Your childhood holds the keys to your redemption, to your happiness, to your success

fair-chanceHumans are the most vulnerable creatures of the Planet. They are not big enough, they are not strong enough, to protect themselves effectively from being harmed by predators or nature.

The only reason humans, as a species have survived so far is because of humans' use of the brain to create protection from predators and the elements.

Nothing has changed: we, humans, are as vulnerable as every, but we have forgotten that the survival of the species depends on each individual in the species: it cannot be delegated to authorities, police, the medical establishment and the like. It has to happen on the individual level first and foremost.

We pretend not to know, because we really don't care, that for a child to grow up healthy, the child needs a supportive environment with a sense of safety, including emotional safety.
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What is the secret formula of accomplishment? Money, health, loving relationships?

from-little-to-bigSummary: In this article I am attempting to make the impossible possible, the unlikely likely... making great white sharks from minnows...1 to awaken the spirit dormant within you.

There is a "secret" formula, hiding in plain sight... But you can only see what your societally established filters allow through. Let us see, if I can break through, and show you the secret, so you can, finally, start accomplishing stuff... instead of being a permanent failure.

Warning: don't miss the footnotes: in this article they are especially important!

To get anything of value accomplished one needs

  1. work and one needs
  2. tools and skills. One also needs an environment (context) where
  3. one's purpose makes sense, and seems possible, seems doable to the person intending the accomplishment.
  4. it is supported by the environment (context) and doable.
  5. And one needs other people that make it possible to do more than just take care of life, taking care of the basics of life, so one has time for an accomplishment, outside of the basics of life.

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