is the issue?
There are two issues as I see it:
- Issue #1: You live in your head. You overrate thinking. You consider your feelings these bothersome annoying things, that you should get rid of… And you try everything.Chemicals, energies, meditation, going numb, getting busy, and the freaking feelings are just going on, bothering you.
- Issue #2: Your vibration is low. Your intelligence is limited. Your map of reality is out of whack. You have a veritable mess inside you: everything and its opposite, no clarity, no peace.
Now, given that the assignment I got from Source, (whatever the heck Source is, sorry Source… lol. xoxo) the assignment has been to experiment with developing some way that would take you to the place where beingness is in your ability to create.
Why does Source need me? I usually say: because Source doesn’t have a thumb… but that doesn’t help here.
You are supposed to be able to create any of the 160 beingness states that are dormant in your DNA… the same exact ones I call “spiritual capacities”.
Here is a weird example: Seeing the Big Picture… that is a beingness.
Not a doingness, although there is a behavioral aspect to this beingness: people in this state of being are widening their cone of vision, looking at the interaction of many things, see fitting pieces where most people see nothing, because they never looked there.
For the past almost two weeks I have been doing a private experiment.
And this is what the experiment was about, this “but”
- You can jump with your eyes closed
- You can jump with your eyes open but with a narrow cone of vision
- You can jump with your eyes open but seeing the Big Picture
The experiment was to feel the pull to act fast (quick pleasure) but not get stuck there… bring Big Picture beingness to the jumping.
I will never become a planning person. I am bad at it, and it is no fun.
Jumping is fun, brings with it quick elation… Whew, what a ride! lol
- But jumping into an empty pool… is no fun.
- Jumping into a pool full of crocodiles… is no fun
- Jumping into something and then bottoming out… is no fun (This is probably very familiar to many of you)
Seeing the big picture, the beingness, bridges between a pleasure/relief bringing behavior (jumping) and success with a project.
The new beingness I have declared and now am learning to master is this: I figure it out as I go.
This is the name of the beingness: Quickstart with Seeing The Big Picture, “I figure it out as I go”
- Most people alternate between
1. planning, daydreaming, visualizing, focusing, crunching numbers, asking, interviewing people about their opinion… while don’t move = analysis paralysis
- 2. jumping and hurting themselves.
- 3. just hanging out in the status quo, never changing, never doing, but suffering. Because the status quo is painful. They invented it to reduce pain, reduce friction, but it is now holding them back.
Which is to say: the beingness of moving, growing, blossoming needs to start with the Seeing Big Picture capacity.
Some people, when you point out to them a solution to their problem, that is outside of their cone of vision, will move their whole head, and if they can see what you can see, they will take an action.
But now the connection is severed… because they can’t have the two seemingly disparate areas of life in the same picture… One of my students, an artist, is in this place: but she doesn’t feel that connection: the connection between creating art and selling art… for her it is still separate and she doesn’t feel the joy of doing the right thing. Now she is zooming in on marketing… and have abandoned her main source of joy: her art.
Another student gets it and then doesn’t get it. The reality he doesn’t want, doesn’t like, wants to push away doesn’t quite change… even though he accepted my suggestion to look deeper. Why? Because the two pictures don’t combine in him to one big picture… they are separate.
You can “do” seeing the Big Picture… but each time you stop seeing it, you go back into despair, indecisiveness, or do the wrong actions.
When your beingness is “I see the big picture, I act from the big picture, I figure it out as I go”, then you have to make no effort: you just see it.
Now, do you just go there?
Unfortunately you can’t. You need capacities and you need to need them. Trust, self-trust, and not surprisingly the “big picture” capacity. You also need to be able to recognize what you see… which needs you to have an astuteness level, an intellectual level that allows you to do that.
They say the average IQ in the United States is 100.
In the past years, the average IQ, the number, remained 100, but what it means, in comparison with years earlier, that people who rate 100 today would have rated 80 ten years ago. Meaning: the average intelligence of people living in the United States has dropped to 80…
The average intelligence of people living in the United States has dropped to 80…
Why? Your brain, 10 years ago, wasn’t on the amount of distractions as it is now, 24/7.
You had to, consciously, turn on the television, read the newspaper, or pick up the phone to get distracted.
Today, it is on autopilot.
Ten years ago you had what you had… and more or less were happy with it. Your body, your skin, your relationships where what they were…
But today they are all in comparison, and you fall short… and you fall into the desire trap.
- Ten years ago my student would not have the desire to become a billionaire… he would desire to have a good business that meets his and his family’s needs, that allow him to spend a lot of time with his family, and make two trips to other countries a year.
Today he is suffering. Because the desire of becoming a billionaire makes him, in comparison, an underachiever, and makes him hate what he is doing: running a good business that meets his and his family’s needs… etc. Now it is not enough.
He lives in a special kind of desire trap, the Comparison Trap.
But how intelligent, how sharp can one be when one is in a trap?
If you said: not very… you were right.
You see, the world is going further and further away from The Original Design.
I am having a harder and harder time to bring people back in my workshops.
And yet, that is my assignment. “Straight from Source”.
And no plan will be useful.
One of the reasons is this: each plan is to create a solution to a problem on the same level of consciousness that created the problem.
Einstein said it, and I concur (To concur is to agree or approve of something. If someone says something you agree with, you can say “I concur!” 2
So I ran my last workshop without any preparation. Flying without a net. Figuring it out as I went.
One of my most important jobs in the 67 step coaching is to push people so they get off the fence… and put themselves in the position of figuring it out as they go.
And help them turn on the big picture capacity… when I see that they are really needing it.
Flying without a net… lol.
|beingness||Beingness is the next level of human evolution and the home state for Human Being. The current level is homo sapiens… the thinking man who forgot how to use their feelings for anything useful. Many companies claim they teach beingness, but they cannot even teach their own staff… I have been working on a methodology, so far no results. Of course everyone has an automatic, default being… I am a victim, I am proper, I am stupid, Nobody like me… etc. As a guidance and energy source this is as much a beingness as the higher beingness… just totally out of your control. When we say “beingness” we mean something that you can create for yourself to be in the world and attain the results you want to attain.|
|beingness institute||It’s an online/offline training company. Average vibration of the staff: 140. The word “beingness” is put there to dupe you: they are not able to enter beingness…|
|Pure beingness||It’s a misnomer. Beingness is a transitive verb… being something or other. What they mean is that agenda and thought free dreamlike state where only what is, every changing present is perceived, without words either said or thought. It is possible, it’s a great way to rest, but it is not a way you can live in the world unless someone else give you everything you need to live: food, shelter, etc.|
- Or that taking risks gives me an adrenaline rush, pleasurable feeling… I personally think that this is the area where I am a Twitchy Little Bastard, who cannot stand the suspense, the unpleasant feeling of having to think, having to plan, having to wait… But that is based on Feeling science… the science that was created by Margoczi in the book “Feelings”
- Like many words with con, concur has to do with agreement and being together. When you concur, you agree with someone about something or let them know you approve