Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
You may want to teach what you need to learn. Why? Because that way you can teach from your own learning experience, instead of tree of knowledge.
So far so good… but…
Some things lie just outside of your reach… you can never really learn them, I think. Continue reading “Goal setting and other usual activities for January…”
In a recent article I say that until you start and get some headway it taking the sting out of past hurts, you won’t be able to raise your vibration, you won’t be able to climb the tree of life.
That applies to everyone, including myself.
Once you set the task, the hurtful incidents start lining up: the mind works best when you give it an instruction and then let it do its work. 1
So, outpops an incident, for me.
A few years ago I contacted an old boy friend of mine. He is now married and has a university student daughter… so this relationship was when I was about 30… nearly 40 years ago.
Continue reading “Take the sting out of past hurts so you can raise your vibration”
Why and how you got stuck?What is it that counters you taking that action, when you don’t do what you see would be a good move?
What is winning when you are obviously losing?
Obviously, as always, the answer to those questions is under the hood.
Obviously, because above the hood you are losing. But under the hood, something or someone is winning…
Continue reading “The dynamics of getting stuck… Or why isn’t my life getting any better, in spite of all the things I do?”
You can’t win the bets you don’t make. You can’t win the arguments you don’t engage in. You can’t win without taking risks.
If you look at me, and can see, you’ll see a person with severe dyslexia, serious holes in her brain from two episodes of brain damage.
What does this mean? This means that I make a lot of mistakes, mistakes most people would not make…
Continue reading “The spirit wants only that there be flying”
Please read my email exchange with an exceptional student of mine…
I want you to learn something from it: my process, how to write intelligent emails (not mine, lol) and how to look at my articles in a constructive way.
Also, if you are someone like a doctor, a scientist, my method probably drives you crazy… I seem disorganized, have no answers to many questions… I have had people quit my programs complaining about that.
I this article I explain why things are the way they are, why I work the way I work… It’s obvious that it’s not for everybody… no clear cut anything…. 🙁
Lot to learn:
Dear Sophie
Could it be: — If Courage gives you strength to stand up to the fear of unknown. Then Self-Trust must give you strength to handle whatever comes next. So maybe both of these capacities are a Base.
Continue reading “Why my “system” seems so unorganized… hard to follow… and more”
I’ve been sitting here, unable or unwilling to do anything… Unfamiliar feeling. I finally asked the question: why?
And then it hit me: I am either feeling Dark Side emotions transmitted, or you are not breathing.
What’s going on?
It feels like you are waiting for something to blow over… like a storm.
Anything I don’t know about? You can’t pay your rent? Your mortgage?
Is it Christmas? I feel it is about money…
Please talk to me…
If you had a childhood trauma… what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow?
Some of you were abused as a child.
Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. Abuse is a particular interpretation of something that happened. If I asked a visiting Martian what happened, he would say things like one person hit the other, or one person yelled at another, or one person tied up another, pushed them down, maybe even put one part of their anatomy into the other… but not abuse.
Abuse never happened… or it happened only if you said so… for you. In your mouth. In your interpretation.
Some things don’t exist outside of language… they don’t exist in reality. Abuse is just one of these. One other “thing” that doesn’t exist in reality is lack… In reality only things that are there exist.
New age gurus talk about the importance of the words you use. Of course, either because you are dumb or they are dumb, this gets generalized.
Continue reading “How words really effect you? And how positive thinkers are stupid”
Every time I do something new, I hate it and learn something new.
We had the webinar where I activated self-trust and humility for people who were on the call… subscribers to my mailing list only.
They were also students and customers… no surprises here.
There have been a few surprises, that I’d like to share:
Some people, some groups, even some countries always bet on the wrong horse.
They are on the wrong side of life, and don’t know it. Can’t know it. Can’t see it… Why? The answer is at the end of the article… Keep reading.
The question is: is there such a thing as a national DNA, a party DNA, a group DNA?
My hunch is that yes, albeit not in the traditional sense.
Hungary, where I was born, is such country, by the way. They sided up with the Germans in both world wars… and they lost both times, with the Germans.
They are still on the wrong side of life… poverty, corruption, antisemitism.
Are you on the side of Life? Are your affiliations on the side of Life?
One of the abilities missing for Hungary is the capacity of “the sight“… being able to see where your actions are taking you.
Continue reading “Musing on good and evil, and the role the unactivated DNA capacities play in that”
I hope by now it is getting a little clearer: an activated ability, an unlocked ability is useless until you need it.
You create opportunities for needing the new ability by “putting yourself in harm’s way”, meaning any activity where you can fail, where you can be proven to be less than, stupid, look bad, etc. unless you use your new ability. What activity? You’ll be surprised that also any activity that fits the criteria.
The process is called “actualization” or said in another way, making it real, making it working, making it show itself.
Most self-help programs, especially extreme programs, work on those… bringing your hidden and unused abilities to the surface, to work. I experienced that in many: fearless, self-trust, the sight all got revealed to me, and given a workout. Maybe more… I haven’t done any of those programs in a long while.
Actualization… Actual… as in real. Real for you, real for others. The opposite of actual is imaginary. Maybe even potential. but not real. 1
Like with anything, digging for a well when you are thirsty is often too late… Activating abilities, energetically, the thing I do, is like digging for a well.
