Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
It’s been very difficult for me to bring examples to the phenomenon “or-ness”, in spite of the fact that it is all over. I was trying to define it, but it’s eluded me.
Here is an article I didn’t write. It is a beautiful illustration of the principle of how to replace “or” with “and” and give birth to a lot better, a lot more loving life than it was before. Really nicely done: Continue reading “One Word That Should Never Follow “I Love You””
You must go through emotional phases, no matter how high your vibration, or how successful you are
You imagine that when you’ll have raised your vibration sufficiently, you won’t have sadness, hopelessness, despair… frustration, hate, spite, resistance, and such. Bah humbug. Continue reading “Want to avoid negative emotions? Stupid move!”
My dominant emotion is frustration.
Of course frustration lacks humility… frustration is when you are trying to force your will on reality.
things take as long as they do, people do whatever they do, and you’ll screw up, like everybody else.
But, of course, my soul correction is Forget Thyself… meaning allow life to unfold.
That, allowing anything, is the hardest thing for a human… And allowing and yet feeling powerful is even rarer.
We want to make things happen, rush things along, push, pull… and yell in frustration.
Continue reading “Frustration… or pushing on a string”
The ones who fight are broken.
You fight? you’re broken
To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?
Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.
I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.
Continue reading “Winners don’t fight what is: they use it.”
It’s even obvious to you that allowing is missing… But how do you activate the capacity of allowing, and then how do you make the capacity a working skill?
Allowing is what’s between you and serenity. I don’t mean happiness, because happiness has its roller coaster nature: happiness has unhappiness as its shadow. You can only get happiness if you are willing to have unhappiness.
Allowing is letting it be. And although you may feel the urge to change it, fix it, kill it, hide it, hide from it, allowing is authentically allowing something to be, and gain your own beingness.
Continue reading “Are you a match to life? If not: Allowing is missing.”
Can you be with it?Can you just be… not running away. Not trying to fix it. Not hating it. Just BE. Be there.
Can you have that thing there, threatening as it might be, and just be?
And observe? And do nothing?
None of your buttons pushed, none of your usual anger, or whatever… just silence, just peace, just emergence? Continue reading “Can you be with it? Have that thing there and just be?”
