Sometimes when you poke around you find stuff you didn't want to find, didn't want to know, you'd rather not know. But if you know it, if you are willing to face it: you have a new lease on life... So read it.
This article will lose a good percentage of my readers, it's so sacra-religious, it's so profoundly upsetting.
I am guided to watch movies, especially hit TV series. It is hard to tell what I am going to see, while I am watching them, hours after hours, on Netflix, but I know how it works, and I know that unless I start to see stuff that my life isn't giving an insight into, I will not be able to distinguish for you all the ways that the enslavement, that caused you to be miserable, does its job.
This is a long article, and a work in progress... I am still working out this whole issue: I guess it is my life's work. So if occasionally I don't make sense, cut me some slack, will you? If I jump around... please just know that eventually I'll say what I need to say, and I'll make sense.
The reason humanity (and your life) looks the way it looks is because you are a coward.
What do I mean by that? Some people know that they are cowards, some people suspect that they may be cowards, but most people don't know and don't give a rat's ass if they are cowards or not.
Before I get into the meat of the article, I'd like to share what happened in Israel during and after the War of Independence, lasting about 20-25 years.
Most new immigrants lived in kibbutzim, and in kibbutzim, a kind of "collective" the children spend most of their times in children's houses. They slept there too. Once a week they spent some time with their parents (actually I don't know how frequently, OK?)
99% of the children who grew up in the kibbutzim became emotionally healthy, powerful youth and adults.