The 3 levels of value: an amazing process to love yourself

In this article I’ll teach you something that has the potential to turn you into a happy, joyful person. No kidding.

Also, it can serve as the bridge between human and human being…

From that you can guess: the distinctions in this article are high level.

At present, if you are a ‘normal’ human, you are judging yourself and others. You are miserable, wretched, prone to get happy, get sad, get depressed at the drop of a hat. Continue reading “The 3 levels of value: an amazing process to love yourself”

How you can use the beluga whale that loves to scare people

Knowledge is only rumor until it is in the muscle‘ ~ New Guinea Proverb

A recurrent emotional state always appears together with the attitude of the body…‘ ~ Moshe Feldenkrais

If I could say it I wouldn’t have to dance it.‘ ~ Isadora Duncan

Juno a beluga whale that loves scaring people
by u/m3nation007 in funny

We’ll use the beluga whale that loves to scare people later in this article, but for now… some context.

A few years ago a dude paid me to measure his vibration. Then he went and shared it publicly on a big website, something like light warriors, I don’t remember. Or starseed something.

I read just now that considering one a starseed, a cross between an alien and a human is fueled with radical individualism. whatever that means.

On my website, in this reality based work we call that the delusion of being special. Being special beyond being an unrepeatable human…

That is the ‘angle’ of wanting to be special…

While very rich…

very successful humans do special things that are only special because most others don’t do it…

…instead of just wanting to be special for no reason.

So when Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon.com asked what new things will come, he answered that instead of the new things which are not predictable, he recommended focusing and putting energy into what won’t change. People will want fast shipping, larger selection, good customer service, he said, and that way of thinking made him a billionaire many times over.

focusing and putting energy into what won’t change

But for that you need to look outside, beyond yourself…

I have found that looking, thinking outside of yourself is the hardest thing for today’s human. And when they occasionally do, because I ask them, or they are in some challenge, they come back and are thrilled. It was an event. An incident.

But they never do it again.

But why? If it allows for peace, quiet, and harmony… If it allows for peace of mind, generosity, real contribution… then why?

When you watch the white beluga clip, you’ll see that each child reacts slightly differently. How do you know? Because their body reaction, body movements give away what their emotional reaction is.

And you don’t know that, but I’ll tell you:

you’ll repeat that bodily and emotional reaction throughout your life, leading to the same emotional state

The emotional state I call your ‘home page’ because that incident puts in motion a ‘machine’ or machine-like dynamic that is going to repeat that scenario: reaction to something… doing whatever you did in the first incident… and then you get to the home page conclusion.

A cycle of that machine.

Mine starts with surprise. Confusion. Then I scramble. Overwhelm. And end up devastated. Discarded. Worthless. That is where I end up. Devastated. Discarded. Worthless.

Not a good script. I am currently in the confusion phase… just beginning the scramble phase.

Most people’s home page is worthless.

Why? Inside the systemic value system you are either excellent or horrible. Valuable or worthless. Valued or discarded.

And we are all born with a systemic judgment capability only. The additional dimensions are added later… if ever.

I just measured eleven of my clients.

And have come to the conclusion that the more you have been able to be in the higher value system, the more dimensions things, people, events are perceived by you the higher your chances for success.

What do I call success? Whatever YOU call success. I don’t have a measure for that. you get to say.

If you want money as the measure of success? Then success means money, and that is what I measure. If it is fulfillment, or love, or health. then that is what I measure. I don’t even have to know. Source knows.

Five of the eleven haven’t even peeked outside of the systemic. They live inside the right/wrong paradigm. No success is possible there.

The rest are between 10% and 70%.

Only when you have experienced, not as an event, but as a different world, the world with more dimensions than two, are you going to go for giving any heed, any attention, any importance to the other.

The way to come out of that deeeeeeeeeeeeep ditch

The way to come out of that deeeeeeeeeeeeep ditch, the ditch of the binary, is to make frequent efforts to give a hoot about how others feel. Darn. lol

The capacity to do that is The Sight, and specifically the Driftwood, which is an aspect of The Sight.

Obviously the client who did the most work with that capacity is the one with the 70% score.

You can only grow gradually.

The light warriors, the starseed are all stuck in the binary, if you have been wondering. It’s all about them. Maybe some of them are exceptions, but only a very few.

Now, back to the white beluga video: Pay attention to the body of the children. The head, the neck, the shoulders…

Experiment with your own. And watch as the predictable emotion arises. and if you are not careful, the machine runs a full cycle, and you’ll end up on your home page.

The emotion. The worthlessness. Hopelessness. Resignation.

Did you do it?

Please comment below or send me in email what was your LAST emotion. your home page. I’ll muscletest for you if you followed instruction or not.

Meanwhile, tomorrow, Saturday July 29 at 5 pm my time we’ll have a workshop to experiment if you can move your body in different ways to get different emotions…

It is a worthwhile learning. Why? Because if you can get that your emotions are embedded in body positions, then you can always do a reset. an intentional state change, and free yourself from that pesky trigger for your machine.

Wouldn’t it be worth for you?

If you have been always ending at worthless. beating yourself up. giving up on yourself. You wouldn’t have to. You would be able to continue with your projects, and build a life you love.

Yeah.

Learn to counter your emotional trigger

Being judgmental is connected to your health number

  • One of my students got offended when I suggested that she does her homework instead of having excuses. She left and she stopped visiting my site… I felt the ‘F… you’ from her… When I asked if she was angry, she said… ‘No, I just need to grow thicker skin…‘ Her health number is 7%.
  • One of my students took two years to finally get employment. In her last job she felt judged… for being different. She is Chinese in a predominantly White country. Once I adjusted her diet… she is flying. She went from 10% to 50% in her health number.
  • Another student is judgmental and doesn’t listen. She lives in systemic judgment of black OR white… even in the areas of food, marriage, children, smart… not a single step outside of it. Her health number is 7%.

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Astuteness? Nah, You are making Decisions Emotionally?

emotional decisionsI wrote this article about making decisions emotionally back in 2013… and reading it was amazing: I actually now see how far I have come…

OK, here is the original article:

You are not stupid, you are just making your decisions emotionally

‘If you want to live with the masses, think emotionally. If you want to live with the middle class, think positively. If you want live with the world class, think critically.’ –Steve Siebold Continue reading “Astuteness? Nah, You are making Decisions Emotionally?”

Knowledge is not enough… what’s missing?

  • Unless it’s accurate knowledge… i.e. true, tested, from an accurate source.
  • Unless you know what you learned… unless you know what you know… you didn’t learn anything.
  • And unless what you leaned changes your behavior, inside or outside, nothing will change.
All learning is behavior modification, modifying behavior to become more fit to life, to play the game of life better, for yourself and for the human race.
As a coach, unless I modified your behavior, I didn’t do anything.
So how do you modify behavior?

The process starts with an insight. The more energy is in the insight, the more energy you can or are willing to bring to the insight, the easier it will be to make the modification. Continue reading “Knowledge is not enough… what’s missing?”

How will increasing the accuracy of your vocabulary lead you to a fuller experience of life, joy, purpose?

Yesterday I had a conversation where I had a number of opportunities to see how and what way your unclarity, your vocabulary, shows up, not as a theory, but as a reality.

How it prevents you from seeing reality, or hearing what is being said.

It was somewhat new to me, so if it was new to me, it will be really new to you.
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Are you disappointed with yourself for not being higher minded, and achieving more in life?

be an empty spotFor years I’ve seen that humans, humanity, are stuck in a place where happiness is impossible, accomplishment is not predictable, and health is touch and go.

I’ve had big hopes, selfish hopes, that I will be the one to unstuck you.

Lots of other people have this hope… and the hopes remain hopes, because you have a vested interest to keep what keeps you stuck in place? If we knew what keeps you stuck, maybe we could unstuck you.

This article is an attempt to identify that one thing. The linchpin issue.
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3 levels of value. Use it to fall in love with yourself

Coconut Is it good for you?How do you use the three levels of value in your “real” life to fall in love with yourself?

The article asking: where do you look to define your value got a lot of “hits” and comments.

Reading the answers I saw that some fundamental distinctions are missing, in spite of the fact that I have written about all of those before, on this blog.

So after reading the article about the three levels of value, you probably start to see a little bit the difference how the different levels of value change what assessment you make, how your appraisal, evaluation, estimation, measurement, judgment will be, looking from that level.

So let’s look a little deeper and see with examples how that looks.

Where you are speaking from is as important as what kind of value you are judging.

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How to BE be with anything – the secret path to happiness and power

big-boy-pantiesA few days ago I wrote an article revealing to you that adhering to a “no negativity” concept, you are actually strengthening the ranks of the Dark Side.

At least one reader got the point, and is now attempting to increase her capacity to stay present, to not run away, to not hide, when ugly shows up. And by ugly, I mean all kinds of uglies, selfish, evil, cruel, rude, angry, vicious, terrifying… you know which ones you run most from, don’t you?

I also published an article a week or two ago about being astute. Astute is the ability and practice to tell one thing from another, with precision. To define something accurately. To see things for what they are.

Now, not surprisingly, the two issues are really one issue.

When you turn away, when you run away, when you avoid…

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From surviving life to real living… add the big picture

the-big-pictureWhatever works… Or how to go from surviving life to real living by expanding your horizons to the big picture

You can’t argue with results… yet, we (you and I) catch ourselves not ever looking at the results, instead we look at something else… Continue reading “From surviving life to real living… add the big picture”