Carrot and Stick or how to win at New Year’s Resolutions

new year resolutionsWe all know this, it is too common to think that you don't have it.

You find yourself attracted to some kind of project. Maybe a new habit, or an exercise regimen.

It feels like it is all yours, done deal, it is in the bag... and then you wake on one morning, maybe next day, and all the inspiration is gone, and you are back to being pedestrian plus ashamed, baffled, and deflated.

getting-fatterOur New Year's resolutions are this way, maybe they last a few weeks but the inspiration that brought them on disappears almost as fast as it comes, and into the same place, into thin air.

We all deal with this individually, but as someone who took it on myself to teach people how to raise their vibration and live a life on a higher level than before, I need to deal with this especially.

Because unless you can break this invisible yet powerful barrier through, you will never experience that you have grown, that your life has become meaningful.

Lots of coaching companies talk about your negative beliefs, but I don't believe it is really negative beliefs that can be blamed.

Other companies have come up with inventing yourself as someone who can do all, be all... but their results are as short-lived as any, because who cares if you get a good 24 hours every time you do a course... life is lived outside of those 24 hours, and they hurt more in the contrast.

I have tested different approaches, and now I am ready to test yet another one. I'll make it a course, but I'll test some stuff out on free webinars as has been my habit for a few years now.

calvin-hobbesFor most you you, the issue is: will you live like an expanding human being, will you start doing what expresses who you are in the world? Or will you just coast and whither away...

Stick and carrot will be the code word for the new method, though it may change, But for now it's OK.

I will do the free Stick and Carrot webinars on Thursdays at 4 pm. When then? Because most of the people that do courses with me can make a 4 pm webinar.

This webinar will talk about this whole idea of failed dreams, explore some of the reasons I know about, and work with one or two people on the call to overcome it.

I will be in touch with those one or two, to see if what we did on the call has overcome the forces that normally take you out of the game.

Attendance is free, but you need to be on time. Latecomers will be removed, unless previously cleared. Only regular students can be cleared from being late.

Participation is mandatory, no lurkers.

OK. Enough rules.

Here is the link to sign up to my list. Once you hit the button, it will take you to the membership site where you will be automatically enrolled in the webinar and the replays.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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