Fear, arrogance, laziness… what is it about these that they stop you?

I am finding that what stops people from moving ahead in life is either fear or arrogance…

You could argue that laziness should be listed too, but I have found that laziness is a coverup for either fear or arrogance. 1

I get a lot of requests to help people eliminate fear, but I am sorry to tell you: I can’t and no one can.

But fear is not the problem, and it doesn’t need to be eliminated. I am afraid too, and you wouldn’t know from watching me.

It’s true, my hands get sweaty, my stomach gets into a knot, my heart is trying to jump out of my chest… but that does not stop me.

If and when I stop, I may blame it to fear, but it is not fear that is stopping you. You are stopping you. Continue reading “Fear, arrogance, laziness… what is it about these that they stop you?”

Did you get stuck at a 3-year old’s level, and you are still behaving like a 3-year old child

Did you get stuck, ontologically, at a 3-year old’s level, and you are still behaving like a 3-year old child

Ontology is being science.

It looks at the grounds of your being. Here are a few examples: “I am an object in the world of objects.” “I am not free to be myself!” “There is something wrong and it needs to be fixed!” “Don’t tell me what to do!” “I already know!” “It’s mine!” “I am a girl” “I am not loved” “Life is dangerous” “I can’t count on anyone” “I am worthless” 1

Your life is built on the grounds of your being… like a house. You don’t like your life? Examine your grounds of being: the issue is there. Continue reading “Did you get stuck at a 3-year old’s level, and you are still behaving like a 3-year old child”