What prevents you from getting ahead in life?

This series of articles are exploring the hidden aspects of what holds you back from growing, from moving, from raising your vibration, from transformation, from living a life consistent with your abilitiesWhen we look at your life, we see that there is a gap between what you are capable of, and what you are accomplishing. … Continue reading “What prevents you from getting ahead in life?”

The Third Kind of Depression to beat: simple but not easy

This article, unintentionally, has two parts. They are loosely connected. One part is about hitting bottom, the second part is about getting out of the judgment, getting out of the systemic value paradigm where you have no future.Depression Is A Sign That You Are Unwilling To Hit Bottom.

Assembly line coaching… is that what I am paying for?

I am sitting here at my computer. It’s early morning. I have been up already 2-3 hours. And have done many things, and yet nothing got done.I am preparing myself for my 2:15 pm ‘coaching call’ with Heather. Heather is my ‘coach’ from the course building course I just paid for.I find myself crying.It doesn’t … Continue reading “Assembly line coaching… is that what I am paying for?”

I wrote about ‘It’s the system, stupid!’ the cause of misery

The other day I wrote about ‘It’s the system, stupid!’ the cause of misery.The question I am not sure I answered is this: what is this system?So in yesterday’s Friday Podcast, I looked with Bonnie, what is the system, really. The Friday Podcast is a one-on-one coaching. I am the coach, and Bonnie is the … Continue reading “I wrote about ‘It’s the system, stupid!’ the cause of misery”

Power tools: Human Evolution is powered by hate

Power tools: Human Evolution is powered by hateI searched google to see what others have to say. But every article, every site only talked about the physical evolution, and none talked about the inner evolution: where humans conquer their animal nature and truly become human.And the sites, books, etc. that talked about spiritual evolution, all … Continue reading “Power tools: Human Evolution is powered by hate”

Power Tools for living a life you love & live it powerfully

yeah, power tools… or power skills?But beware… these tools are not for everybody. If you are not up to anything, if you have no ambition, nothing to need power tools for, then power tools are not for you. Complacency and power tools don’t go together… OK, I said it.What is the difference between an article … Continue reading “Power Tools for living a life you love & live it powerfully”

It’s the words. The WORDS! Don’t you get it? The words!

Humans see the world through words… and then get trapped in single words that cause the world to be a dark dank place… No one wants to call home.What would have to happen so that on this dark Monday morning you suddenly get how this human condition works, below the visible?And if you got it: … Continue reading “It’s the words. The WORDS! Don’t you get it? The words!”

The most important questions: what, how, why, when, who not

The most important questions to  ask: what, how, why, when, who not… What not to do, how not to do/be, why not, when not, who not, what not to pay attention to. What’s not important. Which teachings are b.s. and a good idea to invalidate or just ignore. The no-list.Without those questions asked in that … Continue reading “The most important questions: what, how, why, when, who not”

Learning and growing through simulation, like doctors

We all live in a little box, and it seems that we are stuck here forever.Life would work best if it were like a Freecell game: you lost the game? so what?! Or if it were like a University: learning to become a surgeon or a nurse.Future surgeons don’t learn, don’t practice on live patients… … Continue reading “Learning and growing through simulation, like doctors”

Want to model after the success of Alex Hormozi?

What do you use to win? To encourage you to not quit? to stay in the game?In a private conversation, when I asked her to pick to model someone who has done what she hopes to do, a client picked Alex Hormozi… one of my favorite people on the planet.His story is, on one hand, … Continue reading “Want to model after the success of Alex Hormozi?”