What are you building with that?
This question was my absolute favorite in Landmark Education's Communication Course...
I have tried to ask it of people outside of Landmark, and the answers I always got was puzzled silence.
So, what am I asking here?
Well, you are always building something. A more popular but less precise way of saying the same thing: you are always creating something... creating yourself, creating your life, every moment. Continue reading "What are you building with that?"
Why? Because the majority is always wrong.
In most cases majority/minority is an extreme proportional inequality: 98-99% to 1~2%
The other extreme is: 90% to 10%, meaning: the "good, productive, true" is never higher than 10%.
There was an Italian economist and sociologist Vilfredo Pareto (1848–1923) who noticed this pattern: that the distribution of income, brain, etc. is not even, not equal, but grossly unequal.
They call this the Pareto's Principle or the 80-20 principle, but if you are a stickler for precision, like I am, you will know that my numbers are closer to how it is than 80-20. Continue reading "The more popular something is, the more likely that it is low vibration, and not true."
It is projects that give substance to life, give you a reason to get up in the morning, other than that you didn't die the night before, or that you have to go to the bathroom.
If you are bored, if you are listless, if you are stuck, if life has lost its taste, it's because you don't have a viable and worthy project.
This is most of you, because this is most of humanity.
A project is something with a specific, measurable, public result in the end. It is also nested in the larger project that is your life, but also larger projects that have the same direction, but are longer term with loftier end result.
I have a friend. We've just recently created an alliance: we support each other in our goal to build a new business. He builds one for himself, I build one for myself. For fun and profit.
We talk on Skype. He teaches me more about people and about what might be the reason people are underachievers than anyone before... not because he is especially screwed up, but because of the context: we talk to build... different from my normal calls, which are coaching calls... got it?
Here are the things I am learning about what is missing to be a winner, to successfully build something new:
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Raising your vibration happens through doing things that you wouldn't do without the intention to raise your vibration.
Coaching is making you do what you need to do, but don't want to, that will get you what you desire.
Often any deviation from the normal, the accepted, the habitual, the regular, the easy, the socially acceptable is all you need to open up and allow you to glimpse at dormant capacities. Or alternatively see your need for capacities that you don't have but could start to desire.
This is exactly what I did to be the pioneer and the guinea pig of the grand DNA upgrade. It took me 27 years, because I was the first. It will take you less time, but you need to work at it. It is not given to you, you need to earn it, just like one digs out gold, one grows their food, one brings up a child. A lot of work, and the results are never promised. So unless you fall in love with the process, you will hate it, you will stop, and you won't get what you thought desired.
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Why is it that once really effective, brilliant, and spot on spiritual and transformational teachers are not able to come up with technologies and distinctions that would transform the participants in their courses into accomplishing, fulfilled, and satisfied mavens? Why is that?
I had some unexpected glimpses into this today, and I am going to share them as fast as I can, before they disappear for me.
Continue reading "What’s Missing In Teachings That Most People Can’t Get Any Results? Fraud? Deception? Blindness?"