The biggest differentiator between a successful, happy, balanced, unbroken person, and someone with a life not worth writing home about is their relationship to failures.
Wanting only successes is like wanting to walk but never take a step with your left leg… Unnatural and … and why would you want that?
Everything in life has a rhythm, sex, breathing, eating and elimination… everything. Continue reading “Why are happy people happy? Have you ever asked that question?”
In Praise of Memorization: 10 Proven Brain Benefits
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Memory learning catches a lot of flack these days. Informed educators are often quick to write off rote memorization as an unnecessary and even harmful exercise, instead preferring to teach creativity and problem solving. While we agree that creative, analytical lessons are a great way to learn, it’s worth pointing out that memorization can still play an important role in learning, no matter your age. Read on to find 10 great benefits of memorization in school and beyond.
MEMORIZATION TRAINS YOUR BRAIN TO REMEMBER:
Although memorizing lines of poetry may not feel particularly essential, it’s an important task for training your brain to remember things. This type of memorization task exercises your brain, giving it strength to retain more information. Memorizing passages or poetry over time (rather than cramming) is a very effective way to make your brain more receptive to remembering.
Continue reading “10 Proven Brain Benefits of Memorization”
Most of what I do in life is to feed my curiosity, that is, (luckily?) perfectly aligned with my mission: taking humans to the next evolutionary level of humanity: human being.
There is a lot to observe if you have the right questions, but observation is one thing, the right interpretation is another…
We learn in the Playground that what you see/observe/experience comes to you, at you as a tight package that like a hand, has a front of the hand, and the back of the hand. We call that in this work “occurrence”.
Give the same occurrence to a thousand people, and you’ll get a hundred interpretations… but what is happening, reality is always the same, only the interpretation, the words change depending on the observer. On their life experiences, on their “case”, on the number of spiritual capacities they have (that will depend on how much of what is actually happening they can see…) Continue reading “How reality gets lost and all you are left with is YOUR interpretation, and emotions”
If I asked you how you knew your god loved you… you would say because your god gave you an easy life. And I would know everything anyone needs to know about you: you are worthless. You value having higher than earning.
Charlie Munger says: to get what you want, you need to deserve what you want.
That sounds really good, but the truth value of that statement is just 10%… 90% of the whole truth is missing.
An accurate, higher truth value statement would be: to get what you want, you need to appropriate what you want. Make it yours, so you can work with it… 60% truth value.
I know, some other articles I have said “earn” what you want… 30% truth value.
There is, probably, a higher than 60% truth value statement… but my agenda here is to drive something home… so that 60% truth value statement will do for now.
Humans, you, would have to appropriate beingness to have the right to call yourself a human being… you aren’t. Talking about beingness isn’t… just like talking about flying isn’t…
But beingness is also outside of the agenda of this article: the agenda is to talk about what is yours and what isn’t. What you can work with, what you can use, what knowledge you can connect the dots in…
What you appropriated, what is truly yours, is what you have. Continue reading “The empty pantry and the master chef”
Everyone talks about stuff… using big words, like transformation, but no one actually knows what the word means, and what do people actually do, or promise to do, who cause transformation.
If you really look, you can talk for half an hour, and you won’t even get near to it…
Why? Because transformation is based on something that people either don’t know, or don’t consider sexy enough.
They talk about beliefs, and they talk about subconscious mind, and blockages… but none of those is actually how the human mind works…
Why am I so sure of that? Because certain things don’t disappear or don’t become unimportant during evolution…
The five senses, seeing, hearing, touching, tasting, and smell won’t be completely bastardized by words, meanings, and other mind construct. Continue reading “What is transformation? Why is it so important to know exactly?”
People’s instincts are good… but your actions following are only as good as your interpretation of the instinct.
Instincts are sign language… with no well-defined sign-dictionary… on second thought, most words are like that too…
So you have an instinct, that you need to team up with another human if you want to grow… if you want to feel good, if you want a life you can love… and then you go south…
Oh, I need a lover, I need a wife, I need a child… and then you follow the yellow brick road to unhappiness.
The instinct says: TEAM up… and you say, ok, teams are about something, sex, security, blah blah blah… and they aren’t. Continue reading “What is the real meaning of “we are all one”?”
Explained: That is the name of one of my favorite shows on Netflix.
We all walk around with some approximate knowledge of things… we know absolutely nothing exactly, deeply. At best we remember what we read, heard, but that is second hand knowledge. In a world where PhD’s have 7-10% truth value, second hand knowledge is virtually worthless. Even if you had the ability to repeat word for word what they said, your knowledge would be still just 7-10% truth value… sound dismal, doesn’t it?
So we are bumbling idiots in a world that is too big and too complicated, and unpredictable, and fuzzy for our taste… and we bang ourselves up, repeatedly, for no other reason than that we didn’t know. Continue reading “Explained… the only path to happiness is…”
I monitor visitor behavior on my site… to see how they treat my articles… I spend a few minutes a week, in the morning. It often gives me an idea of what to write about, what to teach next.
This article is a result of that few minutes of looking today.
Oh, I mostly look at people who signed up to get an email notification each time I publish a new article… by the way. Those people have expressed interest, so I want to see what people who say “I am interested” are doing.
There are two kinds of “readers” that I have detected.
- The first kind reads the whole article, reads the footnotes, and then returns later and reads the article again.
- The second kind skims the articles. Skims 2-3 articles per minute, looking for something interesting to read.
Continue reading “How high can you go from where you are?”
- Unless it’s accurate knowledge… i.e. true, tested, from an accurate source.
- Unless you know what you learned… unless you know what you know… you didn’t learn anything.
- And unless what you leaned changes your behavior, inside or outside, nothing will change.
All learning is behavior modification, modifying behavior to become more fit to life, to play the game of life better, for yourself and for the human race.
So how do you modify behavior?
The process starts with an insight. The more energy is in the insight, the more energy you can or are willing to bring to the insight, the easier it will be to make the modification. Continue reading “Knowledge is not enough…”
these are the pictures i mention in the audio. also carey reams and his rbti