How to get reasonably clear of your past?

This morning, while I was measuring someone's starting point measurements, I wondered if there was another word for the desire measure. And it is... drumroll: entitlement. The person feels entitled to get from nature, from the universe, from the world those things that are desired without having to earn it, work for it, barter for it, compete for it... just because they are themselves. Knowledge, love, respect, compliments, stuff, money... It is almost always the same number as the lack of humility number, how much you think of yourself as the center of the universe, as it's about you, take things personally.

The higher those two numbers are the less satisfying life becomes, because you always feel cheated.

Every young child thinks that the world, other people, their emotional state and response is centered around them.

So when something happens, and something always happens! they are sure it has something to do with them, that somehow they caused it. Continue reading "How to get reasonably clear of your past?"

If you can’t beat them… join them

Warning: lots of footnotes in this article!

I am Jewish...

Jewish people are not genetically smarter than non-Jews... In fact, no ethnic groups are genetically smarter than others. And yet, certain groups test better both on tests and in life.

The kind of smarts Jewish or, for example, Chinese or Korean, people manifest is LEARNED.
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If you find yourself falling back to where you started…

Like any mad scientist, I always keep looking to move closer to the horizon that recedes as I am getting closer to it. It seems I am almost there...

But... there is always some boulder is blocking my way.

So what do you do with that boulder in your way?

My answer is quite counter-cultural. I say: you have that boulder there because you need to get familiar, maybe even intimate with it so it will let you continue on your path.

Continue reading "If you find yourself falling back to where you started…"

Without a new context your life will remain the same

Okay. This audio is still going to be about context.

I am getting requests to help people change their context or create a new context, such that life starts turning with this new context, so what am I talking about?

Life is co-created and life happens inside the context that you live in. Continue reading "Without a new context your life will remain the same"

The four core default contexts… or Why I stopped participating in Landmark Education?

the four core enforced by booksActually, I continued to participate in Landmark after the incident I'll tell you about... but NEVER intended to contribute any more. Or not really. I was participating from hurt... knowing that what was broken cannot be fixed.

18 years ago, as I was coaching someone, it became clear to me that there are this four core invisibles, that are underneath every issue, every distinction, every weird, unethical, unsavory action a human being makes. Continue reading "The four core default contexts… or Why I stopped participating in Landmark Education?"

Without creativity you are an also ran… Why can’t you bring creativity to life?

This is an article and this is a tip...

The program that releases creativity is the Playground

I Misunderstood…

I wrote this article a few days ago...

Yesterday I fell and hurt myself... so i am pecking out this preamble with my right index finger... taking forever. And there are possibly typos...

I may have to do audios until i can use me left hand...

When you have a strong enough latticework of things you know, you have experienced, you have believed, almost any substantial article or conversation will be an answer to your prayers.

You remember: when something isn't working there is something you don't know, something you don't see, or something you misunderstood.

I read today a long article on The Guardian website, saying, in essence: By gaining greater knowledge of how others think, we can become less certain of the knowledge we think we have, which is always the first step to greater understanding. Continue reading "I Misunderstood…"

A politically incorrect view at being inner directed

Some of my findings are so politically incorrect that I hold them back for a long time until I have further proof, or gather enough courage to take the beating that may come.

Yesterday, with the Days of Power, I filled up my vessel with The Light... and with that my courage is overflowing. I am not saying I am not afraid. Last night it took me two and a half hours to fall asleep instead of the now usual 30 minutes or less.

One of these is what I didn't write in my last article on motivation, the spirit, the inner desire to become all you can become. Continue reading "A politically incorrect view at being inner directed"

Get outside of the nine dots

After yesterday's article I got an email from one of the readers asking if solving jigsaw puzzles will develop their eye muscles to enable them to see the bigger picture and to see the deeper picture.

It doesn't.

So I started to ponder and spent my day pondering about the topic: seeing, creativity, innovation, cone of vision, and what is the difference between extraordinary people and ordinary people. Continue reading "Get outside of the nine dots"

Here is a spiritual practice from the Playground that will raise your vibration

I find inspiration in his writing. I find that his vision of me and my life, and what can open up for me is a perfect match about 50 times out of 52 a year.

I am talking about Rob Brezsny.

Is this because he is so talented?

Without trying to make myself look better than Rob Brezsny, if it is true that it is not what happens to you but what you make it mean, what you say about it, then I will take full responsibility for the amazingly perfect match, the inspiration Rob Brezsny's horoscopes give me.

And if they do the same for you: you should take pride in it. And if they don't... consider that your creativity is at an all time low... that you can't see...

Here is today's example: (My birthday was a week ago, September 4) Continue reading "Here is a spiritual practice from the Playground that will raise your vibration"