How do you cook frogs?
You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it.
The way you cook frog is the surest way to change.
Wild turns, jumps, dramatic workshops are dramatic, but ineffective.
Most things you want to change are stuck on the genetic level. All the behaviors are lined up neatly, like apples on an apple cart.
Continue reading “Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results speak for themselves.”
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I have been having a difficult time writing enough about any one topic to finish one article… Meaning I have six articles started, and can’t or won’t finish them.
What’s going on?
I am afraid.
That’s new FEARLESS Sophie, tell me more?
Some of the things that are being shown to me recently are polarizing. Dividing people. Will make some, maybe many people angry.
The truth hurts. And when something hurts, it is natural to go to victim mode, effect mode, and point a blaming finger at someone. At me.
So I have been cowardly, and have been sitting on the fence.
But today I think I’ll overcome the inertia, and say what there is to say.
OK, it’s about vibration, capacities, and what you can get or not get, what you can use, what is going to work for you or not, depending on your numbers. When I measure your Starting Point Measurements, I give you a recommendation. It is not cookie cutter… I actually look what would be a step that you can take. Occasionally I say: I don’t recommend anything. That is a bad sign… 🙁 Continue reading “Are my articles hard to understand?”
When The Monster Comes Out And Starts Doing Monster Stuff: What Will You Do? How will you raise your vibration back up?
This is a five years old article… but for some reason it came up on my screen today… and it is apropos…
A client was yelling at me. The article about the ass grabbing famous man…
Please be aware that the monster doesn’t sleep.
The wife who has since calmed down… but for a few weeks carried on daily… If you are reading this: I am OK, but it’s not useful for me to deal with this… I appreciate how you got the point…
Not everyone gets the point.
The long time student who left, in anger. Has canceled everything, including her facebook account. Must be really angry… the monster came out.
Continue reading “Updated: When The Monster Comes Out And Starts Doing Monster Stuff: What Will You Do? How will you raise your vibration back up again?”
If you want to be successful, you need to start where you are.
But if you don’t know where you are, or mistakenly think you are somewhere else than where you actually are, you will never get to where you want to get to… NEVER.
This includes your knowledge level, your skill level, your experience level, and your level of consciusness or your vibrational frequency.
The only reliable way I know is to tell someone’s vibration accurately is to muscle test while truly connected to Source, by a person whose vibration is past ego… on or above the level of unconditional love.
That doesn’t mean you can’t have clues…So that you can get a ballpark estimate of where you are or where another person is…
Stages of consciousness… metaphor by what can you see, accurately… how much of the context you see, both in time and in width
- .buried or in a well
- .in the basement
- .street level
- .street level but inside a house
- .second floor of a building, no windows
- .second floor of a building, with sound isolating windows.
- third floor
- fourth floor
- ..lots of floors….
- penthouse: lookout point.
Continue reading “What is your level of consciousness, what is your vibrational frequency? How can you tell?”
If you are a student and you pick and choose what to read, you’ll end up with an incomplete knowledge of what I teach.
It’s like learning some letters of the alphabet, and not the others…
If that is you, please examine your reasons of being on this site, and start telling the truth: you are not here to become all you can become, you are here to consume.
What do I mean?
The world has two types of people, the producers and the consumers. This is obviously just one way to look at people, but it is a very interesting angle, you’ll see. Because their behavior, their principles, their mindset is very different. Continue reading “You want money? Are you a producer or are you a consumer?”
People ask: what is the spiritual practice, the spiritual work that allowed me to climb up to the skinny branches of the Tree of Life, and allowed so many spiritual capacities to turn on? To raise my vibration…
All these years I’ve been asked, and all these years I didn’t know what to answer. I didn’t know what to suggest that you do, that I did, until this morning.
This morning, while and after I was leading the workshop “What’s missing” I realized something profound:
Life is not set up to challenge you to turn on new capacities. The box you live in has no room for new capacities, and offers no challenges.
So how are you going to grow?
You can learn to swim by being thrown to the deep end of the pool, and it’s life or death… sink or swim. Not a pleasant experience, and will probably scare you away from swimming again, for life.
This is when the need for a new capacity is thrown at you. You are unprepared, and you are not at your best… because of fear. Incoherent, and reactive.
It is too late to dig a well when you are thirsty… and it is too late to summon empathy, or courage, or resiliency, or other capacities when you need it, unless you already have it.
This is how it works with capacities.
Continue reading “What is the spiritual work I did to raise my vibration? You can do it too…”
Yesterday I wrote an article, and asked you to recommend a course of action for the mother in the article with the female child…
Many of you have asked me before: how can I raise my vibration? What shall I do to build skills? Where should I start to find my life’s work that I would love to do?
My standard answer has been: keep alert, keep aware, life is full of training and growth opportunities. You take a path, keep your eyes open, and grow in the process.
Taking that challenge, placing yourself in the position of the mother was an excellent way for you to see if you have been giving lip service to growth or you are actually committed to grow.
Continue reading “Want to become an expanding human being? Suggestions: Act like one!”
You want to raise your vibration? Don’t know how to do it?
I talk to at least ten of you, readers, every day, through email. The question is always: but what do I do to raise my vibration?
The answer, when I give it to most of you, goes right over your head. We are like two trains passing each other in the night… I am not getting through to most you and therefore I can’t make a difference for you. But why is that?
This is what this article is about… so read it, and read it a few times, until it’s crystal clear.
Continue reading “Raise your vibration. What should be your first steps?”
The illusion of progress
I had a rude awakening this morning. The illusion of progress, the illusion of doing something that works hasn’t left me untouched either.
In my coaching session this morning I woke up, I woke up from my illusion. The illusion that people understand what it takes to grow, what it takes to become an expanding human being, the illusion that people know anywhere what the work entails.
I think this illusion is shared by quite a few teachers, but not being alone is not a consolation, it’s just a fact.
Continue reading “Awakening: the one practice that takes you all the way to enlightenment”
People search for that, the vibration of money… I guess because “gurus” say: get into the vibration of what you want.
Great sentence, except it doesn’t mean anything… and therefore it is impossible to follow.
But if, for a moment, I didn’t mock it, but started to look what it might mean that could be useful is this: although money doesn’t have vibration, it has some rules it follows, it has some strong likes and dislikes. And it is worth knowing those, if you intend to increase the amount of money that flows through you.
Continue reading “What is the vibration of money? More on abundance, more on money”