Raise your vibration? It’s a Hero’s Journey

KataraIf you are here, I know a thing or two about you.

One of the most important things I know is that you are smart. That you have earned to be here. You have tried a lot of other teachers or gurus or methods or tools to get what you want: more energy, better decisions, more love, more peace, a sense of meaning in your life.

There is no way to throw a dart and get to the right solution, every mistake you make, every wrong turn, wrong decision, believing false promises, falling pray to money-sucking gurus or cults have caused you to get here, zig-zag.

The more often you have been disappointed, the more hopeless it seemed, the more of your funds were eaten up, the smarter you have become, and the more ready you have become to actually see your way, do your work. You haven't given up. Good.

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Ambition versus Desire… Why ambition has become a dirty word, and who does it serve?

I spent yesterday reading the novel the 1997 Dutch film (Character) was based upon. Of course they changed a few things, and the film left me in deep quandary. The title didn't make sense. The whole dynamic didn't make sense. So I read the book.

Most movies' ending is clear... this is probably only the second movie that left me with questions: WTF just happened? The other movie is the 2002 Chinese movie "Together".

Anyway, I read the Character book. It was written in 1938.

I did learn what the title was about. And I learned a lot more.

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Updated: Discovery, invention, innovation and ambition: Introducing the Unification Energy

tower-of-babel-pieter-bruegelSummary: some six thousand years ago a mind virus was introduced. It lead to the rise of a strong ruling class and a sheep-like plebs. In this article I introduce the first ever remedy to the mind virus: the Unification Energy.

You see, humans have a strong inner connection to wisdom through connecting to All-Knowledge, but the mind virus severed, blocked the connection between the part of each human that connects and the part that they consider themselves to be... the part that has the mind, the subconscious, the body, and the Ego. The part that will look for nourishment, guidance, leadership, meaning, outside: on the horizontal plane.

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Who do you like? Who do you love?

WHO IS IT that your puppy loves?Or here is another question for you: Who are you?

If you asked back: What do you mean? you did the smart thing. Because the question: who are you? can be asked from so many vantage points, we can spend hours exploring that.

This is one of the things you learn to do when you are in my coaching program, Reclaim.

In that program I use Tai Lopez audios, 67 audios, 67 steps, about 100 different ways to ask a question, to look at life, including your life.

I don't like Tai Lopez, but I like what his program is doing to my life, and what it is doing to my clients' lives.

I don't like a lot of people. Why? Maybe a better question would be: What do you like? Who do you like, Sophie.
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Why I was miserable for 17 straight years… I didn’t know until just now

hey coach...As I said in a previous article, I am reading the book, The One Thing.

Most books, just like Tai says, are one-gold-nugget books. Tree of Knowledge. This one is full of gold nuggets. The One Thing book is a Tree of Life book

The nugget I discovered yesterday may be the most important thing I have missed, and I see others miss...

It is and have been in plain sight but at the same time it is invisible, like most new distinctions. Until you see it, you don't...

The nugget, this new distinction, is the foundation for the Ben Jonson quote from Poor Richard's Almanac: "He that is taught only by himself has a fool for a master" 1

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Clarity – a great distinction, a great inquiry… republished


A friend of mine, internet marketer, and an all over nice guy, is starting a brand new business. It is to create a promotional package for people who want to be considered experts in any field.

What he is doing could be incredibly valuable. What he is doing is this: giving people a chance to get to clarity. 1

Clarity about what? you ask...

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You… the good, the bad, and the ugly. Team you…

Yesterday I shared with you the evolution of my Self. It's like Beethoven's Fifth... Victorious.

When you look at what I wrote and your life, you may get depressed, feel inferior, and go into despair.


  • First off: don't compare. It is comparing apples to oranges... your job is not to live my life: it is my job.
  • Second: you can't see everything in another's life... so you are jumping the gun.

Here is dark stuff in mine...
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The real reason why you are not happy, not fulfilled, not peaceful… and how to turn it around, maybe

contingent-happinessIf you found out that all the wrong turns, mistakes you made in your life... probably thousands, you made them because you didn't see what there was to see.

A number of years ago, one leader in Landmark Education said: Most people either don't sign up or quit as soon as they see it.

See what? You ask...

See that the solution to the issues of their lives, the decisions that would have taken them to success were there, but they didn't see them.

I didn't see them, and you didn't see them.
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Spirituality uses different tools than the mind, the world

approximationSpirituality, finding your way, finding your self, the path to living a life worth living use different tools from science, schools, the mind, and ordinary thinking.

Not just different tools, but tools used differently.

If you haven't found what you are seeking... if your seeking has taken you on a wild goose chase only to find nothing of value for yourself... then you owe it to yourself to learn to use the tools and to use them in new ways.

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It is exactly 57 times more complicated than that…

i-wont-apologize-for-who-i-am-2The current state of science, knowledge is "one size fits all".

Just do this and this and this... and you'll be happy, wealthy, healthy, and in love.

Every profession has their "this is the way, this is the truth" postage stamp size area where they dance...

The medical establishment, pharmaceuticals, psychologists, religion, education, and even the "spiritual" or "alternative" people.

I am a people watcher. I watch their behavior. I watch what they welcome, love, what they tolerate, what they avoid.

I remember I was about 30, and I said:

this is exactly 57 times more complicated than that.

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