Are you running on empty?

running on empty,depleted I have been looking at the state of your adrenals to decide and see, not so much into your experience... but your experience matters.

Are you running on empty? By the middle of the day, by Thursday you are ready for the bed or the weekend respectively.

The other day, while leading a workshop, one of the students said something, and I started to laugh uncontrollably. I laughed for minutes, it seemed, and could not stop for a long time. I wept more from laughing than most people cry from sadness, lol.

I have been observing myself the past week or so, and my joy of life, my satisfaction level, my experience of being alive has been going down steadily with every passing day. Yesterday I got close to the breaking point.

I was exhausted. So I thought that I needed rest. Or some food... But then I muscle tested myself and it said I was not tired. I was running on empty. I was depleted... I AM depleted.

I measured my health measurements, and all dropped, some dropped so far, I saw that I undid almost 2 months worth of healing in just one week. Continue reading "Are you running on empty?"

What is your time worth? What does it have to do with your worth?

what is your time worth? do you value your time?If you are in business... or even if you are only selling your time/work at a job or freelancing, pricing your merchandise, friendship, advice, companionship, your time, your service is going to be something worth looking at.

A few decades ago I published a magazine. The magazine was free, the income came from advertising.

A girl whom I knew from before, who worked at the same architect's office I worked, called me and asked if she could trade cleaning my office for advertising. Turns out she was turning tricks...

She came to the office, worked for an hour and expected it to cover the price of a quarter page ad, $200 at the time.

Why? Because that is what she got paid by her johns. lol Continue reading "What is your time worth? What does it have to do with your worth?"

You have moments of brilliance… what do you have to show for it?

your holy grailSometimes you need someone else to tell you what you did right, what was the reason so that you succeeded

And if you don't have that someone else, or if they are half-blind like you

... you most likely misidentify the cause... and the success goes away.

This has happened to me countless times... I did something, it created a huge result, I tried to duplicate it and it was a flop...

But, on the other hand, I have now been sustaining a success "streak" for a few months now... Chances have been that it was going to end... until today... because...

I stumbled on Jim Rohn's little known talk on youtube... Continue reading "You have moments of brilliance… what do you have to show for it?"

Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem… if you are not connected to Consciousness

your holy grailI have updated this post... clarified some things, so read it again...

Humans, YOU, want to fix things...

Fixing is forceful, and narrow cone of vision.

Fixing is low consciousness...

Today's solution is tomorrow's bigger problem.

frankenstein... cobbled togetherYour identity, the things you are known for, your typical behavior have all been fixes... solution to some perceived problem and now you are like a puppet on a string... powerless, inauthentic, and incapable of being happy, peaceful, joyful, and fulfilled.

1. For example, as a kid, I experienced getting hurt because I trusted someone... so I decided to never ever ever ever trust anyone again... I became fiercely independent... in everything. Continue reading "Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem… if you are not connected to Consciousness"

Witnessing is noticing. Noticing is giving value. Giving value is appreciation…

Without witnessing nothing happens.

Witnessing is noticing. Noticing is giving value. Giving value is appreciation... The word comes from precious: valuable.

So witnessing is giving value.

Why does something needs to be given value?

Because just like nothing is wrong in reality, nothing has value either. Value is always in the eyes of the beholder, value is given. Individually. You give value to something you got: you got something valuable.

Most people don't know this, and therefore never acknowledge the value they got... if they got any value.

Now what happens when you do that? When you don't acknowledge the value you get? Continue reading "Witnessing is noticing. Noticing is giving value. Giving value is appreciation…"

Pattern recognition… or how widely and how deeply do you see?

From time to time I watch an animated feature movie on Netflix.

Those movies have the most clues for inner world patterns of all the movies... even though they are clearly designed to distribute memes... to train the next generation to become sheep.

But the artists that make the movies unwittingly, or defiantly, place some fundamental guidance and truth in those movies.

So it is with this little movie: Leap. (In other languages it is called the Ballerina)

It's about a little orphan girl who lives in an orphanage, but dreams about becoming a dancer... a ballet dancer. She escapes the orphanage and goes to Paris to enroll in the famed ballet institute... to fulfill on her dream.

Through unpredictable events, she does... and though she can't dance... a cleaning lady she finds turns out to be an ex famous dancer, until an accident made her an cripple. And she will become her mentor.

OK, here are the principles in the movie that stirred my inside up and explained a lot of things to me about me: Continue reading "Pattern recognition… or how widely and how deeply do you see?"

Do you talk too much? talk about what is important to you? and no one wants to hear it?

talking too much, talking AT the otherWhat's going on?

Quite a few of my students and clients are in this predicament, I even found myself feeling starved for "companionship"... for someone to hear what I have to say.

What is this about?

The answer, the elegant answer comes from a movie, Shall We Dance? where Susan Sarandon hires a private detective to find out what her husband does every Thursday night, and why he is acting so different.

The private detective asks why Susan Sarandon's character married this guy.

The answer is the answer to your question: "I wanted my life to be witnessed." Continue reading "Do you talk too much? talk about what is important to you? and no one wants to hear it?"

Suffering? Miserable? Three Kinds of Misery You Can Beat

Suffering? Miserable? I have distinguished Three Causes You Have Control Over...

Motto: Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional

Most everybody gets miserable and suffering from time to time. Some more, some less.

I used to be miserable and suffering more than most... and I had no idea how to get out of it. It was like a deep hole, and the bright happy world was outside of the hole, and definitely outside of my reach.

Continue reading "Suffering? Miserable? Three Kinds of Misery You Can Beat"

What makes Keanu Reeves special and why you would want to learn a thing or two from him_

OK, I am in the middle of writing an article, but this hit my inbox and enough of you have been asking for some advice on what to practice... so here it is: observe Keanu Reeves, and learn to be like him...

Can you? The answer is: probably not... but... by learning and internalizing what he is doing as humility, etc, you'll have more of reality and more ways to be than you are being now.

Don't be mistaken: humanity is arrogant. Haughty. Self-centered. Self-aggrandizing. The opposite of what Keanu Reeves is, and the opposite of what would make you life a life worth living.

Now, if you have been smart and own my Big Bundle energy: if you study Keanu Reeves, or even just read this article while you have the energy bundle on your ears, your consciousness will hear it, and hear it as instruction or request: you requesting to be like him... and consciousness will help you. Continue reading "What makes Keanu Reeves special and why you would want to learn a thing or two from him_"

It takes courage to become all you can be. Most, 99.99% don’t have it.

What is courage?

The dictionary says: "courage is the ability to do something that frightens you".

Or said in another way: do something in the face of fear...

I simply call this TLB, the Twitchy Little Bastard score...

If you are not courageous, you are a Twitchy Little Bastard. You run, you hide, you lie, you manipulate, you blame, you do all kinds of things other than a courageous person would do.

There is a tale that illustrates this: Continue reading "It takes courage to become all you can be. Most, 99.99% don’t have it."