The Validation Challenge nearly impossible for people

One of the problems that people in the Validation Challenge have is that they use the focused mind to look.In the ‘learning to learn’ course we learned that the mind can be in the focused state and in the unfocused state.Mine is in the unfocused state 91% of the time. Even when I write an … Continue reading “The Validation Challenge nearly impossible for people”

Validation Challenge… Why is it worth doing it?

Because 95-97% of humans live as an object in a world of objects, they can’t see you as a person. They see you as they are…So they can’t…In my Validation Challenge where you have only one job: as you go about your life in the world and find something to notice, something of value, in … Continue reading “Validation Challenge… Why is it worth doing it?”

How the missing Sight capacity relegates you to…

How the missing Sight capacity relegates you to the lower echelons of society?One of the signs of no Sight, I found, is the lack of skills.Before you can choose a direction for your professional life, you need to find your portable skills. Skills that you have used in a different context. And then, among those … Continue reading “How the missing Sight capacity relegates you to…”

Sentience, self-awareness, and responsibility

Many scientists say: humans are a sentient species. They tell you you are human and therefore sentient.What they don’t tell you, because they don’t know is that sentience is a state. It is either on or it’s off. And a person’s sentience can be measured on a scale of 1-100 in time. So, for example, … Continue reading “Sentience, self-awareness, and responsibility”

Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity

Your use of language gives away your inauthenticityThe English language used to be quite precise in its tenses, but the language has been destroyed by the powers that be.I learned English from teachers in another country, teachers who still remembered that your words express, or at least attempt at approximating accurately reality or our intention.

How to see a painful incident differently, even after years

In our ‘Reframing Challenge’ suddenly being laughed at, or snarky remarks have come up to reframe.The challenge is to not take it personally.In the homo sapiens world everything is personal. They are laughing AT YOU…Here is an example when a person is bigger than that… and how that scenario looks from the sideways view. This … Continue reading “How to see a painful incident differently, even after years”

Reframing… take the Precious I out of the picture

A student of mine gave me access to a course he bought that teaches psychiatrists to reframe the client’s story so it hurts less, or maybe doesn’t hurt at all.Reframing sounds really simple: look at what is happening or what happened from a different angle, with different eyes.The most important element of reframing is to … Continue reading “Reframing… take the Precious I out of the picture”

Shall I offer group energy healing sessions? Your opinion?

Back in, I think, 2011 I was friends with some people who swore that this Indian guru was a real healer. That his energies healed animals, trees, and people…So I signed up to a group healing call. It was $50 per call if you subscribed.The call was 177 minutes commercial, and 3 minutes energy transmission.By … Continue reading “Shall I offer group energy healing sessions? Your opinion?”

This is the way the cookie crumbles… Really

This is the way the cookie crumbles: your life, the quality of your life depends on you.I’ve read somewhere that people are only curious about something they already know. Not ‘know about’ but actually know. Had experience with.Knowing about is idle curiosity: useless.You don’t know the river until you wade into it.You don’t know a … Continue reading “This is the way the cookie crumbles… Really”