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Unfortunately for you, your emotions determine the quality of your life.
If you haven’t, please read part one and part two first…
‘They’ teach you to try to only have positive emotions, but guess what… you only try to have positive emotions on the top of negative ones…
The less emotions you have the higher the quality of your life… Surprised? It’s true.
Imagine you are a baby… You are happy. You are just here to eat and poop.
There is nothing you can or even have to do for yourself, you completely rely on other people, for security, for comfort, for sustenance, to clean you up… everything. Continue reading “How words create and sustain emotions… Emotional Intelligence Part 3”
Homo Sapiens, as a species, is pretty messed up. Everything sets its emotions off, and the specimen gets all emotional, angry, afraid, violent, or sad and depressed.
This emotional reactivity makes getting things done near impossible, learning, or having people together pretty hopeless.
Almost all diseases are a consequence of this phenomenon… people eat to soothe themselves. People eat to eat another out of their fortune. People eat to feel superior. People eat to get some enjoyment out of life.
And they eat to fix the damage that overeating caused, and do all kinds of unnecessary things to reduce the damage. Continue reading “You never feel bad about what you think you feel bad about”
The secret of being intelligent and staying intelligent
what is a secret?
keeping your head about you
just knowing is enough
next: 3 examples
You are going to understand this article on the level of your current accuracy… Be warned… it is probably less than 10%. Reading it more than once won’t help, only getting more distinctions into your tool box… accurately.
People don’t like to read… read and think… forget about it. The ones that do read and think will be the ones who win…
The English language uses feelings and emotions interchangeably. Anyone who believes that, looks through that lens has a clarity of less than 10%. It’s not a judgment: it’s a measurement.
Your effectiveness in life is a function of your clarity.
To increase your clarity, I’ll attempt to separate feelings from the emotions.
Feelings are sensations. They are for the survival of the species, including the individual. The terminology and the science for this article come partially from Margóczi’s book, Feelings, and partially from my internal observation on myself and on my clients. Because I am a True Empath, or however you’ll label me… I can feel and identify inner processes accurately, including the processes Margoczi has opened up for me about 16 months ago.
The purpose of feelings is to let the individual specimen know that there is something to pay attention to. The feeling also accurately identifies what to pay attention to… when life and Life are in harmony. All feelings intend the species’ survival and sur-thrival. Following the edict of Life: wanting more life.
The signals of feelings are worth learning… It’s a forgotten language largely overwritten with confusing and unclear signals. Continue reading “Marker feelings, or knowledge is power”
As a rule, I don’t have many marker feelings in a day.
A marker feeling is a feeling associated with a set of words… like “you are stupid” and then you feel bad.
Or “you are making a mistake” and you feel fear.
This morning I wanted to work on my presentation on tomorrow’s webinar: the remarkable system of getting to a life worth living… or whatever i called it in the email…
So, as it is totally normal, not a single cell of mine wants to do that work. It’s normal.
Doing something new, doing something public, upsets the ess… it’s not comfortable… it is not what I normally do day in and day out.
Now, if the work were to write an article… none of this would happen. But the webinar format is different… I cannot pause and think between sentences like when I write an article. It has to flow… and there is a fear… A fear of mucking it up. A fear of losing some subscribers. A fear of losing face. A fear of looking bad.
Normal. Not pleasant. Continue reading “Bridging… how to inch your way to your dreams”
I bet you want to be able to create with your word… right? But your attempts have been failed attempts…
Here is some clarification why that doesn’t work, even though you have the capacity… but it isn’t working.
I woke up early today. I woke up from probably the best-feeling dream I have ever had.
I was in some kind of exam, and I was compared, paired up, grouped with people who were decades younger, and miles below my knowledge level.
But they were home, and I was an alien. Alien to the country, not a space alien.
Anyway, there was this teacher, who worked with me… Forgot to say that the exam was in another language… not any of the languages I already speak.
The teacher and I worked. On the day of the exam I left him home to sleep, and went to the exam by myself. Continue reading “Become like god… create with your word… but how?”
Almost all bad feelings you have come as a result of your delusional self, your precious “I” is scared of being devalued.
It is as if you were a gold plated coin pretending to be solid gold, and life would be continually threatening you to reveal your fakeness.
I used to be like you. I felt that there was a big gap between my accomplishments and my abilities… and maybe there was.
But most importantly, every little error, every little mistake I made or even just faced!!! jerked me down a hellish path… filling me with dread, and fear, and remorse, and regret, and who even knows words for those horrible feelings.
And mistakes? I made plenty.
I misunderstood, I jumped into conclusion, I tried to do something too fast before I even saw what the heck I was supposed to do… Put my foot in the mouth… lol.
40+ times a day. Continue reading “What is the source of your bad feelings? The bad feelings you try to suppress or fix…”
Your expectations and your disappointments reveal to you and to everyone who knows anything about the unconscious world view that makes sure you are miserable.
You learned that the Universe, Reality, your body, other people are like a vending machine. Push a button and outcomes what you wanted.
Or a car, or an electric mixer. Mechanistic, there for your service.
Even the evil people, religion, law of attraction, manifestation people teach that… with one little twist: if you are good, then the machine will turn on and spit out what you wanted.
So these people with their little twist make it your own fault if and when it doesn’t work.
But what you think about the world and the way the world works are very different.
And you go from expectation to disappointment, anger, dismay, disgust… according to your temperament. Continue reading “The life of a pinball… or Your expectations and your disappointments”
I am reading this guy’s book. I say “this guy” because I don’t want you to read it. I want you to read my blog…
In a lot of ways he and I teach the same things, even though we use different words. He uses words from psychology and woowoo science… I use words like Amish Horse Training Method, Memes, Marker Feelings.
He is a money/marketing man. His vibration is 200, his accurate vocabulary is 600.
He is proof that you don’t have to have a very high vibration to be able to look from high enough so you see enough to make millions and even teach others to make millions. Continue reading “Why do you choose the shotgun method that doesn’t work, while you know that the process method works?”