As a True Empath I have to feel people's emotions.
So I am sitting here feeling someone's emotions who is suffering from anxiety.
He or she, I have no way to know who it is, has to make a decision, I guess.
In marketing classes, in marketing literature it is said that we make decisions emotionally and then justify our decision with reasoning.
But our emotions are not intelligent, they don't care about reality, and in addition, they are highly manipulable.
Here is an example that may make me look bad, but who cares? Continue reading "Anxiety, worry… Many bad feelings are a result of you having no tools in your tool box… or you not using them."
I have spoken about the holes in your education in other articles. I have also spoken about the holes in your health.
Both cause you to cope with life poorly, to have less and less freedom in life.
And interestingly, both came from the desire to have more freedom, and to give our offspring more freedom than we had ourselves.
The problem can be summed up in a word: choice.
We think that the more choice we have the freer we are. Continue reading "People go on talking about freedom, but they don’t want freedom exactly, they want irresponsibility"
Words are tricky. You think you understand them, and you think that everyone hears the same meaning when they hear it. They don't... maybe ever!
The main problem with the Tree of Knowledge: we learn our world through words, instead of experience.
And you end up delusional, making mistakes, and never happy.
This is the main reason for unhappiness. The words create an illusion of being reality... but they aren't... and moreover the inner map of reality they create is vastly different from reality itself. Continue reading "Yesterday I introduced the distinction “look with fuzzy eyes” on the Feelings webinar."
If you wanted to change... if you actually wanted to change... so your life can change too... where would you make the change?
I just had a conversation with one of my students who shows promise to be able to change.
The conversation was about how to behave, what to do when you notice mistakes, mistakes YOU make.
Mistakes are like the fruit on the fruit bearing tree. Symptoms. Show what kind of tree you have...
On a side note: where do I look when I assess who will change and who will not?
I will look at two places:
- 1. do they argue or offer explanations or excuses when they get feedback from me. Argument, explanations, and excuses are the sign of a foolish person who won't take feedback, and either won't change, or will do it to either curry approval from you, or to prove you wrong.
- 2. An immediate testing tool is the 5-question exercise. If they do it, that is a very good sign that they will be willing to change.
Continue reading "Change… The hardest thing. Why? Do you really want to change? I didn’t think so."
I had an experience this morning that I'd like to share.
Someone asked for the silent version of the Effortless Abundance Activator audio.
I dug for the parts of it my hard drive, and put it together... without the ocean sound in the background. Don't forget, most of the activators are put together from many audios layered, otherwise each energy would come down one after the other and the effect would be less, and the audio longer. So I record the energies in separate audios and then layer them... instead.
Continue reading "Do you want to fall in love with yourself?"
Can you go back to the past and change it? Will the future change with it?
Silly sounding question, but it is not as silly as it sounds.
Because we look at life, at what is happening, through the limited perspective of the human mind, we actually don't know what is happening, only
- a slice of what happened
- only a skewed version of what happened
Ultimately we can only experience and react to what we see, and what we see is both limited and skewed.
Continue reading "Back to the future… A practical and easy method of time travel"
When we talk about time travel, what we mean is totally and fully in the 1% reality. I call this reality the horizontal plane.
Just watch the movie: Back to the Future, and you see the character played by Michael J. Fox physically did stuff and that changed the future that he traveled back to. It changed the people, their income level, their behavior, their social status.
But what if our limited thinking is not the only way to look at this phenomenon?
Let me tell you something that I had first hand experience with.
Some 20 years ago, in a Landmark Seminar, the Leadership Seminar, (for those of you that care,) we needed to do a group project to practice leadership. Continue reading "Time Travel and Kabbalah"