One of the major differences between winners and losers; winners have the ability to look at reality, and look long enough so all the filters get revealed and you actually see things for what they are.
Another difference between winners and losers is that winners love setbacks, love failures, maybe even more than success. Losers love success and hate failures, or setbacks.
Being a winner or a loser is a WHO issue: it is not a WHAT issue, not a circumstantial, horizontal plane phenomenon: it is who you are.
Continue reading “Powerful Debriefing: How to be a winner regardless of your successes or failures”
Some people are afraid to make a mistake. They are paralyzed, or procrastinate… and in the end often don’t take action… and hate themselves for it.
I am one of these people.
And some of my clients are like this too.
In this article I will attempt to teach something I myself need to learn and then master.
Continue reading “Remembering the future meditation… for self-trust”
I lead a workshop on Sunday. I had knowledge, I had strategy. I executed it. It was sloppy. What was missing?
I didn’t know. But “god” works in mysterious ways, the book I am reading has an answer that shows me what has been missing for me on Sunday and all my life.
The book, Peak, the new science of expertise, calls it Mental Representation.
Mental Representation is being able to see the finished product in your mind’s eye, and also see the process getting there, so you can anticipate missteps, and can correct, given that you know how it is, how it looks when it is perfect.
Continue reading “Knowledge, Strategy, Execution, is that enough for success?”
Maxwell Maltz, the creator of the program and methodology Psycho Cybernetics, was a plastic surgeon. Plastic surgery, as a rule, is to make someone more beautiful.
Many of his patients, though, didn’t get what they hoped for. Everyone said that they were beautiful, but they could not see their new you, only the ugly that they wanted to get rid of.
We could say that they had a filter that allowed only the imperfections through. I think that this “theory” is more accurate than Maxwell Maltz’s theory of self-image.
Continue reading “Why do some people get fantastic results from the activators or the remedies and others get nothing or not much?”
The workshop is starting a week from today and it will take on new participants every month. I scheduled it for Easter Sunday… but to make up for it, I will give the first subscribers more attention… and it’s worth a lot more than what they are losing.
As I am preparing, emotionally, for the course, and the challenge to crack some hard nuts, difficult issues on the call, I have amped up my awareness, and I am starting to see stuff that I could not see before.
Now, in every interaction, the background intention I have: would I be able to create a custom activator for the other person, based on what I see in that conversation?
I am going to share with you a few distinctions, that without understanding those, you’ll not quite get how the activators work, and how soul correction works. That includes: how raising your vibration works.
Continue reading “The Evil Eye and the soul correction workshop or why the soul correction workshop isn’t for you?”
Living powerfully, what will it take to defy the odds?
Do you live powerfully? If the answer is yes, then I can tell you that you have a strong self-esteem.
What is your self-worth?
And I don’t mean how much you want to make an hour, a day, a week, or a year. What you want has nothing to do with self-worth!
Self-worth also has nothing to do with what you know, what you can do, what other people think you can do or can’t do. Self-worth is how much you think, deep inside, when the chips are down, when life looks hopeless, how much do you think you are worth then? Continue reading “Living powerfully, what will it take to defy the odds?”