The connection between misery and the level of your deep curiosity factor
I am reading the book “Curious” and I am looking at curiosity waxing and waning in my life, in different periods.
I am in the intensely curious phase. I am able to look at things that I don’t like, and I am seeing those things in a wide field of neutral or maybe even positive things… insignificant dot in the big picture.
The same things, in my incurious phases would drive me nuts, or depressed… maybe even suicidal. Or on a fixing campaign… ranting and raving.
Curiosity seems to be the factor that stands out the most between my miserable periods and my periods of life that are OK or maybe even enjoyable.
There are two types of curiosity, as I can see it:
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If I wanted to be popular, I would write about your weight, your money, or your love life.
But being popular is very overrated: it means being exposed to the dumb, ignorant, curiosity seeker… and thank you, I am not interested.
So I hope this article reaches at least a handful who isn’t that…
I like to believe that I am well rounded, inquisitive, curious, and well read…
And today I had to find out that in some regards I am as clueless and ignorant as most people.
I stumbled upon a movie, Consumed, that shook me to my core…
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I have always liked getting things done. Why? Because everything that doesn’t get done is like an energetic attachment, like a ball and chain on your ankle, slows you down, and prevents you from soaring… having a good time, feeling free and unencumbered.
I don’t like those feelings, so I learn, test, experiment with methods that allow me to be free.
I even like to be lighter in weight because I don’t like to be heavy in any way, including physically.
I handle problems, issues, doubts, the same way… handle them so the weights can disappear.
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When I owned the magazine I published for 10 years, I was looking to hire an assistant.
One of the test assignments I gave to the applicant is to sort the stuff in a junk drawer. I gave them no pointers… it was a big drawer, a lot of things to sort.
Every single applicant failed to find something relevant to sort by. I finally hired a girl who was nice, but useless…
Sorting is a life skill. Deciding on a relevant criteria to sort by is a life skill.
I learned life-skills in Landmark Education.
Previously I was like a nerd, an idiot savant.
One of the life-skill I learned is to be able to keep to what is relevant, to what belongs to the conversation.
In meetings at Landmark, they choose a “conversation manager”.
The two jobs of the conversation manager is to
- keep people to say only what belongs to the conversation
- to make sure that everything said forwards the conversation towards resolution.
I am always dumbfounded by people’s inability to see what belongs to a conversation.
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Are you a nerd?
In life you are either a nerd or you are a floater.
The two most important characteristics of a nerd is that they know what is most important to them, and that they love it.
I always wanted to be Renaissance man, because for me, choosing, committing was the hardest. I even picked architecture because I had the illusion that architects need to know everything. And that may be true, that they need to know everything, but it is also true, that they don’t.
And especially they don’t use words to express, and I wanted to.
So I suffered through five years of university and 17 years of working as an architect… until I chose and committed to a profession that needed my words…
When you know what is important to you, then it is easier to organize a life around it. Then your life becomes a workshop.
What prevents a lot of people from living a life worth living is that they don’t choose their priorities, they are chosen for them.
By other people.
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