I have found that the two kinds of freedoms, 1. freedom from and 2. freedom for are a team.
People have a different level of craving for one of these freedoms, and that's what drives their growth.
My stronger driver, for example, is 'freedom for'. And I liberated and empowered it in me from the moment I first heard the Rainer Maria Rilke 1 poem quoted on a Landmark event back in 1985... "If I don't manage to fly, someone else will. The spirit wants only that there be flying. As for who happens to do it, in that he has only a passing interest."
This is not my creation, and honestly, I haven't spent much time analyzing it either. But, just so you know, this is a Tree of Knowledge list... I, in my work, deal with the underlying attitudes, not personality traits...
Ultimately, every time you encounter something you don't want, don't like, don't agree with, your first reaction is resistance, i.e. not allowing what you don't like to be.
When you pretend to be different than you are, you are denying who you are... forceful. You don't allow yourself to be.
Now, what you do in the next moment will decide the rest of your life. Because every moment is the foundation of the next moment. Every moment is a new beginning, and the rest of your life is sitting on moments when you either resist or allow.
This article is not for everyone. If you haven't been a seeker, this is not for you. This article is quotes from an email conversation with a client who can't create a powerful blockage to energetic, malicious, attachments and spells...
What is your approach to spirituality? Feminine and Masculine?
Feminine is: waiting for it to come to you, passive.
Spirituality, access to the beyond, your relationship to life needs to be feminine... an agressive male approach will take you away from what you are trying to accomplish.
This whole topic came up because a student of mine needs to frequently cloak herself. She also wants to bubble.