Actually, I continued to participate in Landmark after the incident I'll tell you about... but NEVER intended to contribute any more. Or not really. I was participating from hurt... knowing that what was broken cannot be fixed.
18 years ago, as I was coaching someone, it became clear to me that there are this four core invisibles, that are underneath every issue, every distinction, every weird, unethical, unsavory action a human being makes. Continue reading "The four core default contexts… or Why I stopped participating in Landmark Education?"
I had a conversation yesterday with one of my clients, and as it is predictable in many conversations, weight came up.
Weight is a universal source of grief, effort, disappointment, and self-hate.
But why would that be so?
I can recall, in my life, four "campaigns" to regain control over my body.
The most recent one is successful and is going to last. The previous ones included one or two elements that were not sustainable. for example the first time I was on a starvation diet, and I maintained it for 10 years, until I came to the United States, where the plenty beat me on my a**. Continue reading "When all your efforts result in no learning"
This is probably the most shocking sentence in the whole 67 step program.
I literally don't know anyone who lives that way.
People try to succeed, try a diet, try this and try that... while their plane crashes in every area.
So what is the difference between who are like that, who are on their way to become that kind of person, and others who never ever land their plane on the landing strip? Continue reading "Make your plane go where you want it to go… or what one thing you want to learn from Babe Ruth"
There is something I struggled with for decades, I have, it seems, overcome it, and have never seemed to look at it again... ponder it, and then teach it.
A different look at distinction reveals a different way lack of distinctions make life more difficult.
Imagine a surgeon in the operating room talking like this: Nurse, give me that little thingie... you know the one with the curved blades that aren't blades at all, but look like blades... you know?
If things don't have exactly defined names, the surgeon will kill the patient.
Half of being a surgeon is to know what tool to use and what it is called.
The same is true in every area of life, especially when it also concerns other people. Continue reading "Beingness is invisible, but it is the key to happiness…"
Why is drama a racket? Why is it never real...
Things happen. And you do what you do. You may get mauled, killed, or laughed at. But drama only happens in your head... it is never out there.
You look in the mirror and you see what you see.
I look in the mirror and I see loser. Why? I don't care. I know there is no loser there... in fact there is no loser anywhere. so I have a choice: make drama or not make drama.
Most of my life, like everyone, I was making drama.
I found clever or not so clever ways to make people say that I was a loser or something like it. Other ways to prove I was or I wasn't.
Life was a drama around being a loser. Continue reading "You are a racketeer. Small time, bit player. Smoke and mirrors…"
I can activate DNA capacities energetically. It was a question for a while if it works... and it turned out that unless you use a capacity it won't stay "ON". Your "system" preserves energy, and an unused capacity uses a lot of energy, while it isn't used.
I activate a new capacity. If you used it, a whole new world would open up for you... But for you nothing happened... But what just happened?
When I activate a new capacity, you have an opportunity. You either take it or you don't.
Opportunities come with a count-down timer... They expire. That's why the phrase says: window of opportunity...
You continue doing what you have always done, exactly the way you have always done it.
What happens? The opportunity closes. That's it. Good bye.
There are 160 capacities that you could, potentially, activate.
Continue reading "I activate a new capacity for you… will it change your life? Republished"
It's an old website, more than 10 years ago it was my main blog. Most of it is still useful. 1
I have started to move the old blog posts, one by one, to my yourvibration.com site.
One of those posts reminded me, that until you get what I am writing in it, your future will be much like your past.
While I was researching for pictures, I found that what I am teaching is against the mainstream ineffective, all in the visible... the mind is powerful type of teaching.
Reality, if you watch a person, reality doesn't work the way THOSE people, those memes, those motivational speakers tell you it works. The nature of reality is that 90% of what moves anything or anyone, the CAUSE, is in the invisible/unconscious domain of life. Continue reading "How does your past get into your future… and make you repeat the same life"
What is an adult, what is a child... and does your ego-state (Child, Parent, Adult) influence how much money you have, how much love you have, how healthy you are? 1
In the starting point measurements I measure (#19) To what degree you have access to your adult capacities. 2 or asked in another way, how much does your adult run your life? The more adult the more results...
And how much is the child running your life, how much is it running your life to the ground?
One of the most surprising thing in the world of humans is that humans can't tell if they are smart or not. This error leads to lives that are not fulfilled, filled with fear, trepidation, or on the other extreme: boasting and disappointment. 1
I just watched two episodes of a Korean series where most people were dimwitted.
Dimwitted is just another word for "not smart"... but it is a good word because you can see that something is dimmed... as in "it's dark here... you can't see much".
I like this word because it is more accurate than most. Continue reading "Why you can’t tell if somebody is smart or not… Because in the dark all cats are gray"