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The doom is the feared outcome of your dominant belief. It is like an drain or a vortex, like the abyss…Anchor is what keeps you circling the doom… and it is a lot like an energetic attachment, like a cord keeping you anchored to the doomAfter I pull you anchor to doom, what you get … Continue reading “Anchor to doom”
It is snowing heavily and steadily in Syracuse where I live. Right now. I just took out the garbage, and the snow is almost knee-deep. The mind goes, instantly, without any pausing, thinking, or consideration, the mind goes to doom.Depending on your soul correction, it will say something like: I won’t be allowed to go … Continue reading “What is the next step after I pull your anchor to doom?”
Connecting to Source, being connected to Source is what you may want but you haven’t been able to… This article explains why and how you can. It’s a process.I didn’t plan to write about this… I didn’t plan because like so many things that have disappeared… what isn’t there is… well, what isn’t there isn’t … Continue reading “Anchor to doom, ET phone home, connecting to Source”
The anchor to your doom attachmentWhat gives it away is the implied inevitability. The language. That it’s always, or never.Like I am never going to be successful. Stings. Hurts. My eyes are watering. I scramble to avoid it, fight mightily, only to give up after a while and resign… burn, and get up from the … Continue reading “When your failures always return… The anchor to doom”
Before I get into the meat of the article, I’d like to share what happened in Israel during and after the War of Independence (1948-), lasting about 20-25 years.Most new immigrants lived in kibbutzim, and in kibbutzim, a kind of ‘collective’, the children spent most of their times in children’s houses. They slept there too. … Continue reading “The least qualified person syndrome and the anchor to doom”
Only when you have permission to be how you are, who you are, where you are, that you have permission to grow.If you don’t, it you should be more, better, or different, then you can’t grow… because your starting point is that A should not be A…In this work we attempt to change our genes … Continue reading “Permission to be the way you are, warts and all”
Are YOU in your own way? Is that why you can’t grow, can’t learn, can’t amount to much.Is that why you are always seeking, never finding? Why everyone is an a’hole, and you get angry and stew? Why you won’t even be looking to see?Someone who has already gotten out of their way can have … Continue reading “Get out of your own way… what does it mean exactly?”
What do you think the biggest issue with humanity is? What threw a monkey wrench in the works?More often than anything it is hurry that is the monkey wrench in the works.Eagerness. Wanting. Trying. Hunger. Urge. Forcing.All horizontal plane. All competition. And all ineffectiveness. Monkey wrench in the works.
Pulling your anchor to doom the new way is a profound experience. Life changing. For the client, and often for me.So what is the new way?The old way focused on emotions. But because all emotions arise as the consequence of words, words that give the backdrop, the attitude, it is more productive to look through … Continue reading “What is it like to pull your anchor-to-doom the new way?”
Life is like a spiral staircase… Every problem, every issue will come back to be addressed on a hopefully higher level…Like getting unstuck.I once read a story about Gandhi. A woman came to him with his child. He asked Gandhi to tell the child that eating sugar is bad for him.
