Reverse the meaning, flip the context of your most traumatic incident

upside down contextOne of the transformational moves I use with my students is "flipping the context."

Context is decisive, and the context inside which you live your life is what makes your life great or horrible... not what happens to you.

Here is an example of flipping the context from my favorite horoscope writer, Rob Brezsny:
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The most important three words to utter when you are stuck

I need help"I need help"

Sometimes these magical words, said at the right time, said to the right person, will make all the difference.

Sometimes even if you just say it to yourself it makes a difference.

Yesterday, on the Path coaching call, two of the seven participants asked for help.
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Phases Of Learning, Phases Of Self-Changing, Phases Of Transformation: How To Succeed In A World Dominated By Fixing

learning-to-walkIn my previous article I write about the creative plane vs. the competitive plane.

Today's culture, the norm, the planetary hypnosis (Dark Side) generated attitude is hurry and forcing.

fire-walkAlthough I don't like Dr. David Hawkins and his books, his phrase "power vs. force" is valid here: when you hurry you are trying to FORCE the Universe (and the people in it) to suddenly do what YOU WANT them to do, instead of falling in step with the Universe, and get what you want when it's good an ready.

Just watch your reaction, if you are a man, when the woman of the house interrupts what you are doing and demands that you take out the garbage, organize the garage, make the repairs you promised, right now, not when you are good and ready...

Or if you are a woman and your man demands sex, when you are not feeling well, when you are tired, when you don't feel like it, not in the mood... demands that you get ready at a moment's notice.

Feel your muscles tense even reading the scenarios... this is how the Universe reacts when you are in a hurry. Continue reading "Phases Of Learning, Phases Of Self-Changing, Phases Of Transformation: How To Succeed In A World Dominated By Fixing"