How to fall in love with yourself… the narrow and strait path to happiness

Why? Why would you want to love yourself?

When you love yourself: you love your life. And that is the closest we know to be a happy person.

And you want to be happy, right? It feels like your birthright. Even though I can't specifically point at anyone who is happy... it IS your birthright.

Birthright or not birthright, we all want to be happy... even though no one has been able to explain how to become happy... so it seems that it will remain a desire... never to be fulfilled. Hope and hopeless... or resigned is our dominant state.

The closest experience to happiness is contentment, with life, with yourself.

When you love yourself you love your life... but how can you?

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How to have self-love? And why? and do narcissists love themselves?

How to have self-love? And why?

I have been struggling with this forever. Somewhere in the deep recesses of my mind there is a huge resistance to it...

I listen in... I don't even have to put a pillow on my head... I can now hear it, just need to listen.

--You are not perfect... yet
--If you ever loved yourself you would stop striving
--If you loved yourself then you would be selfish

There may be more... these are memes. Mind viruses.

All untruth perpetuated to keep people unhappy, not loving themselves. Not being on their own side.

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