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As difficult as dirty dishes can be, they’re even worse when you let them sit for a while. And the longer they sit, the harder they are to clean.
This is life. Something that is potentially easy to clean up right after it happens – an unkind word to your father, a lie to your best friend, an insensitivity to your girlfriend – can become a difficult mess if you don’t deal with it now.
Do the dishes today.
I have been thinking about Kaizen a lot. Kaizen can be the saving grace for a lot of people, because Kaizen is a way of life, a non-threatening way, but it is an awake way, and most of us are not awake, get jolted out of our sleepwalking by big things only. I am awake, and Kaizen is for me.
So I decided to use Kaizen to ease back into exercising. Since I stopped exercising, my face aged 10-20 years. That is a lot. I used to have no wrinkles, now I have folds, and wrinkles inside the folds… not pretty.
I have no special occasion to be pretty at, I just think that looking into the mirror should be a joyous occasion, not an occasion to berate myself.
So I am now doing 15 seconds of the exercise I used to do. I am happy. It is starting to show on my face. Hm.
Another Kaizen thing: in airplane bathrooms there is a sign that says something like this: would you be so kind as to use your paper towel to clean the sink before you throw it away?
Very Kaizen. Imagine going to the bathroom and someone’s soapy dirty washwater is still in the sink. (The airplane sink stopper needs to be manually lifted, otherwise it stops the water from emptying…) I would never wash my hand again on an airplane. But with that little Kaizen note, most 99% of the passengers follow the instructions, and everyone washes their hand. (I think that sign also reminds people to wash their hands, which many people don’t see a reason for… ).
And the third Kaizen example I read about in a Kaizen book, and it is about Toyota. The factory. They learned Kaizen from Americans… who would have thought… from Americans.
At Toyota, manufacturing cars happens on the assembly line. Nothing new there. In a normal assembly line everyone is concerned only about their part of the assembly, and the occasional errors are noticed and corrected, or not noticed and not corrected at the quality control station.
Toyota’s then CEO installed a rope switch above every workstation along the assembly line, where workers were asked to pull the rope every time they noticed an error in the work on the half-assembled car in front of them. The pull stopped the assembly line, they corrected the error, and pulled again to re-start…
It was a heretic idea, going counter with mass production. American auto manufacturers, that relied on quality control, had thousands of cars recalled, paid billions in restitution for tiny errors that weren’t corrected right after they happened.
Toyota went on to become the most reliable car. 250K cars are still sold and they run the highways: it is commonplace, while even an ‘error-free’ American car would be proud to run till 200K.
Which leads me to the ‘boundaries’ part.
It is still my cat that is on my mind. Or my previous failed relationship. Or my previous failed New Year resolution. Where, in all circumstances, I ignored, put up with, tolerated, shut a blind eye to a small aberration, a small violation of my boundaries, a little mistake, a little skipping… and they all became the core of a snow ball and destroyed an otherwise hopeful relationship, or my health, or my results.
Do the dishes soon after they get dirty. And stay awake. I have learned my lesson.
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After last night’s call, I have some questions for you.
-I wanted to ask you what you actually mean, instead of what I interpreted when you gave me soul correction + flaw. In terms of actually doing my soul work, what does it mean that I have Silent Partner and flaw of Pretense? (I thought I knew until I read one of the posts by aaron online). I suspect this will hurt like a band aid coming off to hear, but I’d rather find out exactly what you mean instead of thinking I know. Then I can go about catching it
Each character flaw is a pretense.
You are made of the same stuff as Source, and that is powerless beyond measure. You live in the world of scarcity, but that doesn’t mean that your powers disappeared, they are limited by the physicality, that’s all.
But humans behave if they had no access to power inside themselves, they look for power outside of themselves. That is a pretense.
The Silent Partner addresses this character flaw directly, the other soul corrections through a specific application of this denial of power.
The issue with the Silent Partner is accessing your power. Magical thinking will work a little bit, but not much. The adage, fake it till you make it, is perfect here, you need to take steps you would not take without knowing that you have the power, but of course at this point you don’t. I do, but I am a little ahead of you on this journey.
Behaving like you can’t is your flaw to correct.
You mentioned on the call last night that being a “helper” is the worst. My job is actually being an assistant! Is that under the same umbrella of what you were referring to? I must say however, that your articles have since motivated me to see my work as training to do the job on my own and eventually be my own boss.
Being an assistant is a wonderful job. You don’t need to be the boss of all, you just need to be the boss of yourself.
Wallace D Wattles says it best in his The Science of Getting Rich: start where you are. use the will correctly. put all power into every action. become too big for the job you have. don’t just become the best at it: that will keep you stuck. become too big for it!
You’ll know when you are ready… but do you know what you are training for?
I do a lot of work for people that I consider training, even now. But I am very clear what it is I am training for, so I don’t become a helper.
Until you are clear about that, just do the “job” better than required, in a somewhat beyond what’s required way. As if it were your own business.
-It sounded from your articles that the 1st phase activation could take people to 299, but not everyone did. Obviously, neither did I since I am at 200. Is there a reason I didn’t/couldn’t get to 299 and what can I do about it? I would very much like to not be in the “miserable wretch” category as you call it.
I am a little hesitant to admit, but the first phase activation without removing at least some of what was there, was a little too early. Luckily I caught the dark side, by accident and eliminated it, but it is starting to grow back. It was around 50% before that activation, and now only 2%, but on the individual level, the activation didn’t do much.
You are doing the right thing by being in the 2nd Phase Activation Course, that is your ticket out of “wretched”.
Regarding being an empath and your article on Heaven on Earth for weight loss: Recently I realized that not only have I been living other people’s stuff, but I’ve also been carrying their weight. I was always baffled because the math of calorie/exercise did not add up with how I look. Since then when I see myself (and despair) I say something along the lines of “it’s not my weight, return it to Source.” So far (I’ve only started 2 weeks ago), results are not there. I also take H.O.E. unrelentingly. Do you have any other advice?
I muscletested your statement about carrying other people’s weight for them, and it is not true. I struggle with my weight too, and in my case, I am clear that my metabolism is so slowed down from carrying other people’s feelings, that I can actually maintain my weight at 500 Calories a day. Ridiculous.
What is the explanation? I think it is holding the breath. The food needs oxygen to burn, and without oxygen it is poison and it must be stored.
A few years ago I did a breathing regimen, I forgot what it was called, by Greer Childers. It’s a 20-minute breathing regimen with about 10 positions stretching. I lost 30 pounds in 40 days, without changing anything else. Buy the book on ebay for a buck, “Be a loser” and start doing it. Even if you don’t do it the way it is supposed to be done, you’ll be surprised that you’ll shed the weight. Guaranteed
Another empath question. One of your articles you say “I have gone through the mad stage, I have gone through the useless hermit stage. After 60 years, I have got myself to the stage where this ability is useful.” I felt a painful jolt of recognition. I also feel I went through mad stage and am stuck in “useless hermit.” It is also very much like you said on last night’s call – the people who never have fun. Is this something that the empath group will help with or do you have anything else I can do?
If the current empath group is any indication, it is nothing short of a miracle when an empath becomes conscious. I need more applicants to actually do another group.
On the healing calls, I don’t see the text boxes so I don’t know if people request healing on their various aches and pains or if you are tuning in and picking up on what is collectively in need of healing for the group. I was concerned about the bladder and tumor situation as I was having bladder pain the other day. But I wasn’t sure if that was specific to someone else on the call. If you are taking requests, I would ask for help with allergies. I’m sure I’m not alone in dealing with hay fever right now.
Both. people make requests, and I am tuning in.
I don’t have any allergies, so I am a little clueless as to what to do about those, sorry
Sorry, lots of questions. I have been thinking about them for some time.
Thank you,
L.
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On Authority, Or What I Learned From My Brother
My eyes are swimming in tears. Tears of recognition, tears of happiness.
Why am I so happy, you ask? Because I have turned a corner. A big one for me.
My brother, six years my junior, lives in Hungary. We were never really close. No one was close in my family. Holocoust survivor parents, all carrying memories of personal and racial horrors in their cells.
You never knew when they would blow up on you… it was totally unpredictable. I learned last night what’s the mechanism: I am 65 years old and I hadn’t known. Wow. 1
I last saw my brother in 1995. He came to visit me and he stayed 2-3 weeks, I don’t remember how long. He’d just sold a house he built and was now building another one, and had a sudden cash influx; that’s how he could afford to fly over to me.
At the time I was a magazine publisher and quite ill. He had headaches. I had none of the powers I have today: there was nothing I could do for him. Today I would know what to do… but I won’t cry for spilled milk. 2
Later that year he lost one eye, the cause of his headaches, then lost his job due to his funny looks with the glass eye… life is unfair.
I supported him and his family of five for a while, then he found odd jobs: he is really good with computers.
A few years ago the odd jobs ran out and one day he confessed to me that unless he found some source of income he would have to lose everything. I asked how much was the minimum he had to have. He told me and I hired him for that money.
I wasn’t willing to just give him the money: it would have taken his dignity, and he would have started to hate me. It is how the mind works: you hate your benefactor to avoid feeling ashamed. Nasty stuff.
Sometimes there is a lot of work, sometimes just about an hour a day. I have resolved not to worry about it, but he does. He is afraid to lose his few hundred bucks a month, the difference between being homeless or being OK.
In the beginning our relationship was horrible. He yelled at me, barked at me, but I kept swallowing: after all I am this enlightened being, lol, right? For your information: swallowing your feelings isn’t enlightened, it is called suppression. So I wasn’t that enlightened, got it?
Lately, since the second phase activators which he got through my history level, not directly, his feelings were getting smoother, so I recommended the Heaven on Earth. He is taking it. I think out of loyalty to me. This would have been impossible a year ago. He is still on his first bottle of Heaven on Earth.
Now, let me share the breakthrough. No fanfares, no lightworks, no sparkles: most breakthroughs in the process of ascension are eventless… that’s the point.
I needed an urgent job done today. I sent him a gtalk instant message asking if he could do the work. I apologized that I sprung it on him in the last minute. He said, no problem, he didn’t mind.
Saw it? No fireworks. What was the breakthrough? MY breakthrough!
The breakthrough was the tone of voice I used in my communication. There was authority and there was respect. For the first time in my life these two appeared in the same sentence for me.
Until now I had no way of speaking such that he, his needs, his time, his talents would be respected and I would ask for what I needed. Simply.
I would, before, suppress that I was unjust: after all he was done working for the day: he was watching television. Or could be that he planned on doing something else.
The breakthrough is that I apologized for springing the work (2-3 hours) on him, and still speak from authority.
Why am I sharing this here? I have a reason.
On the connection calls we practice speaking to our different aspects, our soul, our ego, and will soon add our body, our minds… And so far everybody is failing at combining these two seemingly incompatible voices: the voice of authority and the voice of respect.
I realized, today, that when you are willing and able to communicate that you know what it takes for the other person to do your bidding, the answer is always yes. The attitude is always willingness. The resulting relationship is always a team. Win-win. We are in this together.
People, when given the choice to be magnanimous, always rise to the occasion. OK, correction, if and when they are above a certain level.
Thanks to the 2nd Phase activators and the Heaven on Earth, my brother and his children are above that level. They weren’t always… they got there as a result.
Isn’t this great?
I did the activators myself, and my whole family benefited. They don’t even have to know it.
Oh, and here is a little gift: one of the movie clips that have effected my life the most… from The Fountainhead. Enjoy. It is required for our next activator on the 2nd Phase activator Series: the courage.
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A personal confession from Sophie: I am in this with you… we are in this together!
I’ve been happy for no reason for a few days now. I have the glow about me that I can only compare to the glow of people being in love. I even caught myself wanting to call a person that I normally get irritated by… and ask them out for coffee… No reason, just because I am so happy.
Most “gurus” aka teachers teach from their head.
I have an ex-teacher of mine who teaches internet marketing. They have a whole system. Their students pay over six thousand dollars a year to learn their system.
They have no successful students. Not one. Why? because they don’t teach what they do. In fact they don’t do any of the things they teach. None of the things that make them money are even remotely related to what they teach. None of the mindset stuff they teach actually does…
They hope that what they teach will work some day.
Their soul correction is the “habitual lier” or “the salesman”. 3
The second kind of teachers: teachers that have had a special talent and now they are trying to teach what they do, but of course talent can’t be taught. 4
The third kind of teacher is the one that picked a topic people would buy and now they teach it. They learned about the topic, but they don’t do anything remotely related to what they teach, they can’t, and even if they did, it wouldn’t work. Why? Because they teach tree of knowledge, hearsay… 5
Then there are the “let’s make a system of it” that make up a makeshift system but it works sometimes and not at others.
I have met and learned from all these types of teachers, and even more types, I just don’t want to spend this whole article on them.
The common element in these teachers is that they are inauthentic, that they are lying to you.
Even Dr. Edward Bach, who I adore, lied when he said that the system was complete. He should have said: As far as I can see, the system is complete… And of course it wasn’t. We have found already two missing (and killer strong) feelings that weren’t covered in his 38 Bach Flower Remedies.
Or Osho, who I also adore, lied when he said that you can do what he is doing… find your center by going in… maybe he could, but most people can’t and won’t.
I intentionally speak of dead teachers, I don’t want to make this a vibrational review… lol.
Anyway, what I want to say in this article, is that I am a different teacher.
I didn’t come up with a system and now teach it, ad nauseum. 6
No, I have come up with no system. I am learning the system by poking the box.
Poke-poke… something shows up. I teach it.
Poke-poke… something else shows up. I teach it.
Each poke reveals a missing piece. Sometimes I even misunderstand, misinterpret it.
Sometimes I ask the wrong questions and mislead you. As soon as I catch my mistake, I make it public.
Why do I do it this way? Two reasons:
1. It fits my personality and life’s purpose the best
2. Truth is not already there, already known, already revealed. Truth is much bigger than that, and therefore everyone who says they know the whole truth (Bible) have something to sell you. And that’s all they want to do: sell you stuff.
I am not doing this for you. Not at all. I am not in the helping business. I am not in the do-gooding business. I am not even offering one-on-one sessions, though I could, probably, make a lot of money that way.
I am not interested in that.
I am interested in this whole “game” of poking and revealing.
Remember? The purpose of my life is “living on the edge, generating distinctions of transformation for humankind”
And transformation, distinctions are what I am after. Transformation meaning: a sudden different view of the whole. Distinctions meaning some new missing piece in the jigsaw puzzle of how it is.
What does this mean to you? I don’t know… lol.
What does this mean to me? That I know, intimately.
It means, I am not just the owner, I am also a client… ripping off the famous line from the commercial of one of those hair-replacement joints… lol.
So when it’s not working for you, you can be sure I know it even before you let me know. It is not working for me either.
It became the most apparent with regards to the activators. Great idea, but it didn’t work. The old stuff absorbed the new… no change, or not much.
A few ripples on the surface, and then back to business as usual.
I even stopped doing them for a while. It was a devastating to me that I had something and it didn’t do what it was supposed to do.
Until a few days ago, until April 8. Then I woke up with the answer. I had been wondering, but never actually asked Soul to get the guidance for me. After our Saturday night connection call on the 7th I went to bed and had a conversation with soul: hey buddy, would you get me guidance on what’s missing so this would actually work? Please…
That night I had a dream that I was in a long line of cars on a highway… no movement at all.
I got out of the car and walked to the front of the line to see what was going on.
I saw a man sitting on the road, hunched over. It was my baby brother. I went up to him and saw a gaping wound on his back… and inside, when I leaned close, I could see something moving. I reached in, grabbed it, and started to pull. I pulled, and I pulled, and I pulled. It was a huge worm. After about six feet of it were out, it didn’t want to let go. I could see, in my mind’s eye, that it was holding on to dear life. I begged it to let go, and pulled it, steadily, but gently: I didn’t want it to break and spawn more worms from all the segments of its body.
Finally it let go. It was ugly, and it was deadly. A deadly slow poison, slowly killing my brother.
I woke up with clarity that morning: I needed something that wipes away the “worms” of your life, the ones that are killing you.
I asked Source if it could create an energy like that. The answer was yes. I asked: can I have it? The answer was yes. I asked: can it be a one-command energy? The answer was yes.
I decided on the name “WipeTheSlateClean” because it made sense to me. I don’t want to talk about killing worms: no one would admit to worms, not even me… lol.
I have been using it ever since, and immediately fill the vacuum it creates with something that is good for you… no, let me correct myself: good for us!
And I have been experiencing uncontrollable happiness ever since. I don’t even know what I wiped away… I don’t even care! lol.
Just please get it out… throw it into the toilet and flush, ok Source? Thank you. It’s gone, it’s gone, it’s gone.
So, that’s the kind of teacher I am. We are in this together. I don’t teach you anything I don’t need, and I find for us what we need… You have my word for it.
And when I screw up: I’ll let you know. Immediately.
With that said: I will re-record the Unconditional Love Activator: preferably on a live call.
If you own the activator: you can get in free. If you don’t: it will cost you exactly as much as the activator itself: a whopping $7.
The call will be on a Saturday afternoon, on a webinar. I don’t have a date yet, but you can start buying it… best is to just buy the activator, then you’ll be notified of the live call. If you can’t make it to the live call, you’ll get the corrected recording: it will have the Wipe energy included so you will get the Unconditional Love Activator permanently, in your bones… It will stick. Finally…
Same deal with the 11 activators of the 3rd Phase: the energies of the Healing Codes:7 they will be re-recorded as well. No schedule yet, sorry. Any suggestions? Please comment below.
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With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility
It’s a great sentence from Spiderman. I loved it. But I never thought it would say anything direct to me, not in a million years. I didn’t have great powers.
Until about two weeks ago.
Suddenly every time I was to infuse Source energies into water or remedy mix, I would have this intense pain in my chest, that I identified as Mimulus: fear.
It would even prevent me from connecting to Source on a level where I can make commands… I would have to meditate for long minutes before it would let me go past it… Of course Heaven on Earth works fast too.
The action that precipitated this big wave of fear was the creation of the WipeTheSlateClean® energy.
Coming Clean
Now, here it is that I need to come clean: Every activation that we did before that time was good, was wonderful, but it was time consuming and the activations needed to be repeated to work. The results were often reversible. The activations were not permanent, not what I had promised. 8
Why weren’t they permanent? Because the weed part of your subconscious (99%) kept feeding from the collective subconscious, and effectively drowned out the new healthy stuff… and there was only one solution: re-download the activator. And re-download it again.9
Who has time for that?
This was the true fact, until the creation of the WipeTheSlateClean energy…
What is the big deal?
This WipeTheSlateClean energy is really strong, and it works much like a weed killer in your garden: sometimes with just one application you can get whole weed plants to die, including its roots, and give room for what you want to grow: flowers, vegetables, herbs…
So, just like in a real garden, I have started to use the WipeTheSlateClean energy in small patches (you don’t use it on your whole garden, there is no time to replant the whole garden fast enough for the changes to stick, and there is no way you will be able to act consistent with the new subconscious world you now have. Nature abhors vacuum… and the collective subconscious rushes in.
In addition to that, activation in your subconscious is only the first step. You still need to incorporate the new activations in your life.
But with a total-wipeclean of the subconscious, you can’t even fathom the changes, they are so vast, so the changes can’t stick, won’t stick.
So I am doing the job, one little patch at a time, wipe/replant/practice in the 2nd Phase Activator Series 10 and I believe this new method is going to make it stick.
It has already produced some results on some people I have had the opportunity to observe, including myself: I stopped snapping at people: wow, that’s a big change… lol. And including some people who were with me from the beginning… Thank you Source!
In the 2nd Phase Activator Series we go about replanting your Subconscious in a whole season of growing, from now till September, or longer if needed. Three small patches a week…
The change is slow and organic, and I am sure that the students will become the seed of the New Humanity: it’s amazing.
But with great power comes great responsibility… For me and for them.
Luckily the recordings of the sessions work as well as the live sessions, so late-comers won’t lose anything. This could become a continuous process, a few new people a week… till we get to the Tipping Point… I can see it happening. Can you?
This might be really the turning point program to create the Thousand years of peace.
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]]>Finally I had a few hours for myself, so I whipped out my trusty old Quark Xpress that I hadn’t used for 5-6 years, and designed a label for the Heaven on Earth Remedy…
Here is how it is. Would you comment below and tell me
I’d really appreciate it, I don’t want to send it to the printer and then not love it… OK?
Please, and thank you.
As you can see, I have infused sugar free gummi bears, and sugar free breath mints, and it works. A gummy bear has enough oomph to last a day: just bite off a little bit each time you want to take the remedy. If I can buy gum drops, tiny little gummi stuff, sugar free, of course, I’ll use those as well.
I haven’t figured out what it must cost to be good both for you and me (after all I am doing all this office stuff myself at this point, and it is quite time consuming… eventually, with G-d’s help, (lol, an atheist’s prayer, lol) I’ll have some staff… but not just yet.)
First step will be to give it to people to test it.
Oh, and I tested something else today: I infused massage oil and body lotion with the Energizer and the Heaven on Earth, without the client’s knowledge, and a difficult client melted seconds after I applied the stuff… hey, it’s working! lol. Heaven on Earth, really.
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I had never had a piece of toast
Particularly long and wide
But fell upon the sanded floor
And always on the buttered side.
-James Pare
Anything that can go wrong, will.
-Finagle’s Law of Dynamic Negatives
If there are two or more ways to do something, and one of those ways can result in a catastrophe, then someone will do it.
-Edward A. Murphy. Jr. (Murphy’s Law)
The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet
-Jennings’ Corollary to Murphy’s Law of Selective Gravity
The other line always moves faster.
-Etorre’s Observation
There’s never time to do it right, but always time to do it over.
-Meskimen’ s Law
When your aspects, soul, ego, conscious mind, history, cells, body and Source are all going in a different direction, when there is a misalignment of purpose, then we experience chaos in our lives, on the micro and on the macro level, personally and as humanity.
Things can go dreadfully wrong in the world-and in our lives-when these seven dimensions are out of alignment!
What is there to do?
With this correction, balance and serenity are restored among the seven dimensions. Order emerges from chaos. Not only will your toast not fall on the buttered side, it won’t fall at all!
So how do you do it? the gist of it is very simple: you need to look at the largest context, the sky instead of the clouds. The chaos is all in the clouds’ level, no chaos on the sky level. If you can shift your attention to the sky regularly, the chaos disappears and order takes place. Simple but probably not easy for you.
The hardest thing, it seems, to know that you can watch and have fun.
Yesterday I took a brief break from work and lied down. I had all these thoughts rushing: all the thoughts that I wasn’t having while working. They were fun. They were speculating about different directions to take. I wanted to jump in and get wet. Then I thought better. When you jump into the ocean, all you can see is the waves, and you can drown. So instead I stayed on the shore and watched (and listened) as the thoughts were frolicking, and having fun, arriving at nothing, solving nothing, and then disappearing an their own accord.
I didn’t resist them, I didn’t control them. They fizzled out.
Try it. You’ll be surprised how much fun the thoughts can be when you are not involved!
You need to resolve to be the watcher, to be the observer, and to identify yourself only with that aspect of you: the watcher. The watcher has a distance from each other aspects, and is never involved. Involvement is what creates the chaos. Involvement is what robs you of your power.
There is no survival issue, no right or wrong in the attitude of the Watcher: it’s all good.
That attitude is your ticket to order from chaos.
Update May 19, 2012: I have gotten, recently, a very important piece of this particular puzzle: it seems that the Order from Chaos people are trapped in a particular worldview. Their own view of the world seems to be the right worldview and even when I ask them to look at what they are doing from the “opponent’s” view, they see that the opponent is wrong.
The opponent is always right, from their point of view, of course. Your job is to be able to get into their shoes, as if you had the same personal and cultural history, education, upbringing, gender, and then see if what you said or did was offensive to them.
The solution is NOT to suppress yourself. You don’t need to change. You only need to create bridges, where both parties can be right.
What is missing, as a result of your self-righteousness, is a context that is nurturing to THEM!
And the context will have to validate their point of view. Your mother is a catholic? Validate her worldview. It is valid for her! Your customers are feminist? Validate their worldview! It is valid from where they are looking at it!
How do you do that without giving up your worldview? One way is to create the context: what I am doing is for me, for myself, for what I need! Not to help you, not to make you wrong.
Example is the feminist customer: you like to open doors? Tell the customer to be gracious and allow you to do what you love to do. Then it won’t offend them, they are instead the generous one, not the offended.
I could give you more examples, but as you see, humility is the antidote for self-righteousness. And there is nothing fake about it: you do have a need according to your worldview!
There is no right worldview, by the way. There are accurate worldviews and inaccurate ones, but no right worldview. Which means yours is not better than theirs.
Stop trying to prove yourself right. There is no need to be right. Proving yourself right proves them wrong: you will have a lot of hate in your life. I can guarantee it.
Your chaos is self-created. Your ‘order from chaos’ move is entirely an inner job.
For other soul corrections, visit this page.
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Dear Sophie,
Read your love article– excellent- again, makes perfect sense
I’m exactly halfway thru the Wattles book, 11 I expect to finish it sometime tonight-
I saw that you have a webinar tomorrow/Saturday at 9 p.m. EST – yes, I remember the instructions about getting on early for downloading the software etc. so I can be on time-
You have a lot going on over there so some specific guidance for getting started would be much appreciated.For example: is that the best place for me to start with you? The 2nd Phase Activation thingie looks juicy and I’m a beginner with your terminology and science of mind so maybe. I believe that’s the arrangement that costs money (which is fine and I’m glad to pay) and I just need to know what the time commitment between class and homework ? would be. Is there homework? I’ve read so much now it’s a bit fuzzy. Also, your Bach Flower Remedies– how much would you recommend I start with? Am I looking at a 2 month commitment? 3? Ad infinitum? Need to know both for time and $ budget.
Whenever I do a program (or SYSTEM- I LOVE THAT- I’m a System (not computer) gal all the way) I do it 100% or not at all. Please advise the way you feel is best for me to engage
Thank you Sophie- I’m really excited/hopeful about this
JV
Answer:
JV,
coming to the webinar tomorrow is wonderful. But please note: the webinar is 4 pm NY time, 3 pm Chicago… the 9 pm is a regular connection call. There will be 3 webinars this Saturday, 2 connection calls and one special webinar: What is the Truth About You? I definitely want you to come to that!
The second phase activation series is a great place to start: it builds a strong foundation to be in alignment in your concepts and in your feelings with the Original Design.
Time commitment: it seems that this is what I am going to do:
Three regular sessions in the middle of the afternoon, and a redo of all three on Sunday nights (for about 20 weeks).
You can do the afternoons or you can do the Sunday night, or all 4. Homework: just awareness: mindfulness, finding the feeling that was downloaded, finding it in yourself and on others. And finding the opposite.
Often knowing what it isn’t is very helpful.
Heaven on Earth: be prepared to take it for a lifetime. It is in the drinking water now, very weak, but it’s there. So once you got “cleaned out” maybe even just the drinking water can do maintenance, but life may throw you curve balls, so you need to have the “real” thing at hand.
I am lowering the price by giving a larger quantity that is enough for 60 days: I am experimenting in this April special with regards to price. I am not sure yet, grab the April special if you can. It’s two for one.
I am happy that you’ll be on tomorrow’s call/webinar.
Looking forward to working with you.
Sophie
PS: I’ll find a new time slot for the Mental Calisthenics class that is currently on Sunday
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UPDATE: I, occasionally, refuse to connect to someone. I have learned my lesson, and now I ask Source before I connect to a person, if I am allowed.
I sometimes connect accidentally and I pay the price. My water gets de-energized, I get an attachment, I get an energetic attack.
Don’t be mistaken, what I teach is dangerous for the status quo… and status quo people will want me dead, or at least stopped.
I want to give them less and less occasion and opportunity to reach me.
Question:
Hi Sophie,
I didn’t see the option to donate on your site to measure one’s vibration. Do you still offer that?J
Answer:
I do not. I need to work uninterrupted for long hours, and not fragment my time.
Also, to measure someone’s vibration I need to connect to them, and it is very painful: most people are at or under 200, and have horrible feelings, like you right now.
your vibration is 210, but your emotional state is horrible, and I have to feel it. So it is not good for me to do that countless times throughout the day. Sometimes I can’t disconnect from the person, and there goes my day.
So, there you have it… lol
Thank you,
Sophie
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Question:
Sophie,
I have tried many things, but what you are teaching, I am understanding… and it feels SO amazing!A question…
You mentioned at the end of the connection calls that we’re connected for about an hour unless we say, “disconnect,” and to be careful because we’re wide open. If I would like to connect each morning and night, do I cloak myself, or step into a bubble and fill it with lifeforce energy as you described before I go about my day?I hope you can feel how much I appreciate your personal support and guidance!!
I am truly thanking God for guiding me to you!
XOXO
A
Answer:
I am connected most of the day. But I am conscious of it. If you can be conscious of it, you can stay connected. but it is not that easy for most of us.
And no, you are not vulnerable to the outside, you are vulnerable to your own negativity getting more oomph, if you know what I mean.
Practice and find out how long you canbe conscious that you are connected, and not do anything silly, like curse, or wish yourself dead, or something like that. ok?
I hope that I will be always able to maintain the personal touch, no matter how much we grow.
Thank you,
Sophie
Come to an amazing free webinar this Saturday where I’ll show you ways you can tap into your subconscious to find out why you are not happy, why you are not effective, not well, not free, and not successful in life.
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Sophie:
Sharing the light. A single candle, though its light is weak, banishes darkness. But it needs to be lit.
When you hide your light under a bushel basket so no one can see it: you are doing no one a service, including yourself.
Your job is to share your light, and trust that your single light will light up the life of all you touch.
You hiding your light is your soul correction: you are stingy and selfish in that.
Thank you, Sophie www.yourvibration.com
J:
Thank you Sophie. I plan to join your seminar for the first time saturday morning. I’ve been working on making a connection to source and higher self for quite some time and would definitely like to know if i’m actually making that connection.
Thanks again,
J
Sophie:
You definitely will, Jason, by the third of the session: that is what I do: connect people. What you did before won’t really matter. Some people connect easier, others take longer, but eventually all connect. It is built in, just was never revealed until recently.
Thank you, Sophie
J:
In your opinion, what is the best way for me to share my light? My first thought is that of love.
Sophie:
I don’t know you at all. But the best way to share your light is to grow it. To become excellent at what you do. To have the courage and the generosity to contribute to the world.
That love thing is all Tree of Knowledge. This is not about that kind of stuff: it is all fake.
First things first, guys: learn how to connect properly, get taught, tested, and know you are doing it right. Come to a connection call: 4 times a week, surely there is a time you can make it.
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