Summary: from the comments and email I am getting it is clear that the concept of starting with HAPPY is totally inconceivable to most of you. In my response to a comment I managed to express the essence of it: It is like the skin color you have, it is part of you.
In the ‘HAPPY’ I advocate, where you start with HAPPY, stay HAPPY, end HAPPY.
It’s not a result. It is who you are.
You do what needs to get done to grow, and you are HAPPY while doing it. You are not ‘happy’ to do it, that would be something else again. You are HAPPY, just like you don’t change your skin color according to the type of task you do in life. You stay white, or pink, or yellow, or black… whatever you started with.
Some people, some modalities sound true-ish, make you feel better, and yet when I look at the vibration of the followers, the vibration isn’t raised. Something about the foundation of the program is off… it just dupes you.
Feel better vs. Raise Your Vibration
Please remember that this whole series of case studies is interested in one thing: does the modality raise your vibration permanently.
Or does it only teach you to feel better temporarily… That is the only criteria that I examine here.
Why? Because there are plenty of feel better, flash-in-the-pan modalities out there. Modalities that enslave you.
In the famous marshmallow experiment by Walter Mischel. He said that the 30% of the kids that didn’t eat the marshmallow, didn’t even look at the marshmallow. They kept doing other things, keeping their eyes off the marshmallow. Consciously, intentionally, and purposefully.
The marshmallow is ‘the thing’, the goal people want… and it is what actually causes them to jump the gun, to quit pursuing it prematurely.