Learning is humbling. Especially humbling is learning about yourself, and learning about your need to change
Your Precious "I", (whether you believe it or not, whether you know it or not, the precious "I" is in every single person,) and it wants to have and retain the self-image unchanged, the self-image that says you know everything. It wants to keep the self-image where it is superior. Where you are OK.
It is easier to see it on others than on yourself.
Every learning means that you, by necessity, that you didn't know something. Continue reading "Jacob’s Ladder: Learning is humbling. Why do you need humility to learn anything new?"
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The consolation prize you get, instead of a rich and fulfilling life
We all have it... unnoticed, unidentified, undistinguished, sneaking past your conscious awareness, the strings that make you a puppet on a string, robbing you of your life, using it for its own purposes... laughing at you. I can hear the laugh.
The racket. The insidious, ubiquitous racket.
It is a machine... and it is powered by an unfulfilled and unfillable desire, I call The Itch... the itch that cannot be scratched.
The desire for attention, for significance, for winning every transaction, for love, for filling your gaping hole inside. Continue reading "Why it is normal to be miserable: the itch you are trying to scratch"
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I woke up today feeling good about myself.
Why mention it? Because feeling good about myself is not as frequent as one would think... I could say: I felt better about myself than normal.
Feeling good about yourself is the basis of self-love... that being at home feeling we all crave, but most of us have no idea how to get.
It was, that craving, expressed yesterday by the participants of my workshop to ferret out the issues of the self and brainstorm about a direction that could pull you out of the issue.
Direction, pull you out? Yeah.
Some 16 years ago I was doing a course in New York City, and I was commuting there from Syracuse NY, every week. It was the snowiest winter in my memory. One time I drove down during the day... normally I drove at night when the traffic was sparse. A drive faster and more confidently in snow that others.
And my attitude was: get out of my way! A mix of angry, hurried, superior... not pretty. And suddenly my car slipped to the left and slipped into the snow bank. Continue reading "I woke up today feeling good about myself… so? what is the big deal?! Right?"
One of my students is asking a really good question.
She has two friends whose soul correction is Forget Thyself... and she has a good relationship with me... and I have that same soul correction.
Sophie, after I read your last article I checked my last 2 friends' soul corrections. My one friend who pushed me to a certain level had a soul correction Forget Thyself. My friend now, whom I met this year, also has a soul correction Forget Thyself. Interesting. Do we get attracted to certain soul corrections or maybe we get along better with some soul corrections that matches our soul correction?
The answer is not that simple.
- We know that we have two selves. One self doesn't change. We can call it the soul. Or the Self. Or whatever you want to call it, it is unchanging. It is the same in you, it is the same in me... it is, maybe, the Self of what's possible for the human species...
- Obviously your other self is far from that, it is changing, it is reactive, put together, selfish, and complaining, and haughty, and bossy... all the things you see everywhere.
You are BEING that other self. Continue reading "What is a soul-mate? Who is your soul-mate? Are they unconditionally nice-nice, or accepting?"
I wrote this article in 2015. I am republishing it... because it is important to read now... given the next article I just wrote... It will make it easier to get.
Here I am this cool Saturday morning, weeping.
I observe. What is there? Pain, definitely. Sense of loss, yes. Sadness, no. Regret, no. Resentment, no.
I have had a hard life. The hardest part is the last 30 years. Maybe 33... Since I left Hungary.
In Hungary I had friends. I had people who would want me around, who would walk with me, who would vouch for me.
Continue reading "Weeping looking back at the path — republished"
Remember that episode in the Columbo series where he is in the movie theater and suddenly everyone wants to get a coke... and that is what helps him catch the killer?
That was the time when scientists discovered that the brain can see stuff that you cannot consciously see and act on it. Subliminal, I think, they called it.
The Voices, The Dark Side mostly uses subliminal techniques on you. More of that a little later, but first let me share with you a principle of mine:
If there is a memorable idea, a memorable teaching in a book, a movie, a conversation, something that I'll use decades later, then it was worth reading, it was worth watching.
That is an attitude vastly different from the attitude in vogue: where you are digging, searching for the memorable.
Continue reading "Are The Voices subliminal? Talking to your other than conscious brain?"
When you change the way you see things, the things you see change!
The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.
I have a disproportionately large number of people asking for their numbers, whose soul correction is "Sexual Energy"
I could ponder why the Kabbalist named the soul correction that... but instead of that I'll say: How you do anything is how you do everything... meaning whatever your attitude to one thing in life, will be visible in every area of life, including sex.
The main attitude of this soul correction, "Sexual Energy" is: It is my due. One may say "I deserve it". I heard the expression "Magiya li" in Israel a lot.
We all think about certain things, we all view certain privileges as a right, as a due, as an "of course", but the nature of reality dares to differ. Continue reading "How does your Soul Correction prevent you from getting to a life worth living?"
From time to time a student or client confides in me that they resent being told what to do.
I find that really funny, especially when they paid me well for telling them what to do.
But such is human nature... or is that human nature?
This question is what this article is about. How do you know it is you and not some addon making your decisions for you? Continue reading "Who and what is making your decisions, your attitude, your behavior?"
New insight: 10/10/2019
This soul correction is easiest to recognize by their tendency to seek attention. Maybe to reassure them that they are wanted, that they are OK? I don't know... We shall see. I'll report back here when I can see it.
Today (9/29/2016) I saw something I did not see before... And it surprised me, and filled with compassion.
The seed level, the dominant belief of this soul correction is that something inherently wrong with them, and that they are worthless.
Of course it is not the truth, it's a dominant belief you are born with... I have traces of it, and my soul correction is "Forget Thyself"... and every achievement, every accomplishment I had for 50 years or more was to fix it.
It cannot be fixed because it is not true. And therein lies the problem: what do you do with something that is not fixable?
Unevolved "Removing Hatred" people hide it. And they pay a price. A big price. I have two people in my family with this soul correction... one died at age 40, the other, her mother, is severely ill... self-denial... leading to Parkinson's disease.
So just know: it is urgent to look this beast to the eye, and say f... it. I am going to do things that are worth doing, even if I AM worthless...
This is what I did. And worthlessness, surprisingly withdrew. It didn't disappear, but it doesn't run my life as much as it did before.
Continue reading "Soul Correction: Removing Hatred"
The nature of "revelation" is that you get a glimpse beyond the veil, then the veil closes.
People who talk about "grand" revelations are filling in the gaps in sight and memory with their imagination, that is why most things you read have a very low truth value. 1%-10%... very few over 20%.
So what is the process that allows revelation to create a system of higher truth value?
My experience has been that experimentation, using the fresh and dramatic information as a starting point, you start to poke the edges of the unknown and get little bits of new information. Thus you enlarged the "hole" but not with your imagination, but with truth.
This is my method. It takes time, it takes creativity, it takes all I got. And it takes willing participants who are willing for me to experiment with them.
Continue reading "People who say the whole truth was revealed to them are lying. Even if their name was Moses…"