Here is an article I didn’t write. It is a beautiful illustration of the principle of how to replace “or” with “and” and give birth to a lot better, a lot more loving life than it was before. Really nicely done: Continue reading “One Word That Should Never Follow “I Love You””
Why you must go through emotional phases, no matter how high your vibration, or how successful you are
- You imagine that when you’ll have raised your vibration sufficiently, you won’t have sadness, hopelessness, despair… frustration, hate, spite, resistance, and such. Bah humbug.
- You imagine that successful people don’t have those feelings… so you imagine that if you want to be successful you need to get rid of the bad feelings.
- You don’t even care about vibration and success, you just don’t want to feel those bad feelings.
But you are building pies in the sky… because those feelings are normal, necessary, and you can’t and should not get rid of them.
Continue reading “Want to avoid negative emotions? Stupid move!”
Of course frustration lacks humility… frustration is when you are trying to force your will on reality.
things take as long as they do, people do whatever they do, and you’ll screw up, like everybody else.
But, of course, my soul correction is Forget Thyself… meaning allow life to unfold.
That, allowing anything, is the hardest thing for a human… And allowing and yet feeling powerful is even rarer.
We want to make things happen, rush things along, push, pull… and yell in frustration.
Continue reading “Frustration… or pushing on a string”
To all the people that had their anchor-to-doom attachment pulled, I recommended that they start using the Unconditional Love Activator. Why?
Because the capacity of allowing need to be first practiced between you and you. Between you and your actions. Between you and your feelings, thoughts, and urges.
Without first allowing what is, you will ALWAYS be ineffective, bruised, and beaten.
I have learned this the hard way. I am a very forceful person by nature, and that is a horrible thing for a coach. Forcefulness create resistance in the other person, and instead of smooth transition to desirable actions, I trigger fighting, belligerence, and ultimately failure.
Continue reading “Winners don’t fight what is: they use it. The ones that fight are broken.”
Allowing is what’s between you and serenity. I don’t mean happiness, because happiness has its roller coaster nature: happiness has unhappiness as its shadow. You can only get happiness if you are willing to have unhappiness.
Allowing is letting it be. And although you may feel the urge to change it, fix it, kill it, hide it, hide from it, allowing is authentically allowing something to be, and gain your own beingness.
Without allowing you have no access to beingness.
Can you be with it? Can you have that thing there, threatening as it might be, and just be? And observe? And do nothing? None of your buttons pushed, none of your usual anger, or whatever… just silence, just peace, just emergence?
It is the most evolved state. It looks similar to ignorance… like all of Germany ignoring, turning a blind eye to the genocide of undesirables, of which Jews were just one group. Homosexuals, gypsies, communists, intellectuals that didn’t cooperate…
Ignorance comes from not caring. Ignorance is an animal state. It is the ultimate “desire-for-the-self-alone” because if you didn’t see it you don’t have to do anything, you don’t have to feel anything, including fear, oneness, you can just continue being sheep.
Continue reading “Can you be with it? Can you have that thing there, threatening as it might be, and just be? And observe? And do nothing?”