What is a soul-mate? Who is your soul-mate? Are they unconditionally nice-nice, or accepting?

One of my students is asking a really good question.

She has two friends whose soul correction is Forget Thyself... and she has a good relationship with me... and I have that same soul correction.

She asks:

Sophie, after I read your last article I checked my last 2 friends' soul corrections. My one friend who pushed me to a certain level had a soul correction Forget Thyself. My friend now, whom I met this year, also has a soul correction Forget Thyself. Interesting. Do we get attracted to certain soul corrections or maybe we get along better with some soul corrections that matches our soul correction?

The answer is not that simple.

  • We know that we have two selves. One self doesn't change. We can call it the soul. Or the Self. Or whatever you want to call it, it is unchanging. It is the same in you, it is the same in me... it is, maybe, the Self of what's possible for the human species...
  • Obviously your other self is far from that, it is changing, it is reactive, put together, selfish, and complaining, and haughty, and bossy... all the things you see everywhere.

You are BEING that other self. Continue reading "What is a soul-mate? Who is your soul-mate? Are they unconditionally nice-nice, or accepting?"

Weeping looking back at the path — republished

I wrote this article in 2015. I am republishing it... because it is important to read now... given the next article I just wrote... It will make it easier to get.

Here I am this cool Saturday morning, weeping.

I observe. What is there? Pain, definitely. Sense of loss, yes. Sadness, no. Regret, no. Resentment, no.

I have had a hard life. The hardest part is the last 30 years. Maybe 33... Since I left Hungary.

In Hungary I had friends. I had people who would want me around, who would walk with me, who would vouch for me.
Continue reading "Weeping looking back at the path — republished"

What is transformation? Why is it so important to know exactly?

Everyone talks about stuff... using big words, like transformation, but no one actually knows what the word means, and what do people actually do, or promise to do, who cause transformation.

If you really look, you can talk for half an hour, and you won't even get near to it...

Why? Because transformation is based on something that people either don't know, or don't consider sexy enough.

They talk about beliefs, and they talk about subconscious mind, and blockages... but none of those is actually how the human mind works...

Why am I so sure of that? Because certain things don't disappear or don't become unimportant during evolution...

The five senses, seeing, hearing, touching, tasting, and smell won't be completely bastardized by words, meanings, and other mind construct. Continue reading "What is transformation? Why is it so important to know exactly?"

What is the real meaning of “we are all one”?

People's instincts are good... but your actions following are only as good as your interpretation of the instinct.

Instincts are sign language... with no well-defined sign-dictionary... on second thought, most words are like that too...

So you have an instinct, that you need to team up with another human if you want to grow... if you want to feel good, if you want a life you can love... and then you go south...

Oh, I need a lover, I need a wife, I need a child... and then you follow the yellow brick road to unhappiness.

The instinct says: TEAM up... and you say, ok, teams are about something, sex, security, blah blah blah... and they aren't. Continue reading "What is the real meaning of “we are all one”?"

A life you love can be built at any age… if you keep some simple rules

house of cards. the bottom card is the linchpinIn search of quick transformation...

This is a long article, first showing what doesn't work, why, and then it takes you to what does...

One of the things about humans is arrogance.

Arrogance is not what you think it is... arrogance is really an attitude where you assume superiority where you have none...

Which is, in an ordered universe... EVERYWHERE.

But you, in your arrogance, ignore that you were born into some already existing order... and you behave like you can do whatever you goddamn want... and expect that it is going to work. Continue reading "A life you love can be built at any age… if you keep some simple rules"

The Producers, The Takers, The Waiters, The Hopers, The Wanters… Which One Are You?

In this article that i started seven years ago, I looked at what it is that separates from Producers from Hunters and gatherers

I had a conversation with my friend, Nancy F., yesterday. The topic of the conversation, after some wild twists and turns, settled on what is the secret of Jewish people's success.

Nancy F. has always wanted what Jews had, without having to be a Jew or doing what a Jew does... lol.

Much like my next door neighbor.

She want to be an Israelite without becoming an Israelite.

Here is an example: I look out the window between our houses. I mostly look to see if the mailman has been here so I don't have to go downstairs and climb back a few times a day. Our mail comes at unpredictable times. Continue reading "The Producers, The Takers, The Waiters, The Hopers, The Wanters… Which One Are You?"

Success? Failure? The difference between success and failure: it’s how you look at it.

As I am working to strengthen the integrity of my site (slow going and a lot of mundane work) I re-read some of my earlier articles, and I am amazed how good they are.

I wish I could just take a metaphorical funnel and pour them all in your brain... But...

You probably would not be able to use any of it.

Anything you don't earn, or you don't feel your earned will be rejected by your higher self...

At some period in my life I wrote articles about strippers and strip clubs, and was stupefied by the strippers' behavior. They earned their money in a way that their higher self did not condone, so they had to get rid of all their money, and fast.

Some, where this inner conflict didn't exist, invested their money and became rich.

Life, money, success, failure is how you look at it.

This is what this article is about... Continue reading "Success? Failure? The difference between success and failure: it’s how you look at it."

Does your vibration depend only on you? Does your integrity depend only on your actions? Does your money depend only on your actions?

I just had a profound realization: To the degree I deal with people whose actions lack integrity, to the same degree I lack integrity myself.

You are not only a sum total of your closest five people, your "originating" or "sourcing" circle. You are actually the same as the lowest of them in spiritual sense.

Your financial integrity, your earning power, your deserving factor, your happiness, your weight, your health, your mindset, all depend more on your friends than on yourself. Who you surround yourself with have more power in your life than you, yourself. Continue reading "Does your vibration depend only on you? Does your integrity depend only on your actions? Does your money depend only on your actions?"

An easy way to get to the big picture that can make your life worth living, regardless of the circumstances

the-meaning-of-your-lifeI am republishing this article... Because I am writing another article with a different approach about the same result... Being able to live a principle driven life... Principle can also be called "the big picture" of your life.

Gurus teach to look at life this way... but obviously even they don't quite get it... The order of things is this: Being creates the kind and type of doing and the doing creates the having... If this didn't make any sense, you are not alone... billions are in the same place of WTF does that mean?!

be - do - have

But getting it would make all the difference for you: suddenly finding constructive actions, actions that actually lead to what you want... And between you and me, that is not a small thing. I get lots of requests to muscle test for people if the actions they decided lead to self-growth, a better future, or not.

So, it is obviously not easy to see.

As any living thing, your first and main concern is you. What you have, how you feel, how safe you are, how happy you are.

Most people get stuck there: it is a "level of consciousness" thing... that is the level of consciousness where most people live. Really, 99.99% of humanity.
Continue reading "An easy way to get to the big picture that can make your life worth living, regardless of the circumstances"

How hard can it be? said Father Brown as he was grinding the car’s transmission…

Countries, people, soul corrections, have different attitudes to doing things. 1

Hungary (country), Finish What you Start (soul correction), England (country, ethnicity), especially, have an attitude of "How hard can it be?"

And they fancy themselves all-knowing, all-expert at everything.

My brother calls this the "do it yourself" culture.

And utter disrespect for people with experience, education, expertise. Or for skills, expertise, experience, and learning.

I worked as an architect in Hungary, for 11 years. Every client knew everything better. They considered me their guy who puts the stamp to their plan so they can get a building permit.

My brother was in a different profession, and his experience was the same: no humility, no sense of what it takes to actually be good at something, to see things fully. Continue reading "How hard can it be? said Father Brown as he was grinding the car’s transmission…"