What to do if you are part of the 70% of humanity who are…

What are good questions to ask of me? tons, actually, but here are a few I just thought off looking at some of the pictures customers send me:

  • What is the cause of the bumps/blemishes on my face?
  • What is the cause of my bad breath?
  • What is the reason I have plaque on my teeth? In my arteries? In my brain?

And the question I want to talk about today is:

Why do you test yes for the Bach energy “#42 No matter what I do: lying to get away with not doing, not giving, with stinginess. A big middle finger to the world. I won’t give you wood, even if you give me heat. haha.”?

Excellent question. I’ll endeavor to examine this issue in this article…

So that you know, I don’t already know the answer. But because 70% of my students test yes for that Bach energy, it may be crucial that I examine what the heck is the common cause. We have the common symptom, let’s see if the cause is common too, shall we?

Did I, myself, ever test yes for that energy? No. It is not part of my DNA.

  • Is it a DNA capacity thing? Yes.
  • Is it part of the Selfish Gene? Yes.
  • Does it have anything to do with the Predatory Genes? No.

The yes’s and the no’s come from muscle testing. I am asking Source these question.

My knowledge is non-existent, pretty much zero in this topic. I have no idea. I see it, but I can’t even, really, relate to it: I never had it.

  • Does it have anything to do with your soul correction? no
  • Does it have anything to do with your horoscope sign? no
  • So it is personal? yes.
  • Is it learned? yes.
  • Does it run, is it learned in the family environment? yes.
  • Does it have anything to do with ethnicity? yes/no…
  • Do some ethnicities in certain environments have it more than in others? yes.

Some 30 years ago I had an assistant who was from Trinidad. She didn’t have it.

  • Do Black people from Trinidad have it as a rule? No
  • Jamaica? 50% yes.
  • The United States? yes.
  • England? 30%

I am starting to see something… but I won’t hurry: there is no hurry on the creative plane.

Let’s look at other ethnicities in the United States…

  • do WAsps have it? 30%
  • Do they have it to a different degree in different parts of the country? yes.
  • In the south? yes
  • In the West Coast? yes
  • In the East Coast? no
  • In the middle? yes


  • So can you say that it’s a cultural thing? yes.
  • Learned? yes.
  • It is the visible (iceberg) part of the issue? yes.

OK, so there is a visible and invisible part… and it’s like an iceberg.

  • Let me guess: Is it powerless? yes.
  • OK, the underlying cause of the “no matter what I do” attitude is a sense of powerlessness? yes.

For some clarity, what is the opposite of powerless?

  • Is it powerful? yes/no
  • Is it taking an active role in one’s fate? yes
  • Is it, what we call in my work, the attitude of causing? YES.
  • Is it an inability to cause? no
  • Is it an unwillingness to cause? YES

OK, earlier this week I had a health consultation with one of my students. It was clear that he was up schitt’s creek without a paddle… why? He has failed to say no to several things that have no reward to him, no benefit to him, only to other people.

I gave him an ultimatum. What did he do with it? He said yes, yet again, to do a job at work that should be paid for to the tune of a hundred grands a year, and he was asked to do it for nothing, till spring break… so another four months. For free… at the expense of his health.

And he is still vacillating on how to unload the other unpaid, unrewarding, tasking job of having his small children 2-3 days/nights a week, while he is working 60-70 hours a week…

You can see that his attitude is “No matter what I do: lying to get away with not doing, not giving, with stinginess. A big middle finger to the world. I won’t give you wood, even if you give me heat. haha.”

He is not willing to do what he needs to do.

What is the payoff? he gets to be the victim, the sacrificial lamb… and he never has to give his best to the world… Disgusting, if you ask me.

Want more examples? I have tons…

The payoff is always the same… But if you look at the actions, lying is always there… lying to get rid of causing. Causing what you don’t want to cause, causing what would give you what you are complaining about not having. To appear the victim.

Some students even DARE to cry fake tears on the partner calls, trying to fake ME.

One of the things they are not getting: you cannot lie to ME.

Why? Because I feel what you are feeling, and it is GLEE. The glee of getting something you don’t deserve, pity, compassion, getting away with murder.

So, what am I going to do?

Good question, again.

balance the scales of attitudeIt is quite clear to me that the goodies (being a victim, posing as a victim) being in one plate of the scales, I need to put something heavier in the other plate… or the attitude is still winning.

Source says: my ability to do something is still going to depend on YOU… you need to be co-creative…

Freedom of choice is a law… Not a rule, a law I can’t break… A law like gravity.

But I can still DO something… if there is a mustard seed of faith in the people who I am asking to co-create with me and with the energy, so they can become all they can be.

When I look at the people who come to me for learning, for supposedly become all they can be, 70% are clearly not willing to do what it takes…

  • 70% of those (49% of all people coming to me) claim that they have been wronged, and therefore now they deserve to get something without giving anything in return.
  • The remaining 30% (21% of all people coming to me) of those 70% are adherents of the original “evil”, desire to receive for the self alone

What is in common in both segments is that they lie. Lie through their teeth.

They lie to themselves, but consciousness knows they are lying, so now they even have to hide it from themselves.

The other day, on a partner call, one of these liars caught herself, and admitted to some of the truth at the end of the call.

Partner calls are part of my Playground program, where the work, supposedly, gets done in one-on-one weekly partner calls between two participants.

Once the partners get comfortable with each other: no work gets done. None.

What is the purpose of the partner calls? To remove the original victim story, so the person knows that they know were never the victim, they were always THE perpetrator, so the person can start living their lives causing it, much like if it were a car and they were the driver.

Yeah, the analogy of how you drive your life, is like fancying that you are a passenger in that car, not the driver… so when the car goes nowhere you can cry bloody murder. And you do. A good 70% of humanity do.

What is special, what is different in the people who achieved something is this: they never thought someone else driving their life was a good idea… so they learned to drive their f… ing life.

That is pretty much the only difference I can see.

I am going to develop some methodology, supported by some energies… and will offer this only to those who have ordered their Bach Profile before Monday 7 am… The price of that webinar and energies will be $17 thereafter.

Why Monday 7 am? Because I need to disable the special manually… That is why.

Whether you can come to the call, or will only get the recording of the call, the energies I’ll test on the call will work on you… I am known to be able to transmit energies with just my voice, live or recorded.

Having and using the Big Bundle, or even the Big Big Bundle helps, but as we are seeing, it is not enough. YOU, the conscious you will need to make the effort, instead of hoping that the energy will drive your car, so you can just sit back and reap all the rewards.

You know, Charlie Munger probably didn’t know, but “to get what you want, you need to deserve (earn) what you want. The world is not a crazy enough place to reward a big bunch of undeserving people”… I probably paraphrased… sorry Charlie.

When you don’t drive your car, when you think I will drive your car, the energies will drive your car, luck with drive your car, or whatever inane b.s. you hope for, you are an undeserving person… and you won’t get what you want… and when it seems that you do, it will come with strings attached, more cost than reward.


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Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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