If it is to be, it is up to me… what does it mean?

Depending on your level of thinking, you can use this amazing empowering statement to make yourself stuck and miserable.


What would make you stuck? If your cone of vision is too narrow, if your ability to see the forest for the trees is weak, then you’ll get stuck.

If you live life like you are an island… and many of you do!, then you WILL GET STUCK.

I have quite a few examples, because this kind of inability to use your brain usefully is quite frequent. Continue reading “If it is to be, it is up to me… what does it mean?”

The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?

As I promised, the next step in creating your life that discouragement is only a rare guest in, instead of a tenant…

I am going to start with a somewhat gossipy story: my conversation with my mentor, Gyõzõ Margóczi, the brilliant engineer who wrote the books “Feelings” and “Words”.

I suggested that he thinks about developing a feedback device, that gives you valuable feedback on your feelings… because being in touch and understanding the dynamics of feelings is the hardest thing for a regular human.

And everyone is a regular human… 🙁 Continue reading “The original sin… how you can stop paying, how can you stop suffering?”

Are your actions effective? Constructive? And if not, why?

instead of massive action, it is take effective actionsThis may be the most important article for you to read… Don’t complain that I didn’t warn you!

One of the things mainstream (all the gurus) get wrong is this: they consider you a constant in opportunities. Constant as in fixed… As if you were the same when you are afraid, and when you are confident…

You are not constant until you are on the vibrational level of above 900. How do I know? Because I can see the difference in me and in my ability to act constructively, even though I am above 900.

Let me explain: The YOU, the watcher, the Observer, the maker of decisions is not constant.

Even mainstream can see that, but they don’t know what changes when you go from putz, ineffective, flailing limp dick to someone who can take effective actions.

They think it has something to do with your beliefs. That if you implant a belief in you then you will see what to do, and you’ll know how to go about effective actions, including the seeing, the words, the strategy.

Or they may suggest that you have a blockage, and once it is removed, you’ll be an unstoppable champion.

Bull crap.

Beliefs have nothing to do with it. Blockages have little to do with it.
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“If it is to be, it is up to me”

il_fullxfull.284344111“If it is to be, it is up to me” The horizontal and vertical dimensions of life

Most people interpret that statement, that declaration, in a rah-rah, motivational slogan way.

But even when they use that narrow interpretation, they don’t commit to it, they don’t lock themselves in, they don’t burn the ships, they leave a back-door open, although they never tell the truth about it.

They have a secret addendum: if I feel like it, if my mind agrees, when I’ll feel confident enough, if the weather is nice, if it’s easy, if it doesn’t take too much of my time.
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Money, Well-Being, Work, Relationships… which area do you most want to become powerful?

ducklings-trying-new-thingsLast night I woke up in the middle of the night. I had a sudden insight, that is what woke me up.

I suddenly saw that I have been writing many of my articles as if what you want, what you are worried about, what keeps you up at night didn’t matter to me.

I broke out in cold sweat: that is the last thing I am about.

I want to give you what you want, what you need, and this is what this article is about.

The number one question that anyone on my site should ask themselves: why do I want to raise my vibration? What will become possible in my life if I do that?

putting-our-knowledge-togetherIf my feedback from students is any indication, the main issues you may be dealing with are

  • money
  • well-being
  • your work, job, and your performance and your satisfaction
  • Relationships/Love
  • Finding your work

Continue reading “Money, Well-Being, Work, Relationships… which area do you most want to become powerful?”