What is toxic? Toxicity? Are you toxic? How does it work?

I watched the trailer of ‘Still’, the Michael J. Fox documentary.

He mentions something that triggered an inquiry for me.

He was shooting a film, something or other, and four other people on the cast and crew also developed Parkinson’s at the same time. Continue reading “What is toxic? Toxicity? Are you toxic? How does it work?”

Day Three of my Complete Fast… a new vantage point

Day 3. Truth be told, it will be truly day three once the clock hits noon, but I’ll consider this day 3.

Certain things are becoming clearer to me.

The difference between hunger and all the other reasons we eat.

Hunger says, it seems to me, I NEED food. But obviously the body is not the smartest thing, because most people can fast for weeks, and they are not hungry. Hungry for the first two, maybe three days, and then not hungry. Continue reading “Day Three of my Complete Fast… a new vantage point”

The culture of scarcity chasing abundance…

The culture… it is invisible.

Our culture is also the culture of shortcuts. The culture of quick. The culture of wanting instant. And, of course, the culture of wanting.

What feeds this is the culture of scarcity. We live in the culture of scarcity.

A person needs to see, needs to say that something is not enough. And then they act to fix it. Continue reading “The culture of scarcity chasing abundance…”

What the Nobel Prize winning physicist’s story teaches you

What can the Nobel Prize winning physicist’s story teach you? OR What did Frank Kern learn the hard way?

First, before I get into the story itself, let’s ponder the meaning of teaching so we are on the same page, OK?

As someone who attempts to teach, let me tell you what it’s like for me. I find a thousand different ways to say, demonstrate, frame what I want to teach. And I invent thousand and one stories. I find books that hint on what I want to teach. Often I sing it, I make it a comedy, make it a tragedy. And I make you read. I make you practice activating your eye muscles and the related brain areas… Continue reading “What the Nobel Prize winning physicist’s story teaches you”

Steve Jobs said: only looking backwards you can…

Why did Steve Jobs say: You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards? Why couldn’t he connect the dots forward?

Very few people, mainly only chess masters and strategists, have the ability to hold as many as 16 items in their brains so they can connect the dots forward.

Steve Jobs didn’t. Couldn’t. Could not even see that it’s possible. Continue reading “Steve Jobs said: only looking backwards you can…”

You have no skills… and you don’t know that

Have you ever wondered what is really so different between the eight billion and the one thousand? And then you can look at the ten thousand as well… but not many more.

Have you spent sleepless nights pondering why other people can have what they want and you can’t? People seem to have some magic. Whatever they touch, it seems, turns into a result, gold even.

You can’t see the difference, can you? Continue reading “You have no skills… and you don’t know that”

We are never smart enough, knowledgeable enough

We are never smart enough, knowledgeable enough, clever enough to accomplish what we really want to accomplish.

Life comes without a manual. And our parents, our schools, our ‘teachers’ know as little as we do.

No one has taught us how to live.

Here is a little teaching…

We are never already enough to accomplish what we really want to accomplish.

If you only want to accomplish for which you are enough, you are not building a life worth living. What makes life worth living is the experience of expansion, growth, reaching for, striving, not the having. Continue reading “We are never smart enough, knowledgeable enough”

The narrative… the story that creates who you are

The narrative can be:
* 1.a story or account of events, experiences, or the like, whether true or fictitious.
* 2.a book, literary work, etc., containing such a story.
* 3.the art, technique, or process of narrating, or of telling a story: Somerset Maugham was a master of narrative.
* 4.a story that connects and explains a set of supposedly true events, experiences,  It intends to support a particular viewpoint or thesis: to rewrite the prevailing narrative about masculinity; the narrative that our public schools are failing.

A student of mine, after listening to my last Sunday call recording, asked why Jews turned to a different strategy than the slaves from Africa. Or Native Americans. Continue reading “The narrative… the story that creates who you are”

The secret of fulfillment. A secret because it’s hidden

It was my birthday yesterday. It was also Labor Day.

There are lots of theories about what’s the purpose of life. But ultimately, it seems to me, that without working and working in a way that you feel useful, and used rightly, you don’t feel that you are here for some purpose.

And yet, in this declining epoch people don’t work, or don’t work in a way where it causes satisfaction and fulfillment for themselves. Continue reading “The secret of fulfillment. A secret because it’s hidden”

The art and science of turning your life around

OK, the title is lofty, and I am not at all sure I can actually teach the art and science… but I’ll share all I have seen so far.

Do I see all the ways you can turn your life around? No. Muscletest says I see 91%.

As with everything I teach, the Anna Karenina Method is the fastest and most surgical method I know. So I’ll use that. Continue reading “The art and science of turning your life around”