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Google Podcasts | Email | OK, you… I hope you are waiting with baited breath to read all the things the dysfunctional family did to you… so you finally have an excuse for being the way you are.
A never do well An argumentative little sh!t A know it all Sneaky bastard A User A Taker A weakling trying to look strong by throwing your weight around An abuser (a thing or people) A follower, a second-hander A cowardly little sh!t Entitled slighted angry black hole
Oh, my judgmental (Virgo) self is coming out to have fun here…
Continue reading “If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, does it mean…” The narrative
A student of mine, after listening to my last Sunday call recording, asked why Jews turned to a different strategy than the slaves from Africa. Or Native Americans.
Continue reading “The narrative… the story that creates who you are”
And the picture of putting all those
starting point measurements also tells me how humanity as a whole is doing.
Pitiful. But why?
Most people think that what they do when they are at their best, when they go to church in their best church-going outfit, is who they are.
Or the all smiles pictures they post on social media.
What you do, who you are, what you listen to 90% of the time gives you the
Continue reading “Your life-success score is low… how do you raise it?” Frame: Your higher power?
Back in 1988 I had an emotional meltdown. I suddenly remembered things from my childhood.
I was suggested by someone in Landmark that it would be beneficial for me to join an ACOA group. Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families.
I did. I had clear signals that I belonged. #1 of
the identifying features of ACOA people is “I don’t know who I am”.
Anyway, an ACOA group is not a fun place.
Continue reading “Reframing: What is your higher power?”