What is an adult, what is a child... and does your ego-state (Child, Parent, Adult) influence how much money you have, how much love you have, how healthy you are?
In the starting point measurements I measure (#19) To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. or asked in another way, how much does your adult run your life? The more adult the more results...
And how much is the child running your life, how much is it running your life to the ground?
Continue reading "How old is your child self that is running your life to the ground?"
The Logic System Of The Mind Is "Everything Is The Same As Everything Else ... Except Not Always."... and the mind, of course, is stupid
The test of a first-rate intelligence (astuteness) is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.
The comment that sent me to the article on the different cows that produce different milk woke me up.
Life is a lot more complex, has a lot more variety than our brain, hellbent on simplifying, is able to, or even willing to track.
I fell in hate with Bill Harris, when he said: water is water. That was in 2005. I knew better...
What I didn't know, that everything that looks the same isn't the same by necessity, only by accident. Continue reading "How lack of astuteness keeps us Sick"
I just read an article on our mindset, collective mindset, where you wait until something goes really wrong and then you seek out help. It's here in pdf form... for your convenience. incremental-medicine
This is the mindset that will move you out of trouble and towards a successful life in every area of your life, health, wealth, love, and happiness.
But this is not how you live. You live your life campaigning.
Anything that doesn't require drama, heroism, anything that is not over the top is ignored, poo-pooed, looked down upon. In every area of life. By you, and by "them". You dream of being a billionaire while your bills aren't paid. You dream of a private jet while your credit cards are maxed out. You dream of being a rock star while you haven't been able to play one song well.
You don't know, or you ignore the cause of your misery, and then you need rescuing. Continue reading "Heroism vs. incremental process: choosing will choose your life for you"