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Turning things around… creating a turning pointI have a potential turning point for how I teach and what I teach… I saw it yesterday.It’s a potential turning point, because I am not sure I can do it. After all I would be teaching something I did not learn myself. So I don’t even know if … Continue reading “When you learn a new word, it opens the world for you”
On the other side of pain, on the other side of unpleasant… How firewalking is an analogy to life… Or how to innovate yourself out of a bad situationFirewalking is the act of walking barefoot over a bed of hot embers or stones.Firewalking has been practiced by many people and cultures in all parts of … Continue reading “How to innovate yourself out of a bad situation”
Unexpectedly, I am finding myself doing health coaching on the Reclaim program.Although that wasn’t my original intention, it turns out that if someone chooses to get well, get enough energy to live life well, to relate well, to find and live a purposeful life, then health coaching is their path, and my job is to … Continue reading “Can I connect to your Consciousness to get you well?”
Attitude is everything. If you take two people with the exact same circumstances, one will thrive, the other will shrink and perish. Attitude is your relationship to things. But not ‘relationship as an outward issue,’ but an internal issue. An attitude is relationship invented and expressed in language. It was invented, chosen, consciously, or unconsciously, in language. Mostly internal language, between you and you… you call them thoughts, but it is really a speaking you did… a decision, a judgment, a conclusion about you, about another, about the world.
To recap part 1 for those who can’t quite remember it. Your life can be seen as an example of two fairy tales. You live it unwittingly, and they act as the script, they act as a cage… Until you see what them for what they are.In this part I start with how my newfound … Continue reading “Two fairy tales to make sense of your life… Part 2”
Kabbalah teaches through stories… anecdotes, fables. Source teaches ME with fables too. So my dreams are teaching tools.What if two fairy tales could turn your life around, so you could love yourself and love your life?
The art and science of getting unstuck… aka ALLOWINGCan I really promise that I’ll take you to freedom? That I can take you to unstuck and moving?It may be that I have bit off more than I can chew.This feeling of being stuck, maybe even being trapped, the inability to move, the feeling that there … Continue reading “Is being stuck a personal issue that you should hide?”
I think the main issue that has arrested human evolution is not in the individual, but in the system.What is the system? because it is always the system… stupid.But the word system is as slippery as the word context… because it always means something different, yet there is a distinction that points to context or … Continue reading “Who has the right to say? The right to judge you?”
I have been tracking the mornings when I wake up with this ‘why bother? it is not going to work!’ feeling for a while. I am tired. Even resting doesn’t feel good. There is no future, nothing to look forward to.The most exciting thing is the first sip of tea. and the only exciting thing … Continue reading “Why you may be tired, maybe depressed, maybe just listless”
In our ‘Reframing Challenge’ suddenly being laughed at, or snarky remarks have come up to reframe.The challenge is to not take it personally.In the homo sapiens world everything is personal. They are laughing AT YOU…Here is an example when a person is bigger than that… and how that scenario looks from the sideways view. This … Continue reading “How to see a painful incident differently, even after years”
