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It must be January, because my Effortless Abundance bundle is selling a lot. And Unlimited Abundance, astutely, is launching this month…
January, everyone looking at their current situation and starting to organize themselves to improve what they have.
Continue reading “The month when abundance is on your mind”
I know, I know, everyone says, even the dictionary, that you are a human being, but it’s a misnomer.
Continue reading “What is the fundamental and profound difference between a human and a human being?”
If we continue with the analogy of climbing a circular staircase, in each paradigm you can be at the bottom of the steps on the top, or anywhere in between.
Look at the picture on the left: on the bottom there is crowding, competition… towards the top less and less people are on the steps… that is exactly how it is in raising your consciousness… people give up.
Let’s consider that it takes 100 rotations to get to the top of the staircase inside your current paradigm. Wherever you are, you’ll find yourself somewhere on that 1 to 100 scale. Most likely closer to the bottom… Sorry.
Continue reading “Levels of consciousness, like a staircase, harder on the top”
A bug free mind reader question. How to tell judgment from observation, surrender from resistance?
As I mentioned in a previous article, the Bug Free books** 1 can be your kindergarten, elementary school and maybe even your college… Then you need, if you are ambitious enough, if you have done well enough in those grades, you can start working with me.
Yesterday I had a session with a student, and that really drove it home for me.
Attending a class with me gives you the instant illusion that you have learned something. That you know something.
Continue reading “Judgment vs observation, surrender vs resistance?”
The purveyors of hopeWhen “picking” a state of being, an attitude, a mindset, conventional wisdom can be detrimental to our well-being.
Unless you are a prisoner in a concentration camp, and what’s predictable is that you will not make it out alive, hope is a very bad-for-you state to pick. But even there, unless it gives you actions that keep you alive longer, that make you take care of yourself, hope as a being, hopeful is the right word, will be just a feeling… and you know how it is with feelings: they come and go at their own accord: you can’t control feelings. Hope and hopeless are the two sides of the same coin. Being doesn’t have a flip side. Continue reading “Rose Colored Glasses, Hope, and other stuff that take you out of the present moment”
Most of the things that make sense are wrong: optimism, hope, big desires, motivation…
It’s the last day of 2014, and there is an undue optimism in the air. A stranger even said hello to me in the street…
Even more than at the beginning of spring… the calendar is telling you that hopefully 2015 will be different.
You will lose the weight, you will find the job of your dreams, you will get out of debt, you will start that business, you will find the love of your life. Continue reading “Please don’t be optimistic. Optimism is a delusion”
One famous marketer is filling my mail box with emails to double the speed of my reading. I used to jump on offers like that, I have taken three different speed reading classes, one even back in Hungary.
It seemed to me, like it probably seems to you, that getting the knowledge out of the written word faster would double your knowledge, and maybe double your success.
It makes sense, doesn’t it?
Continue reading “Double your reading speed… would that be really good for you?”
Surprise: I don’t need your gratitude. I don’t want your gratitude. I know what works, and I can find out if it worked for you without ever having to ask you. That’s what you can do with empathy.
So why do I encourage you to share? So others can hear that it works? Like a testimonial?
No, neither, but that’s a good idea, maybe I’ll use them as a testimonial!
So why then do I encourage you to share publicly?
Continue reading “Do I want, do I need your gratitude? Do I have Unrequited love?”
Capacities are like skills:
…is one such capacity is at the root of developing beliefs that will support you and what you are up to. The enemy is introduced below:
Reality? Collective hunch at best.
Continue reading “I Am Quite Comfortable In My Home Away From Home. My Life Isn’t Working. My Soul Is Shrinking. Our Planet Is Dying, Our Livelihood Is Threatened, But Go Home?”
Shall I?
Please comment below. I am not fishing for compliments. I am not asking you to tell me what to do… I make my own decisions, thank you very much.
But I’d like some feedback… make sure you use this opportunity for self-examination…
Unconscious answers will not be published, but I’ll read them.
Thank you.
OK… The email was a market research. I wanted to find out what people who just signed up for some freebie think about me, or supporting me.
I got my answer. From now on I will make it harder for people to sign up to my email list, to get any of my free products, because my list is full of freebie seekers, gossip seekers, and that is what I suspected, and consequently found out.
I know, it was unorthodox, and if you are one of my students, you got scared. I apologize, I should have only sent the question to people who aren’t my students. Duh, I wasn’t thinking.
I mean subscribers, readers… No, by no means.
Their energy dilutes the message. I wish I could share with you some of the hate mail I got… lol.
