Are you running on empty?

running on empty,depleted I have been looking at the state of your adrenals to decide and see, not so much into your experience... but your experience matters.

Are you running on empty? By the middle of the day, by Thursday you are ready for the bed or the weekend respectively.

The other day, while leading a workshop, one of the students said something, and I started to laugh uncontrollably. I laughed for minutes, it seemed, and could not stop for a long time. I wept more from laughing than most people cry from sadness, lol.

I have been observing myself the past week or so, and my joy of life, my satisfaction level, my experience of being alive has been going down steadily with every passing day. Yesterday I got close to the breaking point.

I was exhausted. So I thought that I needed rest. Or some food... But then I muscle tested myself and it said I was not tired. I was running on empty. I was depleted... I AM depleted.

I measured my health measurements, and all dropped, some dropped so far, I saw that I undid almost 2 months worth of healing in just one week. Continue reading "Are you running on empty?"

Why and how the hit-bottom method works? And how you can alter the future with it…

hitting bottom is a good thingIn numerology, each number has a special meaning... and even the components of your final destiny number...

My main number is 7, my secondary number is 4.

I like 4. Four symbolizes a chimney: there is only one way to go: up.

Most numbers have sideways moves... and that is what most people do to avoid growing. To avoid what it takes, work, pain, telling the truth... avoiding these at all cost... even if the cost is everything and anything they ever wanted...

So as a coach, I have to take them to a magical turning point: I need to force them to hit bottom. If they let me... 🙁

I had two workshops yesterday... And in the second, two of my participants volunteered to declare that they hit bottom. Continue reading "Why and how the hit-bottom method works? And how you can alter the future with it…"

Principle guided life… OK… but what principles will make you happy?

When I wrote the article about racial, ancestral identity and its importance, I touched on something that is not valuable for most people... because I didn't go deep enough and I didn't accurately identify what it takes to be proud of who you are, where you belong.

I got on the phone with one of the people who was very unhappy about that article... I was eager to talk, because it is near impossible to go beyond the visible by yourself. It is a whole lot easier when you get input... because what is invisible to you can be visible for another.

The conversation was fruitful... And the insight to me was: it is not virtues, it is principles that form the basis of a happy life... I will elaborate...
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Your deserving factor, your earning factor… How much do you deserve? How much have you earned? Are you worth a damn?

I am listening to step 1 of the 67 steps again. The seventh time? Eighth time? I have lost track.

And as is usual for me, I am seeing something that Tai is not saying, and I kind of have been seeing, but not really. In the corner of my eyes.

THERE is a Principle of Power in every person: and there does not appear to be any limit to the possibilities of his growth

This article is based on Wallace D. Wattles' famous third book, The Science Of Being Great and, of course, what I have to say about the topic.

We all want to be great... or at least be considered great, and we all fall short... because we are NOT great, not great at all. The gap between what we hope and what we produce keeps us, overtly or covertly miserable and self-hating.

By being great Wallace D. Wattles means someone who tunes in to All-Knowledge AND acts in a Certain Way. Neither of it is typical... neither of it is practiced by the majority, although all consider it a standard, an ideal... for others.

This chapter establishes the grounds from which Wattles builds his theory: Human being is miserable unless he is growing. Miserable, unless he is advancing. By nature...

I am definitely an example of being able to tune into the All-Knowledge, and am a student of acting in a Certain Way. I am not there much of the time... maybe not even 80%. But the quality of my life is incomparable with what it was before I started practicing the Certain Way.

Read and heed. You'll know if you are ready to hear this or not. How will you know? This will sound like good news if you are ready. And boring or not for you, if you are not. Or worse than that: you'll think of all the people for whom this should be a must, but not you... (Especially if your soul correction is "Removing The Dark Side".

I hope you are ready. For your own sake...
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Debunking the myth of fast

Everything that is valuable is invisible...

...when things are fast

In my flagship course, 1 some people are in a hurry to get through...

How you do anything is how you do everything... they are in a hurry to get through life to get to the good stuff.

They are missing life, they are missing the partner call and benefits it can give them: getting present to the invisible.

What is invisible for you now becomes visible when you slow down.

Unfortunately to all of us, today's lifestyle with the movies that have quick cuts, with social media, with fast cars, slowing down feels counter intuitive, so we take pride in being fast... and faster.

But being fast makes you miss everything. Continue reading "Debunking the myth of fast"

Find a Growth Method That Matches Your Personality

growing-as-personThere are two categories of humans from the aspect of personal growth:

  1. sheep, victim, the effect... not in action, hoping, praying, visualizing, etc.
  2. the climber

In this article I want to talk about the climber. The politician. The ruthless user. The win-lose type of person.

Why do you want to know them? Because you need to know evil intimately to fight evil.
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Are you stingy with yourself? Skimping?

I am watching you... lol. Not like Big Brother, more like I learn from you what you need. Where you are defeating your best intentions, where you leak energy, where you get it wrong.

Some articles don't make any noise: there is no one to hear them. My last article was like that. A tree that falls in a forest... doesn't make any noise, even though it fell... Why? Because no one heard it.

Because you are here (I hope at least some of you) to get help in attaining to the good life, You want me to watch you... it is for your benefit.

I was just telling one of my students the biggest missing he has: The principle that

everything you ever wanted comes to you through other people

or as Wallace D. Wattles says in The Science of Getting Rich: the gold coins won't roll out and to you, they will be in the hands of others.
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Control Life Or Dance With Life, Fit in or be happy… that is the question

from the sheep's point of viewSociety is a rule-system designed to perpetuate itself and only itself. It considered outsiders, differents an enemy and most of society's activity, is hunting down and destroying everyone who is different.

Society is self-regulating: it feeds the members that comply, and denies sustenance to those that don't comply, that don't fit it.
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Do you meet others’ expectation of you? No? Don’t care? There is a price to pay…

If you are on this site, you will find yourself, more or less, in this article. And it may change your life.

A student writes,

Hi Sophie, I think I take trivial and superficial things too seriously. How can I let go of these immaterial incidents or people and focus on important things that truly matter to me?

this was my answer

"This is the sign of two things: 1. your map of reality isn't very similar to reality. 2. you have too much importance attached to nice words about you… i.e. you want to be defined by words not by your actions.
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