Either everybody counts or nobody counts... this is the principle that makes Michael Connelly's books so dear to me. Obviously, to me, that labels me as a commie, a Democrat, a lefty... but I really don't care... It's your issue, not mine. My job is to be true to my principles.
I like crime novels. Most of them are clean and most of them go into the details that allow me to be forced to ride on the surface, to turn the page too eagerly, but stay on the page I am on: savoring it. Rare to find books like that.
No FOMO, I am where I am supposed to be. No desire to be anywhere else, doing anything other than what I am doing.