The Wall, The Ladder, and Your Life’s Purpose

Originally posted 2010-12-11 10:25:59.

How do you get Guidance from The Soul?

Many people walk around with an immense amount of knowledge.

Yet, in their professional life, they jump from one thing to the other. They’re directionless because they zigzag.

They go to this direction and then they go to that direction and they go in the third direction and then they return to the first one, and on and on it goes. Continue reading “The Wall, The Ladder, and Your Life’s Purpose”

What’s your purpose in life? As in a purpose driven life…

Originally posted 2010-12-11 10:07:08.

What’s your soul’s purpose in life?

I hear this question and derivations like ‘what’s my purpose in life?’ ‘What was I meant to do with my life?’ etc.

We, human beings, want to do the right thing. It feels that if we did that, then all ADD, all restlessness, all depression, all jumping-around and inconsistent behavior would disappear.

We would joyfully do what we are meant to do, finish what we start, jump our of bed with eagerness, right?

Only if we just could find the one thing we are supposed to do. Be certain, stop doubting ourselves, settle down… Continue reading “What’s your purpose in life? As in a purpose driven life…”

A Wretched Quote or what is the ultimate evil?

Originally posted 2010-07-11 09:50:41.

desire to receive for the self aloneWretched = (of a person) in a very unhappy or unfortunate state.
“It’s not enough that I should succeed — others should fail.” David Merrick

or how to be wretched, be on the competitive plane and be miserable, succeed or fail… Desire to receive for the self alone

According to Kabbalah, the Light can give you anything, as long as it doesn’t already belong to someone… The Light will not take away something from someone to give it to YOU.

Stuck in a rut? Would you like to find your way out?

Originally posted 2010-07-11 08:57:56.

Stuck in a rut? Would you like to find your way out?

First off: You are not alone.

My coaches, mentors, teachers, friends, and clients are stuck too, from time to time.

Take one of my teachers: she has been dealing with some downward spirals, that completely felt as something that has no solution.

Their expensive, and almost brand new RV suddenly needed major repair, and the funds weren’t there. Continue reading “Stuck in a rut? Would you like to find your way out?”

Maslow, emergency, up to your arse in alligators

feeding frenzy of alligatorsMaslow, emergency, up to your arse in alligators – do you have the skills to be successful?

I have a friend. We’ve just recently created an alliance: we support each other in our goal to build a new business. He builds one for himself, I build one for myself. For fun and profit.

We talk on Skype. He teaches me more about people and about what might be the reason people are underachievers than anyone before… not because he is especially screwed up, but because of the context: we talk to build… different from my normal calls, which are coaching calls… got it?

Here are the things I am learning about what is missing to be a winner, to successfully build something new:
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Let’s build a high vibration person. Where shall we start?

Let’s build a high vibration person. let’s build a skill, let’s build some skills

I am starting a new series that also shows a new direction I am taking my teaching/coaching practice.

The new direction is skill-building.

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What is the ONE THING that decides your future?

one thing: attention storyOne day a Zen master told his students that he was going to teach a new technique of shooting an arrow.

He instructed his students to cover his eyes with a cloth and then he shot his arrow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the target with no arrow in it and when he looked at his students, they looked embarrassed because their teacher had missed.

The Zen master asked, ‘What did you learn?’ Continue reading “What is the ONE THING that decides your future?”

I had a rough night. I am still tired and foggy…

I had a rough night. I could barely breath, especially when I lied down. So I didn’t…

It’s been coming for about three weeks, and it didn’t respond to healing.

It felt likely that it was my last night on earth.

And I had no idea what was causing it. I sat on the edge of the bed. I sat on the chair by my computer. taking even just five steps felt like the end of me. Continue reading “I had a rough night. I am still tired and foggy…”

Do not die in the attempt! Die in the doing!

I had a flash of insight today.

I have been looking at books, movies, TV-shows and see what attracted me, and when I was not attracted, what turned me off.

I saw that I would stop reading or stop watching in the middle, if the main character isn’t made Continue reading “Do not die in the attempt! Die in the doing!”

If I see you as beautiful… will you too?

happy-babyIf I see you as beautiful… will you see yourself as beautiful?
If I see you as magnificent, great, awesome… will you see yourself like I do?

Muscletest and my experience says: no.

The most beautiful women spend hours in front of the mirror staring at their imperfections… trying to hide them.

There are also beautiful women who can say: so what. They are in search of some other imperfection.

We know ourselves intimately, and rare is the person who can leave it alone… who can refrain bemoaning their faults, and stop trying to fix themselves while keeping up appearances.
Continue reading “If I see you as beautiful… will you too?”