Why and how the hit-bottom method works? And how you can alter the future with it…

hitting bottom is a good thingIn numerology, each number has a special meaning... and even the components of your final destiny number...

My main number is 7, my secondary number is 4.

I like 4. Four symbolizes a chimney: there is only one way to go: up.

Most numbers have sideways moves... and that is what most people do to avoid growing. To avoid what it takes, work, pain, telling the truth... avoiding these at all cost... even if the cost is everything and anything they ever wanted...

So as a coach, I have to take them to a magical turning point: I need to force them to hit bottom. If they let me... 🙁

I had two workshops yesterday... And in the second, two of my participants volunteered to declare that they hit bottom. Continue reading "Why and how the hit-bottom method works? And how you can alter the future with it…"

Does everybody really count, or is that a seductive slogan?

change is the result of true learningEither everybody counts or nobody counts... this is the principle that makes Michael Connelly's books so dear to me. Obviously, to me, that labels me as a commie, a Democrat, a lefty... but I really don't care... It's your issue, not mine. My job is to be true to my principles.

I like crime novels. Most of them are clean and most of them go into the details that allow me to be forced to ride on the surface, to turn the page too eagerly, but stay on the page I am on: savoring it. Rare to find books like that.

No FOMO, I am where I am supposed to be. No desire to be anywhere else, doing anything other than what I am doing.

Priceless. Continue reading "Does everybody really count, or is that a seductive slogan?"

What is the “real” meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you?

What is the "real" meaning of little hinges swing big doors? And what is the practical benefit of knowing this principle? What is the practical benefit of putting this principle to work in your life?

The difference between the 99% and the 1% is what we are talking about in this article.

99% of people, and the 1% of people... that is.

You may or may not be able to raise yourself to the level of the 1%, but you'll move from wherever you are to a lot higher in income, a lot higher life satisfaction, etc. depending on how well you employ this principle... a concept you probably have never thought of as it could apply to YOUR life.

You are smart... right? Well, no, you aren't.

Unless your life shows that you are smart, let's consider that you may be smart, but your actions aren't.

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What if you wanted to have a work life that is fulfilling and rewarding?

the truth will set you free to actMotto: The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off

One of my clients just sent me a plea to become her guidance counselor... Guide her to a career, work, job, that would be a source of joy and success for her.

can you handle the truth?This, I surmise, could be a common request or desire for most people I know.

I myself chose my profession in a way that it didn't quite work out for me.

I decided to train to be an architect, and then I even decided to add a second graduate degree for good measure, and then a third... even though I was poorly suited to be an architect. Continue reading "What if you wanted to have a work life that is fulfilling and rewarding?"

The Inner Authority that you COULD have but you don’t…

It snowed yesterday and last night. Everything is covered with two inches of snow, the trees that haven't lost their leaves, the cars, the street, my deck that I can see from my computer.

This is not the first time snow comes this early. And for most people in Syracuse, where I live, it is a snooow issue... not good! not good! Time to move to Florida! lol.

The snow comes from Lake Ontario that is an hour North from here as the crow flies. Whenever it is mild first and then the wind turns to arctic... meaning coming from the North, snow comes with it.

Reality.

Nothing wrong: as long as reality works the way reality works, all is well... even if it snows on your parade, even if you hate removing the snow from your car, even if you haven't taken your winter shoes out of storage. Continue reading "The Inner Authority that you COULD have but you don’t…"

The myth that if you are better than…

The myth that if you are better than the average, if you are better than the other guy/gal then you are OK...

If you knew how others view you, if you knew how you rank as a human... really, you'd be up in arms, shouting "bloody murder!" because you are delusional. You can't see the other, you can't see yourself, and you definitely can't see yourself the way others see you... so any and all negative feedback is a surprise and an insult.

But if you are comparing yourself to another 99 percenter... whether they are average, below average, or above average, you are comparing yourself to something irrelevant...

Scientists, statisticians say humanity and its characteristics, intelligence, achievement, health, etc. can be described with the bell curve, where they focus on the average...

But if you ask anyone if they want to be average, they mostly say no... and they fancy themselves as above average.

But even if you are above average, you are comparing yourself against people who you don't respect... who are miserable, unproductive, undisciplined, liars, cheaters, like yourself. Continue reading "The myth that if you are better than…"

Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem… if you are not connected to Consciousness

your holy grailI have updated this post... clarified some things, so read it again...

Humans, YOU, want to fix things...

Fixing is forceful, and narrow cone of vision.

Fixing is low consciousness...

Today's solution is tomorrow's bigger problem.

frankenstein... cobbled togetherYour identity, the things you are known for, your typical behavior have all been fixes... solution to some perceived problem and now you are like a puppet on a string... powerless, inauthentic, and incapable of being happy, peaceful, joyful, and fulfilled.

1. For example, as a kid, I experienced getting hurt because I trusted someone... so I decided to never ever ever ever trust anyone again... I became fiercely independent... in everything. Continue reading "Today’s solution is tomorrow’s bigger problem… if you are not connected to Consciousness"

Why doesn’t the “Law of Attraction” work for you? Why are you getting sh*t rained on you instead of abundance?

the law of cause and effectThis article isn't about the law of attraction... it is about the Law of Cause and Effect... about time and about how nature cannot be tricked... it will give you what you paid for... eventually...

You can look at your activities and predict what your life is like, and whether you are building a life, i.e. investing, or harvesting and harvesting and harvesting without ever sawing.

I spend 60% of my time listening to audios, partner calls, the book of The Art of Hunting Humans, 20% of my time reading and the remaining 20% is for talking, writing, or cooking.

This means: I have a headset on me every waking hour, even while I am reading... Not music, it is hearing myself breathe on the Big Bundle energy audio.

Why am I sharing this with you?

Because I am working TOWARDS something... and I am investing my time. 99% of my activities are investing type. I am investing in two things:

  • a life that is longer than I had earned until now, and
  • knowledge and insights that can turn into real teaching for altering the future of the planet... Yeah, big things... big things worth investing in.

Continue reading "Why doesn’t the “Law of Attraction” work for you? Why are you getting sh*t rained on you instead of abundance?"

Who you are is resigned and cynical. That is who does your life…

everything worth doing is against the wind. going with the wind? you are goind down the drain...I just had an interesting interaction with my buddy, Source.

I have been under the weather, my heart is ailing, and I have been giving a lot of thought to dying... and the things a responsible person does to make their dying easier on the people they leave behind.

I am doing what Source suggested I do to get well, and it is not happening fast enough... lol.

So this morning, in fact a few minutes ago I asked Source if I should do something differently. And the answer was a firm yes.

And when I get a yes... of course, comes the hard part... finding what the heck is that I should do.

Talking to Source is like the game intelligent people like to play, where they ask question to find out what/who the other person is thinking of... and all the questions are to get a yes or a no answer. Not a stupid person's game...

And yet... all of life is a game like that: you ask good questions, you ask enough questions, you'll go far in life. Most don't. Most keep guessing... inside the narrow cone of vision they live with. Continue reading "Who you are is resigned and cynical. That is who does your life…"

Why feeling your feelings is a good thing? And how, finding your fake feelings is, maybe, even better…

Almost all Source energies, almost all my energy products are co-creative 1.

What that means is that they only work as intended if you work with them. The exception is the Water Energizer... that works on your water. But even that process works better if you are conscious, if you bring your consciousness to the fact that the water is lubricating the insides of your cells so the cells can function properly, generate energy for you, take out the trash... stuff cells are supposed to do. Like dealing with discomfort... you know... that stuff that can make our life hellish.

Why would it work better? Because when you bring consciousness to what's happening, it gets done better, and your whole being is more rooted in reality than without that.

Humans, with the introduction of mind, the disembodied, disconnected, separated way of using the brain has removed consciousness from reality, and has rendered humanity really like computer game participants, leaving the moving of them, doing life to something or someone other than themselves.

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