How will you have the energy to grow? How I did it…

I saw something today I hadn't seen before. But before I say what I saw, let me dispel some myth: there is no such thing as bad energy. Energy is energy. It is good if you use it for good. And bad if you use it for bad. I'll write another article on this: but I have the urge to state it here and now: there is no such thing as bad energy.

All energy is good... and some meets you and triggers something bad... But it's you... sorry. Oops.

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Updated: So you want to feel special… how is it going for you?

bisexual-bison-specialSo you want to feel special?

We are all special, if special means, as special as our thumbprint... But that is not special enough for you, is it?

You want to be SPECIAL... so you can be treated special... a special talent, outstanding, mind boggling, awesome, the best.

In this article I will shed light to an important phenomenon that we are all experiencing... the ITCH, that keeps us miserable, and the HORIZON that keeps us on track, sane, happy and always well.
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Updated: Are you at cause or are you at effect?

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Can context be cause?

Note: I wrote this article three years ago, but it is as timely as ever... It moved me then, and it moves me today... Enjoy!

This question doesn't sound like it could make much sense, does it? But when you find out what it means, you'll be thrilled to know that it is the panacea, the cure for most of what ails us.

By the way, Nature's fundamental law is: Like causes cause like effects. If something you consider "cause" doesn't work reliably, it is not a cause, it's an effect. Like prayer, like certain remedies, like the "Law" of attraction, like thinking positively, like placebo...

The Second Phase Activators Course just finished on Sunday, and I am working on the next course. Making decisions, creating some new stuff. And a big change: I will not allow everyone to sign up, just because they want to be in it.

There are some current students who, because of their attitude, lag behind. This creates tension in the group: I spend more time trying to unstuck the unwilling or lazy ones than actually teaching stuff. (The main unwilling attitudes 'it's good enough for me the way it is,' 'why rock the boat,' or belligerence or even hostility/resistance are the attitudes I have been experiencing and won't tolerate in my next courses.

These people also don't have a big enough desire to change or even to experiment, and change and experimenting are mandatory if you want to create a shift in your life to the better.)

I also needed to create changes in MY attitude to be able to believe that I can pick and choose who I want to teach. That is a long shot from where I started: accepting anyone who was willing.
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When you realize that YOU are wasting your life… Updated

where are you leaking? how do you waste your life? How do YOU waste your life? How do YOU leak?

A student of mine watched a movie last night. In the movie she heard the following dialogue:

"Thank you for saving my life" "Don’t waste it."

She cried. Later her husband was picking a fight with her. She stepped back 1 and didn't react.

An hour later the husband came downstairs. She offered him tea. He apologized for his behavior.

Why am I sharing this with you? Because one way or another we are all wasting our life, or most of it.

The most useful question I have found to snap me out of this wasteful way of being is:

What is using my perfectly good life right now?

Here are some examples. All are life-wasters that you can eliminate by bringing consciousness to life... stopping for a moment, and choose.... Helping you with that are, of course, the the activators.

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If your vibration is low, the more something resonates with you the less its truth value or Why Paul Selig is so popular

ResonanceIf your vibration is low, the more something resonates with you the less its truth value.

Why? Because you like what you are. You are attracted what confirms what you think, how you are, who you are, what you know. 1

There is no mystery why humanity is growing away from its true nature, not towards it.

Watch who and what is hugely popular?

The more popular someone is, the more people they attract, the closer their "truth" is to the common society trained mind. The more it sounds true to the low vibration man... The average vibration on the Planet is 120... the closer a guru is to that vibration the more people they attract.
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What it takes to get ahead in life, what it takes to raise your vibration from where you are now

Albert Einstein - everyone is a genius but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a treeWe must admit there are people who do LIFE better than we do, they get ahead, they live well, seem happy.

How do successful people do it? They have good judgment. But where do you get such good judgement from? Good judgment comes from bad experience. And the bad experience comes from pain. What you do with it will make all the difference, what is your attitude towards it, will make you win in life, or stuck in life.

Here is a famous story, an illustration:
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Bedwetting… what is in common with schizophrenia… or how to drive someone crazy

Love & HateAll children are empathic. And all children must abandon empathy because of the pretense of their parents and care-givers.

Of course, some people are empaths... and they must learn suppression, avoidance, going unconscious for long periods of times if they want to remain sane.

Let me explain.

I grew up with two Holocaust survivor parents. They met in one of those camps where the Nazis collected the Jews before they transported them to a concentration camp.

Later my father impregnated my mother... and shortly after the boy was born, they got married.

My father was insensitive, and my mother didn't love him. Then she got pregnant with me, and she put all her dislike of my father onto me.

According to some psychologists, I suffered from double bind: i.e. my mother's feelings and behavior told two different stories. Impossible to reconcile, I went to the suppression route.

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Why would you want to connect to Source? Will it raise your vibration?

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Let me start with the story of a famous thief...

Arthur Barry was described by Time as "The slickest second-story man in the East," truly one of the most famous jewel thieves of all times. 1

In his years of crime, he committed as many as 150 burglaries and stole jewels valued between $5 and $10 million.

He seldom robbed from anyone not listed in the Social Register and often did his work in... get this...

A tuxedo!
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Why you feel lost… When you feel lost… here is how to find yourself…

rollercoaster-emotional-statesWhat does it mean feeling lost?

When you don't feel at home in your body, when your feelings, your thoughts pull you out of yourself, you have a sense that you are, somehow, lost in the shuffle. That you don't have any say in the matter of your life, what you feel, what you do, what you say...

You feel you are put on a roller coaster, and it wasn't you who did it.

How did it happen and what you can do about it? How you can find your way back home, to your own self... this is what this article is about.
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What is consciousness, really?

not-the-thinkerI am here, waiting for the cable man to fix my internet. It's been down since yesterday afternoon.

It is hard to remember what we did with our lives before the internet... for me it's been 18 years. It is hard to figure out what I can do that does not involve the internet... Finally I settle on writing, editing, and such.

It's 11:30 am. The repairman was scheduled to be here at 11. I am sitting here, uncharacteristically anxious, contemplating that the man won't even show up, that he will lie, that I will have to be another day without the ability to work.

It's excruciatingly painful. I am diligently making room for the bad feelings, including them, breathing normally. Then I have a suspicion: is this mine? I normally don't get anxious: I take life as it comes.

Turns out I tuned into the repairman: it's his anxiety. Hm.
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