How to live your life’s purpose: today

your life is like a trainThere is an audio I recorded six years ago but it is as sharp as anything I do today...
It is about how to live your soul's purpose, and how to start, finally doing something substantial, worth being called your life's work...

In this old audio I address something really important: your being, your attitude, at any moment, is correlated or very influenced, so much that it is given by the future you are heading for.

The future you are heading for is destination towards which the rails of your train go... If you are on a train to Chicago, chances are you are going to arrive to Chicago.
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The key to consistency… Winners are consistent. What is missing for you?

Yesterday I had a huge awakening.

A long held assessment of mine that I was a lousy business coach fall apart.

I have tried my hand on business coaching many times in the past 40 years, and every time I hated it. So I didn't even gave myself an opportunity to do it badly... I fired the clients after one or two sessions.

Now, what has changed that I don't think of myself as a bad business coach?

A whole lot...

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From time to time I get incoherent.

heart coherence Coherence is when all your energies, all your fibers share the same direction and the same rhythm.

Much like having a six-horse carriage, and the horses pull in the same direction.

Incoherence is like herding cats... hopeless.

I am rarely incoherent. And when I am: I am acutely aware of it. Very unpleasant.

The truth is: I used to be incoherent most of the time.

What is the cause of incoherence? I think, for me, too many choices. And an inability or unwillingness to narrow them down, and maybe choose. Continue reading "From time to time I get incoherent."

What can geniuses teach you… no matter what is your IQ

I just finished reading an article online, a National Geographic article on genius.

Like Tai makes us look at billionaires to learn from, I am looking at genius to learn from how to teach you.

I've read the article. I found it occasionally irritating.

It's not a conscious irritation, like "nooo, you don't know! or Nooo, not true!" you often experience when you hear something or read something you don't like.

This was an irritation I just noticed... after I read the article.

So let me deal with this first, so I can get to what I want to say:

Researchers and their questions are pedestrian. Continue reading "What can geniuses teach you… no matter what is your IQ"

Does what you know about eating serve you well?

I wrote about skill building yesterday.

One of the skills you need to build is to eat right.

The information out there is faulty.

Just like the person who commented on my site this morning, people, who are clueless, misguided, delusional, have as much right to post on the internet as people with legitimate knowledge. And they do... in droves.

It is as if you went to a school where the teachers were volunteers from all walks of life, and you can't tell the difference between what they teach and what is so.

A lot like church. If you say it fervently enough, it must be true.
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Investor mentality: what are your non-renewable resources?

When you want to make sure you only eat what is on your food list, I suggest that you don't have anything in your cupboards that you should not eat.

But what should you do if you are always distracted, click-baited on the Internet, and therefore never amount to much? Never amounting to much is a version of being fat, obese, a lump of fat... in a way.

This is how I do it?

I have a lot of small things to do I have chosen, the good food equivalent for my success and growth, that I have committed to do every day. Continue reading "Investor mentality: what are your non-renewable resources?"

Lots of people unsubscribed after I published that I don’t believe in the Law of Attraction.

If I could stand on the rooftop and yell it to every person who visits my site, I would have a mailing list that has eliminated the weak, the slothful, the unable to think for themselves crowd.

So, what is the "famous" law of attraction myth and what are the common characteristics of the people who believe in it?

In the New Thought philosophy, the law of attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life. The teaching is based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from "pure energy", and that through the process of "like energy attracting like energy" a person can improve their own health, wealth and personal relationships.

The concept of law of attraction received criticism in skeptical essays, such as Robert Todd Carroll's The Skeptic's Dictionary.

Law of attraction is an example of a pseudoscience.

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Why I am not interested in healing, but very interested in getting you well?

Healing should mean "getting you well", and on the 13th floor of your being: it is.

But humanity lives on the 14th and the 15th floor... the Tree of Knowledge, and there healing means something entirely different. It means that someone who is a "healer" does woowoo and then whatever was bothering you goes away.

Not going to happen. But people are seeking healing, want to be healers, so I am changing the words... and of course a ton of people who this way can keep on dreaming.

I changed my site's heading from healing to "getting you well" and the quality of the people changed DRAMATICALLY! Who would have thought? I was guided to change... but I surely didn't expect that I was going to rid myself of the wannabe's and the secondhanders.

The words sound similar, but the meaning, the emotional meaning in today's "culture" is vastly different.

The only thing that can heal your body is your body itself.
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Is happiness even possible? Is self-hate, self-punishing a good path to it?

It's Tuesday, and my Rob Brezsny horoscope arrived this morning.

It addressed something I wanted to address, because it is important: treating yourself well by providing yourself with what you need to be well, to do well, to feel well.

You treat your pets better than yourself.

If you were only judgmental and stingy with others, that would be one thing. But you are stingy with yourself.

You judge yourself harshly, you treat yourself badly, and you skimp on yourself first.

Consider yourself your own child, or your own pet? And your relationship, your treatment of it public.

A lot of people, in private, abuse with impunity, but would not dare do the same in public, or when someone can see it. They fear judgment. Continue reading "Is happiness even possible? Is self-hate, self-punishing a good path to it?"

The game has changed, and I cannot speak my mind as I used to

America destroyed from the insideI have been doing, for the past 4-5 hours, what I haven't done, ever, since I've been writing articles.

The game has changed, and I cannot speak my mind as I used to: Free Speech, the First Amendment, hasn't been officially lifted, but it will be... all signs point to a police state... a racist country... fascism.

So it is dangerous to speak... already. Articles on the internet are there for the duration...

The other reason I have been thinking is this: a strategy is needed to turn around the unfortunate coming to power of the Rich and uncaring.

And it seems to me that strategy is the weak point of humanity... people can only think one or maybe two steps ahead... no chess masters outside of chess...

Strategy is not my strong suit... I am a Quickstart, remember? I like to “figure it out as I go.”
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