In numerology, each number has a special meaning... and even the components of your final destiny number...
My main number is 7, my secondary number is 4.
I like 4. Four symbolizes a chimney: there is only one way to go: up.
Most numbers have sideways moves... and that is what most people do to avoid growing. To avoid what it takes, work, pain, telling the truth... avoiding these at all cost... even if the cost is everything and anything they ever wanted...
So as a coach, I have to take them to a magical turning point: I need to force them to hit bottom. If they let me... 🙁
One of my pet peeves, one of my biggest complains, one of my unsolvable conundrums has been the issue of "flash in the pan results." 1
Excitement, enthusiasm, motivation, the tools of the motivational speakers lasts about three days... they the humdrum days return with the disappointment, despair, and hopelessness.
Transformation and a new view of life results from transformational programs like Landmark Education. But yesterday's transformation is today's arrogance, or today's despair... the results are rare and short term...
For most of my life I knew I could not care, but no matter how bad it felt, I still could not care. I thought I was the worst person alive, a bad bad bad person. I was sure everybody else could care, only I could not.
I didn't know, that caring was not part of my DNA. But as I was raising my vibration, at some point I experienced caring, in a way I invented caring. Maybe I wasn't the first person to care, but I was now part of a very small minority, the people who can care, who can love, who can respect. But I still didn't know I was different... I thought I just became like everyone else, finally.
Spiritual practices are the tools we have to activate our capacities, including the new capacities just received on September 4-5.
The expression, spiritual practice, has two parts:
Practice: something you do again and again, until it becomes second nature to you. Like driving. Like touch-typing, like reading. First it is chunky, you need all you got to perform the task, and you experience more failures than successes, like in learning to ride a bicycle... in learning to walk.
Our lives, what we are allowed to do, see and know, is not that much different from what you see in the movies "The Truman Show" or "The Matrix" and we are policed, rigorously, and incessantly.
And the policing forces are also "sheep" and have no idea about the truth, about their own status...
So, humanity, in lack of real information, to understand and make what they see easier to handle, easier to be with, invented an imaginary world of explanations, gods, spirits, angels... just to be able to make sense of what they needed to deal with.
The upgrade of the human DNA is done, and now every person on the planet has the missing 13 capacities as part of their DNA, permanently.
I find myself reluctant to say anything. I find myself reluctant to write, and that feels weird after having written seven thousand pages in the past two years. After having worked on the distinguishing of these missing capacities for 10 years...
My dilemma is that just because you can, you still haven't changed. And unless you change your behavior, unless you do what it takes to activate those new capacities, nothing will change. Nothing.
You are still listening with the old mindset. And you ARE your mindset, and no new capacity will change that. No new information will change that. Only new action will change that.
The choice, for me, is to be inspiring or truthful. It always has been the choice, I just could not see it.
The key to growth is noticing... The key to raising your vibration is awareness
"Dear Astrology Guy: Please tell me why I have to work so hard -- meditate, reflect, read, analyze, poke, prod, investigate -- to discover truths about myself that must be obvious to others. Why is it so hard for me to see where I need healing and where I need to let go? Why is it such an ordeal to grasp what is interfering with my wholeness when I can quickly pinpoint what other people's issues are? -Overworked Virgo." Dear Overworked: I'm happy to report that you will soon be offered a gush of revelations about who you are, how you can heal, and what strategies will best serve your quest to minimize your anxiety. Are you prepared to absorb some intense teachings? For best results, make yourself extra receptive.
Now, if you are like me, you want to raise your vibration! You don't want to wait for the "right alignment of the planets" to be able to heal, or minimize your anxiety, get guidance, etc. You want to do it now, if possible. You can if you concentrate on raising your vibration instead of all the details.
Brilliance, Digging For Gold, SoulDesire, And Eavesdrop On My Private Conversations...
I was on the phone with a friend of mine this morning. We started out in a mastermind. Every other member fell away, but we have been talking, every Sunday at 9 am, for seven years now.
In mastermind, the most important ingredient is: you get to say what's up, out loud and be heard. This is really important, because the people in your life can't hear you: they have too much past that interferes, too much vested interest in the way: they will not be able to hear you. But on a mastermind of people with no investment in you being anything other than you are, you can speak, and you can be heard.
I heard somewhere, I can't remember when, can't remember where, that "It is hard to be silently brilliant, lots of thoughts occur when you open your mouth."