- I want this to be different than it is
- I want to feel different than I am feeling
- I want to be treated differently than I am being treated
- I want to have more money
- I want to do more interesting things
- I want to have some skills
- I want I want I want
What is underneath that wanting?
For one, a sky high desire number. Maybe even a desire trap. Coupled with a low, weak, tepid ambition number.
Holiday times are especially trapping... I can even feel it myself.
Desire, by its unrealistic nature, robs you of the energy to bring what you desire about.
Why? How? Continue reading "I want I want I want… holiday weeks malady"
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Transformation is like picking a lock. You need tools, you need patience, you need immense awareness, and the results need to be valuable, or you'll quit before you are done. Partial transformation gives you bragging rights, but no results.
This is going to be an article that, I predict, will grow as we discover or invent (with Source) new tools to bring about the 1,000 Years of Peace, the restoration of the Original Design.
I will not give details of the tools in this article. The details you can find in other articles, or in the glossary. I will link the tools to where you can read more about them as time allows.
Patience, my friend, patience is a virtue. I'll get to it when I can. Start at the beginning... do you know how to connect, yet? I don't mean know about it. I don't mean "I think so" I mean, have I said that you are connected? If not, then please come to a connection call or stop feeding your mind. All this information is worthless there.
I will list the tools in the order I received them, not in the order of importance. This is where the good guys finish first, even if they started last...
Continue reading "What are OUR tools in raising your vibration… Updated"
Summary: Emotions... without emotions you feel deadened. But you only want good emotions... unfortunately, for you, you can't have the good without the bad, life is a roller coaster, and you would hate to be stranded on the top of the peak anyway...
I listened to the audiobook, Molecules of Emotions some 10 years ago in the car. It's a book written by a scientist, Candace Pert.
I did not set out to be a scientist of emotions... but I was eminently suited: instead of just talking about it, instead of writing about, I can actually verify the "findings", verify or un-verify the theories by feeling.
Our language doesn't keep up with the emotions: just like we don't have words for the billions of colors that can be created with the four base colors of light, red, blue and yellow... and of course white... we don't have accurate words for the feelings that are a combination, an energetic combination of base feelings.
Continue reading "Molecules of Emotion… Are you suppressing the negative?"
Summary: some six thousand years ago a mind virus was introduced. It lead to the rise of a strong ruling class and a sheep-like plebs. In this article I introduce the first ever remedy to the mind virus: the Unification Energy.
You see, humans have a strong inner connection to wisdom through connecting to All-Knowledge, but the mind virus severed, blocked the connection between the part of each human that connects and the part that they consider themselves to be... the part that has the mind, the subconscious, the body, and the Ego. The part that will look for nourishment, guidance, leadership, meaning, outside: on the horizontal plane.
Continue reading "Updated: Discovery, invention, innovation and ambition: Introducing the Unification Energy"
I consider myself quite aware, quite present, and yet... I am still finding out stuff that I have had no idea about.
Your attitude, more often than not, comes as a mirror of your "opponent's"... partner's, "the other".
One of the automatic behaviors happens without any thinking on our part: mirroring.
It is one of those phenomena when you act and then justify it later.
Example: I called on a participant yesterday, or was it on Monday?
I found myself tensing up, I found myself arguing.
The difference between you and me, is that I caught myself. What tipped me off is that I had no reason to be confronted, or confrontational. I was at peace about the topic, about the participant, about life. So suddenly hearing myself arguing was a dead giveaway.
Continue reading "Your attitude: are you mirroring the attitude of the other?"
A trauma is an incident. The significance is in your emotional response, not in what happened. The same incident is no big deal for others, but it is, or was a big deal for you.
Here is an example from my life:
I went on my biweekly grocery shopping trip with the old folks van yesterday.
They asked what's new, and I shared that I asked the Community Center to give me a chance to do a short lecture on water. The answer to that was a groan. Audible, and coming from a deep reluctance and distaste.
It wasn't the right time to deal with it then and there, so I stored it away for analysis later.
And this is "later"... let's do it now.
First off: the groan awakened a whole series of memories, unpleasant memories of earlier similar incidents.
Earlier similar is a technical term.
Let me explain:
When you are upset, you are never upset from or by what is happening right now. Continue reading "People are writing to me that they had no trauma to bring to the Sunday Feelings Webinar."
Most people experience stress and suffer from it
Stress is your body's way of responding to any kind of demand or threat. When you feel threatened, your nervous system responds by releasing a flood of stress hormones, including adrenaline and cortisol, which rouse the body for emergency action.
You probably think that stress is the same for everyone, that stress is a physical reality, but it doesn't seem to be that way.
There is no such thing as stress. Stress only exists when someone says so: it is a lot like most people we deal and struggle with in life: made up by humans. Not real...
Continue reading "Most people experience stress and suffer from it. But you don’t have to, unless…"
If you found out that all the wrong turns, mistakes you made in your life... probably thousands, you made them because you didn't see what there was to see.
A number of years ago, one leader in Landmark Education said: Most people either don't sign up or quit as soon as they see it.
See what? You ask...
See that the solution to the issues of their lives, the decisions that would have taken them to success were there, but they didn't see them.
I didn't see them, and you didn't see them.
Continue reading "The real reason why you are not happy, not fulfilled, not peaceful… and how to turn it around, maybe"
It was 9 am, and I was already tired... No, correction: exhausted.
So I went back to bed, really curious what was the reason.
I asked and muscle tested questions...
I noticed that I was not breathing deeply: in fact I could not. The breath would not go through.
So I doubled up on the question: what is the cause of this inability to take a deep breath? Health, concerns, each individually, and all said no.
Then I asked: feeling under pressure... stress.
And yes, that was it.
Continue reading "Stress, pressure, and overwhelm… no wonder you are tired!"
I had an interesting insight this morning. I woke up with the wicked vertigo back... I moved my neck the wrong way in exercise class... And I didn't experience the despair, and the urgent desire to fix it. Or will it away. I observed it, and the secondary symptoms that go with it.
I live a goal-less life.
I don't get frustrated, I don't get excited, I don't push, I don't force, I don't rush. I don't do things for a reason either.
I do what I do. Some are creative. Some are response. Some are maintenance of stuff. I read, I cook, I try to move my body, I reflect a lot. I notice the birds. I notice the trees. It's very Zen.
Continue reading "Goals, path, intentionality, agenda, forcefulness, and Zen living, the pathless path"