The nature of inner guidance, or how does inner guidance work?

outer guidanceHow does guidance work?

I bet, you expect a straight line from where you are to where you want to be.

Unfortunately, nature doesn't work on a straight line.

So unless you are willing to take everything as guidance, and not stop asking, thinking you are home free... you'll make wild left right turns before nature, Consciousness, your body takes you home.

I have been observing this for decades, and tearing my hair our...

Because more often than not, the first "guidance" towards a result you crave will take you to a bad result.

Why? I have some theories, but I don't actually know why. Continue reading "The nature of inner guidance, or how does inner guidance work?"

Does negativity come from the words you speak? Does positivity come from the words you speak?

About 50% of humanity believes that positive thinking is what is going to bring home the bacon, suppressing negative thought, negative desires. I saw a video yesterday that even the Dalai Lama's talk is interpreted as positive thinking...

He says: a small positive thought in the morning can set your whole day on a positive spin.

What he doesn't say is that the kind of positive thoughts people have aren't the kind that create a positive spin... au contraire... Just the opposite: They turn your day into sh*t.

I once had a client who lived and still lives in the small upstate New York town where I live... Syracuse NY.

He said, and lived by, that Syracuse is a dark town, no sun. Continue reading "Does negativity come from the words you speak? Does positivity come from the words you speak?"

What is your time worth? What does it have to do with your worth?

what is your time worth? do you value your time?If you are in business... or even if you are only selling your time/work at a job or freelancing, pricing your merchandise, friendship, advice, companionship, your time, your service is going to be something worth looking at.

A few decades ago I published a magazine. The magazine was free, the income came from advertising.

A girl whom I knew from before, who worked at the same architect's office I worked, called me and asked if she could trade cleaning my office for advertising. Turns out she was turning tricks...

She came to the office, worked for an hour and expected it to cover the price of a quarter page ad, $200 at the time.

Why? Because that is what she got paid by her johns. lol Continue reading "What is your time worth? What does it have to do with your worth?"

The Inner Authority that you COULD have but you don’t…

It snowed yesterday and last night. Everything is covered with two inches of snow, the trees that haven't lost their leaves, the cars, the street, my deck that I can see from my computer.

This is not the first time snow comes this early. And for most people in Syracuse, where I live, it is a snooow issue... not good! not good! Time to move to Florida! lol.

The snow comes from Lake Ontario that is an hour North from here as the crow flies. Whenever it is mild first and then the wind turns to arctic... meaning coming from the North, snow comes with it.

Reality.

Nothing wrong: as long as reality works the way reality works, all is well... even if it snows on your parade, even if you hate removing the snow from your car, even if you haven't taken your winter shoes out of storage. Continue reading "The Inner Authority that you COULD have but you don’t…"

Why can’t you learn, and how could you? The single most important factor…

Going from smart to intelligent...

In this article I am biting off more than I can chew... So it will probably make more sense to people who are in my programs, and will make sense once I learn how to speak/write it coherently. 1I was just checking what the dictionary (Tree of Knowledge says about intelligent vs. smart. Turns out that probably intentionally, just to make you less intelligent, lol, not funny, they use the two terms opposite of what they actually measure.

here is just one of the definitions on the internet:

  • The difference between smartness and intelligence is mainly behavioral. (truth value of this statement: 20%.)
  • While an intelligent person can be smart, a smart person may not be intelligent. (truth value of this statement: 80%.)
  • Intelligence means the ability to acquire information rather rapidly. (truth value of this statement: 30%.)
  • Intelligence is a trait a person has since birth. (truth value of this statement: 10%.)

Continue reading "Why can’t you learn, and how could you? The single most important factor…"

What is consciousness? What does it have to do with vibration? With happiness? With fulfillment?

what is consciousness... fragmented viewWhat is consciousness?

Is it the mind?

Here is from the Wikipedia entry: Consciousness is the state or quality of sentience or awareness of internal or external existence.

Again from Wikipedia:

Sentience is the capacity to feel, perceive, or experience subjectively.[1] Eighteenth-century philosophers used the concept to distinguish the ability to think (reason) from the ability to feel (sentience). In modern Western philosophy, sentience is the ability to experience sensations (known in philosophy of mind as "qualia"). In Eastern philosophy, sentience is a metaphysical quality of all things that require respect and care. The concept is central to the philosophy of animal rights because sentience is necessary for the ability to suffer, and thus is held to confer certain rights.

If you are able to tell apples from oranges, you can see that WE HAVE NO IDEA what it is that we call consciousness! We say words, a kind of code, but they don't mean what they are intended to mean: consciousness, or sentience, or pretty much anything...

Our language is sloppy, approximate, and a really poor tool to allow us to live an intelligent life... And yet, we think that there is intelligent life on this planet... lol. Continue reading "What is consciousness? What does it have to do with vibration? With happiness? With fulfillment?"

Cynicism, resignation, feeling your feelings… turn your resistance into flow

Somebody said that being in the 900s, I must be in the flow.

I felt that what she meant and what it means are very different.

Most of what is termed "flow" is a feeling that everything is OK... That there is nothing to resist, because god is on your side.

But from that definition to get to flow, the real flow, you first have to make bad feelings wrong.

As if feelings were responsible and at fault...

But feelings are there for a reason, and resisting them is the stupidest thing you can do.

If we looked what prevents you from entering the flow state, I can promise we would find that you don't want all the feelings, you only want the good ones.

But most, maybe all gold is in the unpleasant feelings.

I finally got response to my private message to the author of the book "Feelings." Continue reading "Cynicism, resignation, feeling your feelings… turn your resistance into flow"

Astute, accurate diagnosis is 90% of success in any area of life

bach flower remedy bottlesI am working on the overwhelmingly too many foodlist orders I received in the last two days of June.

This triggered a feeling I don't often feel any more: feeling imposed upon.

Doing things I don't want to do. It is the energy of the Elm... a Bach energy®. "Don't tell me what to do" reluctance, maybe even belligerence. A very forceful, suffocating, brittle energy. In fact, it's worse than actually doing the darn thing...

What is underneath is a desire to win every time. Damn the torpedoes... lol.

Not very good for business. And no matter how hard on my hands to do so many food lists... More than a thousand muscle test each... I said I would do it... so now go do it, dammit. lol.

I didn't know that about me. I don't like the energy when I feel it from others, it is very selfish: desire to receive for the self alone. Suffocates me. Continue reading "Astute, accurate diagnosis is 90% of success in any area of life"

Why feeling your feelings is a good thing? And how, finding your fake feelings is, maybe, even better…

Almost all Source energies, almost all my energy products are co-creative 1.

What that means is that they only work as intended if you work with them. The exception is the Water Energizer... that works on your water. But even that process works better if you are conscious, if you bring your consciousness to the fact that the water is lubricating the insides of your cells so the cells can function properly, generate energy for you, take out the trash... stuff cells are supposed to do. Like dealing with discomfort... you know... that stuff that can make our life hellish.

Why would it work better? Because when you bring consciousness to what's happening, it gets done better, and your whole being is more rooted in reality than without that.

Humans, with the introduction of mind, the disembodied, disconnected, separated way of using the brain has removed consciousness from reality, and has rendered humanity really like computer game participants, leaving the moving of them, doing life to something or someone other than themselves.

Continue reading "Why feeling your feelings is a good thing? And how, finding your fake feelings is, maybe, even better…"

Feelings, emotions… if you could just feel better! How to increase your emotional intelligence?

We talk about feelings and emotions as if they were the same...

But they aren't... And like with everything, on the current level of humanity we have a really hard time holding it together, and even hope for a life that is bearable.

But with knowledge can come power... and that is what I am offering in this article. 1

Self-actualization, self-realization means: becoming the best you.

And the definition of good (according to Robert Hartman) is: that which fulfills completely its purpose.

One main area of life where we have been living in a dense fog is feelings.

Continue reading "Feelings, emotions… if you could just feel better! How to increase your emotional intelligence?"